Kungani ukuqabula kubaluleke kangaka ezinganeni zakho

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Namuhla sigubha usuku lwamazwe omhlaba lokwanga. Kungakho sithatha isikhashana ukuchaza ukubaluleka kokuqabula izingane zakho. Kuyizenzo ezilula ezingabizi lutho kithi futhi kubo kubaluleke njengokudla kwabo.

Ukuqabula kuyisenzo esiyisisekelo sokuxhumana ukuveza uthando lwethu. Lapho ingane yethu izalwa, iba nezidingo ezingokomzwelo ezifana nezomuntu omdala. Kodwa-ke, awukabi nawo amandla okulinganisa izidingo zakho, ngakho-ke kufanele uziveze ngenye indlela. Ukuqabula nokwangana kuyindlela yakhe yokuveza isidingo sakhe sothando.

Imvelaphi yokwanga

Eqinisweni, zonke izilwane, ikakhulukazi izilwane ezincelisayo, ziziveza ngokwanga. Abanye bayakhothana, abanye bayakhonkotha noma bayabhibhidla, bangokwanga okukhethekile, kepha bayange ekupheleni kosuku. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi zonke izilwane zinesidingo sokuveza uthando lwethu, singabantu abaphilayo.

Endabeni yezinja, lokhu "ukuqabula" kuyindlela yabo yokubonisa, hhayi uthando kuphela, kepha futhi nenhlonipho. Bayakukhombisa ukuthi bazokulandela noma yikuphi. Ungumholi wephakethe labo futhi balikhombisa kahle.

Emgqeni wokuziphendukela kwemvelo wama-hominids, ukuqabula njengoba sazi ukuthi kunomsuka wesidingo sokuhlafuna ukudla kwentsha. Okusho ukuthi, lapho bezalwa bengenawo amazinyo, omama kwakudingeka bahlafune ukudla abanikela ngakho ezinganeni zabo. Ukuqabula kwasekuqaleni kwakuwumphumela wesidingo somzimba njengokudla. Lokhuqabula kuthathwe ngendlela yokuveza uthando esilwaziyo namhlanje, ngezinhlangothi zalo ezihlukile.

Ukiss wamanje

Namuhla ukuqabulana sekuyindlela yokukhuluma ethinta inhliziyo, ehlanganisa ama-nuances amaningi. Kubalulekile ukuthi izingane zakho zingafundi kuphela ukunika nokwamukela ukwanga kuwe. Ngamanye amagama, kulula ukuthi ingane yakho ifunde ukuba ngumuntu onothando uma, ngaphezu kokupha noma ukwanga, ibona ukuthi uyakwenza nawo wonke umndeni, ikakhulukazi noyise.

Ukiss wothando

Akudingeki ukhulume ngokweqile futhi ugone futhi uqabule ngaso sonke isikhathi. Noma kunjalo, Kuyimpilo ukuthi ingane yakho ikhulele endaweni lapho uthando luboniswa khona ngokwemvelo. Kuyiphutha ukwenza ukuqabula kube yinto yokufihla, ngoba ingahle idideke futhi ikuqonde njengento engamanyala. Kuyacaca ukuthi ukuqabulana okuvela kubangani akufani nokwanga kwabafowethu, umndeni noma abathandi. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ingane yakho izofunda ngesikhathi sokukhula kwayo ukuhlukanisa, ungasheshi. Kepha abokuqala ozohlangana nabo kungokwanga komama nobaba, ngakho-ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ubeke isibonelo esihle.

Sivele sichazile ukuthi ukwanga kuzalelwe omama bama-hominid ukondla amaphuphu abo. Namuhla, bakhonza ukondla umoya wakho. Lapho usemncane, ukwanga kukamama enxebeni kwenza kuphole. Ukuqabula kukamama ebunzini kuphulukisa noma yibuphi ubuhlungu kunoma yisiphi isikhathi. Akukho okududuza nokusinikeza ukuthula okudlula ukwanga kukamama.


Ukubaluleka kokuqabulana nsuku zonke

Usuyayazi imvelaphi yokwanga nokuthi kube yini namuhla. Manje uzokwazi ukuthi kungani kubaluleke kangaka enganeni yakho.

Ingane yakho, njengoba sesishilo, idinga uthando lwakho kusukela izalwa, kepha ayikwazi ukukusho ngamagama. Ingane yakho ayikwazi ukukutshela ukuthi mama ngiyakuthanda, kodwa iyakwazi ukwelula izindebe nezingalo zayo, ibabaza "Mama." Ngalowo mzuzu lapho ekhala noma ehleka, uyakudinga, ufuna ukuthi uphinde umqabule. Kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho ezokwazi ukuqonda ukuthi umhlaba wakho unjalo, njengoba ungowakhe.

Kukho konke ukukhula kwayo, ingane yakho iyohlala inezimo eziyithintayo, eziyilimazayo futhi ezidinga ukuphola. Yilapho-ke lapho kufanele usebenzise umuthi ongcono kakhulu emhlabeni, lowoqabulo olunikezwa ngumama kuphela.


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  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
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