Abesifazane abaningi balindile isikhathi osifunayo sokukhulelwa, kodwa ngenxa yezimo ezahlukahlukene, izindaba zingase zimangaze futhi kuba nokwesaba nokucindezela. Kwabesifazane abaningi, ukwazi imininingwane nokwenza isinqumo ibanikeza ulwandle lokungaqiniseki, Yini okufanele ngiyenze uma ngikhulelwe futhi angifuni ukuba nayo?
Impela isinqumo asikhawulwanga, kunezindlela eziningi zokucela usizo nolwazi futhi kukwenze uzizwe sengathi awuwedwa. Izinketho ziyanikezwa, ungathatha isinqumo sokuba nengane, ukhiphe isisu noma unikeze ingane ukuthi itholwe. Noma yikuphi kwalokhu kukhetha kuzoba nokuzindla okukhulu futhi zingahlolwa ngesinqumo esikhulu.
Ungasithatha kanjani isinqumo esifanele?
Iseluleko esihle kunazo zonke ukuthi yabelana ngesimo sakho nabantu abathembekile. Ngaso sonke isikhathi ukukhetha okuhle ukukusiza wezihlobo zakho eziseduze, ngoba kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi yibo abakunikeza kangcono kakhulu leso seluleko esihle. Kodwa-ke, funa noma yiluphi uhlobo lokuxhaswa ngokomzwelo nabantu abaseduze abangakunikeza ukuhlolwa okunembile nokuhloniphayo.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi esinakho kuyise wengane ngubani ongaqondisa leso sinqumo esikhulu. Udokotela Ubuye anikeze ukusekelwa okuhle kakhulu kusuka kulwazi lwakhe lobuchwepheshe futhi angabhekisa ohlotsheni oluthile losizo ngokuya ngecala futhi angadlulisela icala kumeluleki oqeqeshiwe.
Ngokushesha nje lapho izindaba zaziwa kufanele uthathe isinqumo esifanele. Uma inketho ukuqhubeka nokukhulelwa ngenxa yokuthi kufanele unikele ngengane ukuze itholwe, kungcono ukuthatha izinyathelo zokuqapha. unakekele isimo sakho nokudla kwakho, lapho ungasusa khona noma iyiphi into enobuthi engalimaza ingane. Ngokufanayo, kufanele uphumule futhi ungathathi noma yiluphi uhlobo lomuthi ngaphandle kokubonisana nodokotela wakho kuqala.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze uma ngikhulelwe futhi angifuni ukuba nayo?
Kuzo zonke izinketho isinqumo sokungafuni ukukhulelwa kuqala ngezinqumo zomuntu siqu. Kungenxa yokuthi akusona isikhathi, noma umncane kakhulu futhi ufuna ukuqhubeka nokugxila ezifundweni zakho. Phakathi kwezinye izinqumo ukufuna ukuthatha izinhloso nokufeza izinhloso, lapho ingane ngalezo zikhathi ingaba yisithiyo.
Ukukhipha Isisu
Ukukhipha Isisu lingena ngaphakathi ukuqeda ukukhulelwa. Isinqumo sokuthatha lolu hlobo lomzila kufanele sinqunywe ngokushesha okukhulu, kungaba ngempilo yakho. Ukukhipha isisu eSpain kumahhala futhi kusemthethweni kusukela ngo-2010, ngaphakathi kwe-Organic Law 2/2010. Kuyaziwa ukuthi owesifazane oseminyakeni esemthethweni angakuqeda ukukhulelwa kwakhe ngaphambi kwamasonto angu-14 okukhulelwa.
Le nketho izosebenza ezandleni zikadokotela onguchwepheshe, kungaba kusikhungo sezempilo somphakathi noma esikhungweni esizimele esigunyaziwe. Endabeni yokuba mncane, kufanele kube nemvume esayinwe ngabazali noma ngabantu abasingethe. Akubona bonke odokotela abangochwepheshe abanganikeza imvume yokukhipha isisu, ngakho icala lingadluliselwa komunye udokotela ozimisele.
Ukutholwa
Kungenye indlela, leyo yamandla ukubeka ingane engafuneki ukuze itholwe. Imayelana nokukwazi ukunikeza ithuba lokuba nengane komunye umndeni. Bazonakekela leyo ngane unomphela nangaphansi kwesivumelwano esisemthethweni.
Inqubo yokumnikela ukuba itholwe izokwenzeka cishe ngokushesha ngemuva kokubeletha futhi ngenxa yalokho iyaduduza kufanele kube yisinqumo esiqinile nesokugcina. Ukuze wenze le nqubo, kufanele ube nokuxhumana ne- i-ejensi yokutholwa noma ummeli onguchwepheshe.
Inketho yokukwazi ukunikela ngayo ukuze itholwe futhi ingalawulwa lapho ingane isitholakele, owesifazane okhulelwe eSpain akakwazi ukumnika imvume ize izalwe leyo ngane. Umama ophilayo kuzofanele asayine idokhumenti yokuyekelela igunya lalowo muntu.
Ngesikhathi esinjengalesi, isinqumo okumele sithathwe kumele sicatshangelwe kakhulu, ngoba imizwa nemicabango engapheli iyahlangana uzibophezele kakhulu. Kungenxa yalokho noma yiluphi uhlobo losizo luyaziswa futhi njalo kusuka ekusekelweni okunemibandela umuntu othembekile.
Uma ungafuni ukuba nayo, inketho yokuqala kufanele kube ukuyibeka ukuze itholwe. Into engeyinhle, ukukhipha isisu ukuphela kwempilo yakho, ngani? Kunemindeni eminingi eSpain ezimisele ukumngenisa futhi imkhulise ... vumela ingane yakho ihole impilo yayo, noma ngabe ungeke / ufuna ukuyikhulisa futhi uyifundise.