Njengoba sibonile kwezinye izikhathi, ingqophamlando okumele izingane ziyifinyelele ekukhuleni kwazo ayinayo iphethini ebekiwe. Ingane ngayinye ngokuya ngokuvuthwa kobuchopho bayo kanye nokukhuthazeka kwayo izoqala ukukhuluma kungekudala. Kepha ngokuvamile izingane ziyakwazi ukufinyelela emikhakheni ethile emide eminyakeni ethile.
Kuvamile nini ukuthi ingane ifunde ukukhuluma?
Umbuzo obakhathaza kakhulu abazali bezingane ezingakhulumi ngendlela efanele ngenxa yobudala bazo. Kusukela eminyakeni emingaki kufanele ukhathazeke? Kufanele ubayise nini kumelaphi wezinkulumo? Sizophawula ngalokhu neminye imibuzo engezansi.
Kunezingane eziqala ukukhuluma kusenesikhathiBafunda ngisho nokukhuluma ngaphambi kokuhamba. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ezinye izingane ezineminyaka emibili azikhulumi nakancane. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungazibona kanjani izimpawu zakuqala zokuthi ingane yethu inenkinga ngenkulumo ukuyilungisa ngokushesha okukhulu.
Kucatshangelwa nini ukuthi kunenkinga enkulumweni?
Hay uchungechunge lwezimpawu esingathola ukuthi kungakhombisa inkinga:
- Uma engenzi imisindo kusuka ekuzalweni kuye ezinyangeni eziyi-12, akubonakali sengathi uyacwayiza ngemisindo emikhulu, akabhibhidli futhi akasebenzisi ukushukuma komzimba.
- Uma izinyanga eziyi-12 kuye kwangama-24 zingaphenduli egameni lakhe, noma sebenzisa ukushukuma komzimba ukubingelela noma ukukhombisa akufunayo.
- Kusuka eminyakeni emi-2 kuye kwengu-3 futhi akakaze asho nelilodwa igama (noma ngabe kuyiphutha njengokuthinta i-pacifier), akasebenzisani nabanye futhi unobunzima bokulawula ukuconsa amathe nokuhlafuna. Kule minyaka yobudala kufanele basho amagama acishe abe ngu-40-50, bese bakhe imisho okungenani amagama ama-2.
- Uma eminyakeni engu-3-4 bengakwazi ukwenza imisho elula yamagama amaningi futhi bengaqondakali ngabantu abangaphandle kwendawo yabo. Akasebenzisi amagama afana neziphawulo nezabizwana, futhi akakwazi ukuveza akwenzayo.
- Uma kusuka eminyakeni emi-4 kuye kwengu-5 engabizi imisindo eminingi kahle, wenza imisho emifushane ngaphandle kokuxhumana nesilulumagama esincishisiwe.
- Uma izinkinga zokucacisa ziqhubeka kusuka eminyakeni emi-5 kuye kwengu-6, wenza amaphutha ezakhiweni zemisho futhi unenkinga yokugcina ukunaka kwakho kokuthile.
Ukuthuthuka kwenkulumo noma ukubambezeleka kolimi
Inkulumo ukukhuluma ngolimi ngomlomo (ukuhumusha), futhi ulimi luyisistimu yokwamukela nokukhipha imininingwane, nokuyinika incazelo. Lokho wukuthi, ingane ebambezela ukukhuluma ingasebenzisa imishwana namagama kodwa ingaqondakali, kanti enye enokubambezeleka kolimi ingakwazi ukubiza amagama kahle kepha ingazi ukuthi izokusho kanjani lokho ekufunayo.
Ukubambezeleka kokutholwa kolimi kungadala izinkinga ekutholeni amanye amakhono njengokufunda, ukuqonda, ... futhi kungadala isimilo esinolaka. Kunjalo-ke ukukhungatheka kokungazi ukuthi baziveze kanjani kahle ukuthi abazi ukuthi balubonise kanjani lololaka ngenye indlela ngaphandle kokuziphatha komzimba nangokomzimba. Bangaluma noma bashaye uma bekhungatheka.
Ukunquma ukuthi kukhona yini ukubambezeleka ekutholeni ulimi ezinye izizathu ezingaba khona zidinga ukukhishwa njengezinkinga zokuzwa noma ukuphazamiseka kwe-neurodevelopmental.
Ukubambezeleka kolimi ngokuvamile kulula futhi kuyazilungisa. Kepha kwezinye izimo kungcono uye kochwepheshe ukuze bazi ukuthi angaluhlaziya kanjani kahle udaba lwengane yakho. Izocubungula ulimi lwakho oluzwakalayo nolwamukelekayo, okungukuthi, amandla akho okuzenza uqondwe futhi uqonde.
Ungaphuthelwa i-athikili mayelana Ungayivuselela kanjani inkulumo ezinganeni. Abazali bangakhuthaza ukukhula kwezilimi zezingane zethu ekhaya zisencane kakhulu. Izingane zifunda ukuqonda ulimi ngaphambi kokukhuluma. Kungenzeka ukuthi ukubambezeleka kwabo kokukhuluma kungenxa yokuthi njengoba bezenza baqondwe ngezinye izindlela abadingi ukuthi bakhulume. Kungakho kulula, noma ngabe uyabaqonda ngolimi lwabo, ukubenza benze umzamo futhi bakhulume.
Kungani ukhumbula ... uma ungabaza, iya kudokotela wakho ozokwazi ukuthi asihlole kanjani isimo futhi asithole ngokushesha okukhulu.