Kungani indodakazi yami esakhula ikhala kakhulu

Indodakazi esencane ikhala kakhulu

Uma indodakazi yakho eyeve eshumini nambili ikhala kakhulu, kufanele unake ezinye izimpawu ezingakhombisa ukuthi kukhona okubalulekile okwenzekayo empilweni yendodakazi yakho. Ubusha yisigaba esibalulekile Empilweni yanoma yimuphi umuntu, ukudlula kusukela ebuntwaneni kuya ebudaleni futhi konke okwenzekayo ngaleso sikhathi ngokungangabazeki kuzomaka ikusasa. Wonke umuntu unezinkumbulo zobusha.

Izinkumbulo zokuhlangenwe nakho okwakujabulisa ngezinye izikhathi, zinhle futhi zikuhambise esikhathini senjabulo. Kepha izinto zenzeka futhi ngesikhathi sobusha ezingathinta impilo yanoma ngubani. Ubudlelwano bothando bokuqala, kanye nokudumazeka kokuqala, ukukhungatheka kokuqala ezifundweni, ukungaqiniseki ngekusasa noma ukufuna indawo efanele emhlabeni.

Konke lokhu kungadala ukuphazamiseka kwemizwa ebusheni, abanye bakusho ngentukuthelo, abanye bafuna ukuguqula leso sici abangasithandi bese abanye bekhala. Yize ukukhala kuyisidingo esingokwenyama, nakho isiza ukulawula imizwelo ngoba ama-hormone akhishwa ukukhathazeka okuzolile, kungahle kuhlobene nesibonakaliso sokucindezeleka noma ezinye izifo.

Indodakazi yami eyeve eshumini nambili ikhala kakhulu.

Indodakazi esencane ikhala kakhulu

Ukuhlola ukuthi ngabe umuntu osemusha angathuthukiswa yini ukucindezeleka okungenayo, kuyadingeka ukuthola usizo lodokotela othile. Ukuwela esilingweni sokwenza lokhu kutholakale ngaphandle kokuzilungiselela kuyiphutha elijwayelekile elenziwa ngabazali. Into engakwazi kuholele ekuphatheni kabi kwalesi simoNoma ngabe kungokoqobo ukuthi intombazane idlula esimweni sokucindezeleka, noma cha.

Uma indodakazi yakho eyeve eshumini nambili ikhala kakhulu futhi kuyakukhathaza ngempela, kufanele ubheke eminye imininingwane ukuthola izimpawu zokuxwayisa ezingaba khona. Ngaphezu kokukhala kakhulu, uyazivala futhi akafuni ukuhlanganyela isikhathi nanoma ngubani, useyekile ukwenza izinto abekade ezithanda phambilini, udebeselela izifundo zakhe futhi bekungekho njalo phambilini, wenza izinguquko ku ukudla kwakhe noma eyeka ukunakekela ukubukeka kwakhe.

Zonke ziyizimpawu eziyisixwayiso zokucindezeleka okungenzeka kubasakhulayo, okumele kuhlolwe futhi kwelashwe nguchwepheshe. Kepha uma indodakazi yakho ikhala kakhulu ungatholi lutho olunye, kungaba yindlela yokukhipha yonke imizwa engabe iqhubeka. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ushintsho lwamahomoni lunesihluku kangangokuba kuyinto ejwayelekile kimi ukukhala ngaphandle kokucaca kahle ngesizathu.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uUmuntu osemusha kufanele afunde ukuhlala nomfanekiso wakhe omusha, eyeka ukuba eyeyomfana noma yentombazane ukuze ibe umuntu omdala wesikhathi esizayo. Umzimba wamantombazane ushintsha ngendlela esobala, kufika isikhathi sokuqala, aqala ukuthuthukisa imizwa yabanye abantu futhi amukele konke okungakhungathekisa ngokuphelele.

Yini okufanele ngiyenze?

Ubudlelwano bomama nendodakazi

Ukusiza indodakazi yakho ukuthi idlule kulezi zikhathi ezinzima, kufanele ube seduze, kepha uhloniphe indawo yakhe ukuze ingazizwa ihlasela. Intsha ivame ukucabanga ukuthi abazali bayo bafuna ukuyilawula, ukuthi ayiyiqondi futhi yingakho igwema ukuxoxa ngezinto ezikhathazayo. Pqiniseka ukuthi izingane zakho zifunde ukukuthemba, qala ukuxhumana okuhle futhi ugweme ukwenza izahlulelo noma ukwehlisa imizwa yabo.

Lapho umuntu, osemusha kuleli cala, ehlupheka, into yokugcina abayidingayo ukuthi umuntu akubukele phansi okwenzekayo. Leyo mishwana ejwayelekile esetshenziselwa ukukhipha insimbi odabeni, okufana nokuthi "akulutho", "umbhedo lowo", "impela uzokulahla" akhombisa ukungakwazi ukuqonda omunye umuntu, akhombisa ukungabi naluzwela.


Kulokhu, kungcono ukuzwakalisa ukweseka kwakho, ukumenza abone ukuthi nezinkinga zakhe zibalulekile kuwe nokuthi akayedwa. Yize ekuqaleni ungazizwa unqikaza noma ungathembi, ngoba futhi kuwumuzwa ojwayelekile wobusha, ukwazi ukuthi useduze kuzomduduza. Uzokwazi ukuthi angathembela kuwe nokuthi ngeke azizwe esahlulelwe, noma ngabe kwenzekani kuye.

Futhi khumbula, ubusha buyisigaba esinzima futhi esinzima ukusithwala. Hhayi kuphela izingane ngokwazo eziphila lolu shintsho, kepha ziwenzela wonke umndeni ngokujwayelekile. Ngothando, ukwesekwa nokubekezela, yonke into ihamba kahle futhi ukuhlala ndawonye kulula kuwo wonke umuntu.


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