Ukuba nengane ekhaya kuphila futhi kujabulisa nsuku zonke izinguquko ezintsha, amakhono amasha atholakele. Cishe kusukela ekuzalweni, ingane iba nezinguquko ngokushesha okukhulu kangangokuba zivame ukunganakwa. Ukubamba ikhanda, ukuguqula umzimba, ukuhambisa izandla zakhe ezincane noma ukukwazi ukulungisa amehlo akhe, kuyizimpawu zokuqala zokuvela ekukhuleni kwengane.
Kepha njengoba izinyanga ziqhubeka, lezo zinguquko ezincane ziba yingqophamlando entuthukweni. Okusho ukuthi kulindeleke ukuthi babe nokukhathazeka okukhulu nokukhathazeka uma kungenzeki ngesikhathi esifanele. FUTHIqala ukuhamba noma ukukhuluma, yizona ezibaluleke kakhulu futhi ezikhathaza kakhulu, ngoba ukungabikho kwazo kungahlotshaniswa nezinkinga ezithile.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi zonke izingane kufanele zihambe noma zikhulume ngasikhathi sinye., kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi uhloniphe isigqi ngasinye ngaphandle kokuziqhathanisa nezinye izingane. Ukuqhuma kolimi kungabambezeleka kuze kube yiminyaka eminingana, ngaphandle kokubangela ukuphazamiseka. Kodwa-ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi udokotela wezingane alandelele noma ikuphi ukubambezeleka kwentuthuko ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.
Khuthaza umntanakho ukuthi amfundise ukukhuluma
Ongakwenza ekhaya ukukhuthaza ingane yakho ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuze ulimi lube nengqondo ebuchosheni bayo futhi ilungele ukuhluma nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Ngendlela ejwayelekile, ingane kulindeleke ukuthi ikwazi ukuveza amagama ayo okuqala ezinyangeni eziyi-12. Ukuba yizinyanga eziyi-18 lapho kukhona ukwanda kolimi nokuqhuma kwalo.
Uma ufuna khuthaza ukufundisa ingane yakho ukukhuluma, qaphela lawa macebiso.
- Khuluma nengane: Umuntu unekhono elingokwemvelo lokuthuthukisa ulimi, lapho imvelo ivuma futhi kunendawo ethanda ukuxhumana. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uma ukhuluma nengane yakho, kungenzeka ukuthi ulimi lwayo lukhule ngaphambi kwesikhathi ukuze luxhumane nawe. Khuluma nendodana yakho sebenzisa amagama alula, imisho emifushane futhi umbheke emehlweni ngenkathi wenza.
- Funda ukumlalela: Ngisho noma bengenawo amagama afanele, ingane yakho izozama ukuxhumana nawe futhi ingaqala ukwenza imisindo. Kepha kufanele ufunde ukumlalela, linda impendulo uma ukhuluma naye, uma umbuza okuthile, uzokumangaza.
- Cula izingoma: Imilolotelo yabahlengikazi iyindlela yokuqala nephumelela kakhulu yokukhuthaza ulimi. Kunjalo kulula ukukhumbula, ukuphindaphinda futhi ikuvumele ukuthi uthokozele umdlalo nengane yakho njengoba ingqondo yakhe ifunda futhi icubungule amagama.
- Funda izinganekwane: Njengemilolozelo yabantwana, izindaba zezingane ezincane zigcwele izimpawu namagama ilungele ukufundisa izingane ezinezinyanga eziyi-18 ukukhuluma. Funda izindaba nengane yakho nsuku zonke, ngesikhathi sokulala, ngaphezu kolimi kuzomsiza ukuthi alale kalula.
- Sebenzisa ulimi lomzimba: Ukuqonda kubalulekile ukuze umntwana athuthukise ulimi olusebenzayo. Sebenzisa ulimi lomzimba ngenkathi ucula izingoma nengane yakho, khomba izitho zomzimba, yenza ukunyakaza futhi usebenzise imidwebo ukwenza lula ukuqonda.
Kufanele ngikhathazeke nini
Ukubambezeleka kolimi kungaba ifulegi elibomvu, yize kungenjalo kuzo zonke izimo. Noma kunjalo, Izinyanga eziyi-18 zingukhiye kulokhu, ngoba ngaphezu kokuthuthuka kolimi kufanele kube nezinye izinhlobo zezinguquko nokuziphendukela kwengane. Ukuhlolwa kwezingane kubalulekile, ngoba kungale ndlela kuphela lapho kungatholakala khona ochwepheshe futhi, uma kunobunye ubufakazi, kungangenelela kusenesikhathi.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ubakhuthaze ukuthi bafundise ingane yakho ukukhuluma, kepha ngaphandle kokuyiqhathanisa nezinye izingane ezingontanga yayo. Ungahle udinge nje isikhathi esithe xaxa futhi lokhu kuvame kakhulu. Dlala nengane yakho, ujabulele ukukhula kwayo nazo zonke izinguquko ozozibona nakanjani kuye. Uma ulimi lubambezelekile noma lungafiki, namuhla kunamasu nezinsiza ezisebenza kahle kakhulu zokusiza izingane ezimweni ezithile.