Aziveli kuthelevishini. Omama nobaba abanesibindi abayitholi imiklomelo noma izinkokhelo, empeleni, ababonakali. Yonke imizamo yabo, izinyembezi zabo eziyimfihlo, lonke uhambo lwabo lokuya kochwepheshe, ukuthola ukuxilongwa, ukuxilongwa okuphindwe kabili ukuqinisekisa ukugula, noma ilebula ibhukwana elithanda ukulinikeza izingane zethu, lihlala njalo lisezindaweni ezizimele.
Bangamaqhawe angaziwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, Bonke ubaba nabo bonke omama balezi zingane abanokukhubazeka ngokomzimba noma ngokwengqondo noma izinkinga zemfundo bayisibonelo emphakathini wethu.. No obstante, la propia sociedad los relega de nuevo a sus batallas silenciosas. Sin ayudas, sin reconocimientos, sin una inclusión auténtica. En «Madres Hoy» queremos ofrecerles nuestro homenaje.
Imindeni enesibindi enezinselelo ezinkulu
Lapho umbhangqwana noma umama ethola ukuthi uzoba nengane, wenza umklamo omuhle. Sicabanga umfana noma intombazane ikhula ngendlela ejwayelekile, ihamba ngesandla ukuthola umhlaba ngenkululeko nangokuzimela.
Ukwesaba kuvela ngezikhathi ezithile njengethunzi esilihlakaza ngokushesha. Kodwa-ke, ukuzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi, noma izingqinamba phakathi nayo, kuvame ukuletha lelo qiniso imindeni eminingi obekufanele ilithathe noma ibhekane nalo ngamandla: ingane enokukhubazeka.
Ngokunjalo, izinkinga zofuzo nezendalo noma izingozi nazo zinquma ingxenye enkulu yalezi zimo lapho ukuxilongwa kusenesikhathi kungumlingani wethu omuhle kakhulu.
Ngokwemininingwane evela kwiWorld Health Organisation (WHO), abantu ababalelwa ezigidini ezingama-200 banokukhubazeka okuthile. Noma kunjalo, amanye amagama adinga ukucaciswa.
- Ukushoda yinoma ikuphi ukulahleka noma umkhawulo othile wesakhiwo noma ukusebenza kwengqondo, komzimba noma ukwakheka komzimba.
- Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukukhubazeka kungumkhawulo noma ukungabi khona (ngenxa yokushoda) kwekhono lokwenza umsebenzi osendleleni noma ebangeni elibhekwa njengelivamile kumuntu.
- Ukukhubazeka yisimo lapho umuntu engakwazi ukwenza umsebenzi ngenxa yokukhubazeka noma ukukhubazeka. Kwesinye isikhathi ubudala obulula, ubulili, noma izici zenhlalo nezamasiko nakho kunganquma ukukhubazeka.
Okulandelayo, sichaza ukuthi yiziphi izimbangela ezinkulu zokukhubazeka labo bonke obaba nomama abanesibindi okufanele babhekane nazo.
Izinsana ngaphambi kwesikhathi
- Le datha kufanele isenze sicabange, kepha Ngokuya ngemininingwane evela ku-WHO uqobo, cishe izingane eziyizigidi eziyi-15 zizalwa emhlabeni unyaka nonyaka ngaphambi kokuba zifike esikhathini (izinyanga ezimbili ngaphambi noma ngaphansi)
- Lokhu kuzalwa okungu-1 koku-10.
- Eziningi zalezi izingane ezizalwe ngaphambi kwesikhathi abakwaziyo ukusinda bahlushwa uhlobo oluthile lokukhubazeka impilo yabo yonke.
- Ukukhulelwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi kuyimbangela ehamba phambili yokufa ezinganeni ezineminyaka engaphansi kwemihlanu ubudala. Manje, into ephawuleka kakhulu ukuthi lezi zibalo ziyaqhubeka nokwanda.
- Kodwa-ke, futhi njengoba kunelukuluku njengoba kungabonakala, izimbangela zokuzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi azaziwa nge-100%. Kwesinye isikhathi kungenxa yokutheleleka, isifo sikashukela noma umfutho wegazi ophakeme; kodwa ochwepheshe abakwazi ukuchaza noma ukuvimbela le nkinga enkulu.
I-Autism
- I-Autism nayo ayizi nemanuwali, iza nabazali abangadikibali.
- Into eyodwa okufanele uyikhumbule ukuthi amacala e-autism ayanda eminyakeni yamuva. Njengoba esichazela “I-American Autism Society" Ingane eyodwa kwezingu-1 ezisanda kuzalwa izotholakala ine-ASD (i-autism spectrum disorder).
- Ngaphezu kwalokhu, asikwazi ukukhohlwa ukuthi ngenxa yalesi sifo esibanzi, kunezingane ngisho nabantu abadala abangakatholi ukuxilongwa kwabo.
- Isizathu salokhu kwanda kokuzalwa kwezingane okuzenzakalelayo namhlanje asaziwa ngokuqiniseka. Lesi sifo sinemvelaphi yofuzo, isifo sokukhula esisavula izinselelo eziningi ezintsha.
I-Down syndrome
Sihlonipha omama nobaba abanesibindi
Akekho umuntu okhetha ingane ukuthi ibe nayo. Uyamthanda njengoba enjalo, ngezimfanelo zakhe ezinhle, nangokukhubazeka kwakhe. Ngobukhulu bayo. Akekho umuntu okhetha ukuba nengane ekhubazekile, kepha ingane iyasikhetha futhi siyamthanda ngayo. Ngenxa yokuthi ungubani futhi ngoba uyingxenye yenhliziyo yethu.
Awubonakali
Bazali abathandekayo bezingane ezinesibindi. Omama abathandekayo bezingane ezikhethekile. Awubonakali. Yize umphakathi, imithetho nezinhlangano zezepolitiki zikuhlanzile ngolwandle lwezaba, kithi awubonakali.
Siyazi ngemizamo yakho yansuku zonke. Sazi kahle amahora owachitha ekhompyutheni ucwaninga ngokugula kwezingane zakho. Ufuna izinsizakusebenza, uxhuma nabantu abasesimweni esifanayo.
Nnoma ungabonakali ngoba uhlala ukhona ekubonisaneni nochwepheshe. Wonke lawo mahora okulinda, okukhathazeka. Ukuxilongwa okungagculisi, uhambo lokuyofuna ochwepheshe abengeziwe nalezo zitholakele ezinhle lapho, ekugcineni, ziphendula khona izidingo zakho.
Ukunikela akukho emiqondweni yakho
Siyazi ukuthi uhlupheka ngasese ngenkathi umamatheka ezinganeni zakho. Kunezinsuku lapho kungenzeki lutho futhi kubonakala sengathi konke kulahlekile, noma kunjalo, ungavumi. Amathe wezicathulo zakho asekhathele kude nezinyathelo eziningi, amakhilomitha amaningi. Kepha izwi lakho alithulanga, licela izinsiza, ukwesekwa esikoleni, izeluleko kochwepheshe.
Ngoba izinhliziyo zakho zondliwa nsuku zonke nge-caresses yezingane zakho, ngokuthuthuka ngakunye ngempumelelo ngayinye nangokumamatheka ngakunye kwalabo bantwana okunguphethiloli wakho.
Khumbula ukuthi awuwedwa, ukuthi awubonakali nokuthi uyisibonelo esihle kakhulu emphakathini wethu.
Hewu! Yeka intela enhle nenomzwelo, ngiphelelwe ngamazwi kepha ngiyabonga egameni labo bonke omama nabo bonke labo baba, ngoba yize izingane zami zingenayo yalezi zinkinga, kulungile ukuthi sicabange ngabanye.
Ukuqabulana
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Ukwanga!
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