Hoy 26 de julio se celebra el día mundial de los abuelos. No obstante, en «Madres hoy" Sifuna ukuhlonipha ngokukhethekile lezo zingcezu zozalo lwethu lwabesifazane olunikeza ukubaluleka okukhulu ezimpilweni zethu: ogogo. Sonke sinabo labo engqondweni abesifazane izandla eziqiniswe umsebenzi, ukubukeka kwazo, okuhlala kugcwele uthando nobuqotho, kuhlala kuyingxenye ebaluleke kakhulu yezinhliziyo zethu.
Manje, njengoba sikhumbula nje ogogo bethu, izingane zethu manje zijabulela leso sibopho esihlukile. Ifa elishiywa yilaba besifazane ezingqondweni zabo usuku nosuku liyifa lothando, imizwa, okuhlangenwe nakho kanye nezindaba ezizohambisana nawe kuze kube phakade. Sikumema ukuba ungene kulesi sihloko, futhi ugubhe uSuku Lwabogogo Nathi.
Ogogo, isiliva ezinweleni, igolide enhliziyweni
Kunogogo abancane kakhulu nogogo abangasalindele ukuba njalo.. Noma kungaba njani, indlela impilo ebanikeza ngayo lesi sikhundla esisha yinto ngokungangabazeki ebamema ukuthi bashintshe izindima zabo eziningi. Futhi lolo shintsho luyinto enhle abayithola njalo ngokulindela nangomdlandla.
Kusho ukuthini ukuba ngugogo
Kuze kube manje laba besifazane bebejwayele indima yabo njengamakhosikazi nomama. Lapho ngokungazelelwe bephethe leyo mpilo entsha ezandleni zabo, lowo mfana noma intombazane naye oyingxenye yayo, izinto eziningi ziyashintsha.
- Ogogo bazi kahle ukuthi iqhaza labo akuselona ukufundisa, ukukhulisa noma ukusungula imikhuba nemisebenzi. Indima yakhe ikhululekile futhi inemizwa kuphela.
- Ugogo ufunda, unakekele, wabelane ngezikhathi nabazukulu bakhe futhi uzobatotosa ngendlela athanda ngayo -ngokuvamile- izindlebe eziyizithulu emibhikishweni yobaba noma yomama.
- Ukuba ugogo kusho ukuzichaza kabusha futhi, futhi lolo shintsho luyinto ekunika impilo ngoba ngokuzumayo uthatha imithwalo yemfanelo emisha.
Ugogo oyedwa noma ababili bezingane zethu
Into esiyaziyo sonke ukuthi kukhona ogogo nogogo. Kuyaye kuthiwe umuntu uguga ngesithunzi noma kunini lapho esebenzisa lesi sikhathi empilweni yakhe. Lapho kucatshangwa ukuhamba kwesikhathi nezinguquko ezikushoyo. Futhi na ngaphezulu, idala njengoba ibiphilwa, Ngalesi sizathu, uma singabantu abasha abangajabule, sizofinyelela ekuvuthweni ngomunyu ofanayo.
Konke lokhu kusitshela ukuthi ngandlela thile, kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuba nogogo omthandayo, njengokhokho oyintandokazi. Kukhona okunye okuvaliwe, okungenamusa nokwamukela umhlaba wezingane, kepha ngokujwayelekile, lapho kufika umzukulu, ogogo nomkhulu abaningi basala benikelwe kuleyo mpilo entsha. Kuze kube sezingeni lokuthi izinhlamvu ezomile zithambe.
- Izingane zethu zingaba nogogo oyedwa noma ababili futhi okucacayo namuhla ukuthi bayizicucu ezisemqoka kumandla wabaningi imindeni.
- Ngeke sikhohlwe ukuthi kulezi zikhathi ezinzima, indima yabogogo nomkhulu isivele ifana naleyo ndlela yokuphila yansuku zonke. Bayazinakekela izingane zethu lapho siya emsebenzini, ziyisikhuthazo sethu lapho umoya wehla futhi zihlala zimomotheka izingane lapho omama nobaba bephethe izinkinga zempilo.
Ukuba nogogo oyedwa noma ababili kufana nokuba nezinsika ezimbili empilweni yethu. Yizandla ezijabulisa izingane zethu, izwi elizimbozayo lapho singekho lapho, nalabo abalifunayo noma cha, baba ngamaqhawe wansuku zonke.
Ifa elingokomzwelo logogo
Ugogo wayengumama owasikhulisa ngempumelelo enkulu noma encane. Ugogo ungowesifazane oqhubeka nokufunda nsuku zonke ukuze anikeze abazukulu bakhe okungcono kakhulu, aphumelele kangcono ngoba vele uhlakaniphile ngokuhlangenwe nakho.
Ifa elisinika lona nezingane zethu yinto okufanele siyigcine, siyondle, futhi siyondle.
Ifa lezindaba
Sinesiqiniseko sokuthi nawe, kuze kube namuhla, usazikhumbula eziningi zalezo zindaba ugogo nomkhulu wakho abakutshela zona useyingane. Ziyimininingwane izingane ezingeke ziyithole ku Internet.
- Lezi zindaba zichaza izimpande zethu njengomndeni futhi zisitshela nangezikhathi zomlando nezikhathi ezithile eziqondile. Kuzo imizwa emangalisa kakhulu ikhishwe nokuthi izingane zihambela njalo ngokunakekela okukhulu.
- Zimbalwa izikhathi eziyoba mnandi kubo njengalezo zikhathi zantambama lapho ogogo beyolanda abazukulu babo esikoleni, futhi, Bebahola ngesandla, bachaza ama-anecdotes wentsha, izingoma zobuntwana nezindaba ezingaziwa yiDisney.
- Kamuva, lapho sifika ekhaya, izingane zethu zizothola lawo ma-dessert amnandi okwaziwa kuphela ogogo ukuthi bangawenza kanjani. Lawo maqebelengwane anephunga elizocacisa ubuntwana bakho, alengise leso sikhuthazo esibucayi ngememori emnandi. Konke lokhu kungamafa, amafa ahlukile.
Ifa okufanele ulihloniphe
Ogogo bangabonakala bengakhathali kithina futhi bengumthombo wothando oluqhubekayo ngaphandle kwamaholide. Manje lezi zifa zokuhamba ezinesiliva ezinweleni zazo negolide kuzo inhliziyo kufanele futhi ukuthi sizwele ngezidingo zabo.
- Ogogo nomkhulu bangasitshela ukuthi bayatholakala nganoma yini esiyidingayo. Kodwa-ke, akukhuthazwa ukuhlukumeza. Kumele sikhumbule ukuthi kunjalo ngaleso sikhathi ezimpilweni zabo lapho befanelwe yisikhathi sabo bodwa.
- Ogogo nomkhulu banamuhla bayasebenza kakhulu, banamanethiwekhi omphakathi amahle, banesifiso sokuhamba, ukuyodansa futhi bajabulele izikhathi zabo zokuzilibazisa.
- Impilo yakhe ihamba ngejubane elihlukile futhi umsebenzi wakhe awukhulisi, kepha ukuthambekela ngezikhathi ezithile futhi banikeze abazukulu babo okungcono kakhulu, futhi kubhekelwa nemingcele yabo yezempilo neyomuntu siqu.
Sengiphetha, uma namuhla uno-gogo oyedwa, abaningana, noma bonke emndenini wakho ohlangothini lukanyoko nobaba, unganqikazi ukubenza babe "abahlanganyeli" bezingane zakho nsuku zonke.
Ifa elihle kunazo zonke abangakushiyela lona yimizwelo. Lokho kokuzizwa bethandwa yilezozizukulwane ezindala ezizithandayo, kwesinye isikhathi ezibaphangayo, kepha ezibanika izimpande ezizobaphelezela unomphela.
Uma impilo iyizikhathi, okuyigugu kakhulu cishe njalo yilezo esizakha ebuntwaneni bethu. Lapho lapho ogogo nomkhulu nogogo bayohlala khona indawo enhle ezinhliziyweni zethu. Ngakho-ke ungangabazi ukujabulela lolu suku nomndeni wakho, usuku logogo nomkhulu futhi nakanjani, ogogo abahle kakhulu.