Angazi noma wake wehlelwa yini. Ikhabethe elivulekile nendodana noma indodakazi yakho iba nolaka olwesabekayo ngoba ufuna ukukhetha izingubo zakhe. Bueno, pues ante esta situación en madreshoy te queremos dar alguna ayuda, y sentirnos cómplice de tu frustración, porque a veces niños y niñas pueden llegar a ser realmente cabezotas.
Akukona ukunambitheka okuhle noma okubi. Indodana yakho ayiwunaki umbuzo wobuhle, kodwa isifiso sokugqoka lokhu noma leyo ngubo, ngoba ekucabangeni kwayo iyayithanda, iyikhumbuza ngeqhawe noma ibukeka njengaleyo egqokwa umngane wayo omkhulu.
Ubudala nezinzuzo zokukhetha izingubo zakho
Kusukela eneminyaka emibili Kungaleso sikhathi lapho bona nabo, kungewona umbuzo wobulili, beqala ukuveza umbono wabo futhi lokhu kufanele kubhekwe. Izinkulumo ezinjengokuthi: Angikuthandi lokhu, angikufuni lokhu, kuyangiluma, kuyangilimaza, baqala ukwenza umkhuba. Kwesinye isikhathi lokhu kuyizinkulumo zekhanda, kepha isikhathi esiningi izingane ziyazi ukuthi yini ezikhululeke kakhulu ngayo, ngakho balalele. Ah! Futhi yonke iminyaka kungenzeka ukuthi usebenzise izingubo zemvelo, sikushiya lapha indatshana emayelana nalolu hlobo lwengubo, ethwala inani elengeziwe lokusetshenziswa okufanele.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umnakekele nokuthi umvulele eyakhe amandla okwenza izinqumo. Labo okwathi njengezingane babengenalo ithuba lokukhetha, kunzima kakhulu kubo ukwazi ukuthi bangakwenza kanjani lokho ebusheni, lapho izinqumo ziqala ukuba ezibalulekile. Ukukhetha izingubo, nokuzizwa uqinisekisiwe kukho, kuyinto ebalulekile yokuzihlonipha.
Nathi, njengomama, kumele futhi sizenze thina ukucabanga ukuthi ngabe sinendaba kakhulu nokuthi "bazothini" izihlobo zethu noma omakhelwane ngokuthi indodana yethu igqoke kanjani, ngokwesibonelo lawo ma-Paw Patrol flip flops esidlweni somzala awashayi lutho, noma amnike inkululeko yokuthatha isinqumo. Lapha kufanele sisebenzise ukubekezelelana kwethu kanye nomuzwa wethu wokuhlekisa.
Amacebo namasu ukuze bakwazi ukukhetha izingubo zabo
Sikwethulela ezinye imibono, ukubona ukuthi ucabangani. Ungamtshela: khetha namuhla ukuthi ungathanda ukugqoka ini ukuya epaki, futhi sizobona ukuthi kungenzeka yini. Kwenze kucace zisuka nje ukuthi unegama lokugcina. Uma ekhetha ihembe elinemikhono emifushane phakathi noJanuwari, kwenze kucace ukuthi kuzofanele aye kudokotela ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.
Elinye isu ongalilandela ukuthi thatha ukuyothenga nokuthi umfana noma intombazane iyakhetha. Ungaqala ngezinto ezincane, izingubo zakho zangaphansi, amaphijama, izesekeli, bese ucabanga ukuthi yiziphi izingubo zomgwaqo ofuna ukuzigqoka. Kuhle ukubachazela, ngokwesiko lethu, ukuthi ingubo ngayinye inesikhathi.
Kwesinye isikhathi i- abangane Futhi ukunambitheka kwezingane uqobo kwenza i-T-shirt yalokhu noma lowo mlingiswa, emasontweni ambalwa ukusuka enanini lokuqala kuya ekhabetheni lokulibala. Kulokhu, khumbuza ingane yakho ukuthi ibiyithanda kangakanani futhi ifunde nokuchaza ukuthi kungani ingafuni ukuyigqoka manje. Ungamnika ithuba lokuthi ayigqoke ekhaya, noma avakashele lo noma lowo mngani.
Kancane kancane uzobona ukuthi ukugqoka kuyindlela yokukhombisa abanye isithombe sakho.
Angifuni ukugqoka izingubo zomfowethu
Kuvamile kakhulu ukuthi kube nezimo ezimbili. Ukuthi abazalwane bafuna ukuhamba izingubo ezilinganayo omunye komunye. Ikakhulukazi encane noma encane njengabadala. Noma kwenzeka nje isimo esiphambene lowo akafuni ukuba, noma abukeke efana nenye. Asikho isixazululo esihle salokhu, kepha ukulalela nokulalelisisa. Isixazululo esimaphakathi singaba bagqoke baqondaniswe. Lokhu kusebenza ikakhulukazi njengomfana nentombazane. Ngakho-ke ngamunye uzogcina ubunikazi bakhe ngenkathi ezizwa ehlanganisiwe.
Ku-Intanethi sithole umbono engiwutholile unentshisekelo kuwo. Izelamani zihlangene kuyahambisana, isibonelo, ama-Superman nama-t-shirts ama-Superwoman, ama-protagonists abawathanda kakhulu. Imodeli efanayo, uma kunesidingo, kepha ngayinye ngombala oyithandayo.
Siyethemba ukuthi ngale mibono sikusizile ukuthi ubhekane kangcono nalezi zinkinga zasekhaya angizigqoki! Angifuni! esidlule kukho sonke.