Ungaphikisani namaqiniso. Imizwa ayinangqondo. Ubungeke ulindele ukuthi ukuqashwa okusha kwazi ukuthi ungayithola kanjani indlu yokugezela uma kungekho muntu obatshele ukuthi ikuphi ngaphambili futhi akufanele ulindele ukuthi ingane yazi ukuthi isingathwa kanjani imizwa, ngokungagwegwesi, usenezinkinga okufanele ubhekane nazo ngoba awukaziqondi okwamanje.
Ungazami ukulungisa izinto ngokushesha. Kufanele wazi ukuthi ungumlingani ophephile ngaphambi kokuxazulula noma yini. Ukuqonda kumele kwandulele izeluleko futhi, njengakubantu abadala, bayanquma ukuthi ukuqonde nini.
Kubalulekile ukwamukela yonke imizwa, kepha hhayi yonke indlela yokuziphatha. Uma weqa ngokushesha ekuxazululeni inkinga, ingane ayilokothi ifunde ikhono lokuthi ingabhekana kanjani naleyo mizwa engakhululekile.
Yiba umuntu onozwela futhi uvumele izingane zakho zikhulume. Basize ngezikhathi ezithile ukusula, ukuqinisekisa imizwa yabo kepha ungakwamukeli ukuziphatha okubi. Badinga ukuzwa ukuthi uyayiqonda ngempela imizwa yabo nokuthi useceleni kwabo. Thatha umoya ojulile, phumula, bese ugxila kuzo.
Kulo mongo, ukulalela kusho okungaphezulu kokuqoqa idatha ngezindlebe zakho. Abalaleli abanobuhlakani basebenzisa amehlo abo ukubuka ubufakazi obuphathekayo bemizwa yezingane zabo. Basebenzisa umcabango wabo ukubona isimo ngombono wengane. Basebenzisa amagama abo ukukhombisa, ngendlela emnene nengagxeki, abakuzwayo nokusiza izingane zakho ukuqamba imizwa yazo.
Hlanganisa izinkinga zobuntwana nezinkinga zabantu abadala ekhanda lakho ukukusiza uzwele. Mhlawumbe ucabanga ukuthi indodana yakho enomona yomfowethu omncane omncane ayinasizathu sokuba nokuziphatha kwakhe, akunjalo? Ungazizwa kanjani uma umlingani wakho efika nomuntu athandana naye wakwenza wahlala naye? Phuma ekhanda lakho uye ezinganeni zakho. Landisa. Zwelana.
Imibuzo yokwazi imizwa yabo ingaba nzima kakhulu enganeni encane. Kungazizwa njengophenyo. Kungenzeka bangazi nokuthi kungani bedabukile. Zama ukwabelana ngokubheka okulula. Unike: "Ngikubonile ukuthi ukhophozele ngenkathi ngikhuluma ngokuya ephathini." bese ulinda impendulo.