Ukuhlala nentsha ngesikhathi samaholide ehlobo kungaba nzima kwabanye abazali. Ukubhekana nokushintshashintsha kwemizwelo, ukungathandi, cha ukwenza cishe yonke into, ukuncika kubangani, ukuzihlukanisa ngokuzithandela, kanye nokuxakaniseka kwamahomoni kuyinselele..
Esinye sezihluthulelo zokuba nehlobo elihle nalezo zingane ezinkulu ukwazi balindeleni emaholidini abo futhi sibheke izinketho ukuze okulindelwe kungene empilweni yomndeni wethu.
Isikhathi esiningi esikhululekile?
Iphupho lentsha yonke ukuvuka isidlo sasemini, ukuchitha amahora ngobuchwepheshe obusha, ukuba nabangane babo noma ukumane ungenzi lutho usuku lonke. Lokho kungabaphazamisa abazali. Isixazululo esihle kakhulu ukuxoxisana.
Ungabonisana kanjani nentsha
- Ngokubambisana, hlelani inqubo ejwayelekile yansuku zonke, masingakhohlwa ukuthi useholidini.
- Faka zonke izihloko (umnqamulajuqu wokuvuka, isikhathi abangaba ngaso nekhonsoli, iselula noma ukuxhumana nomphakathi, udoti ukhipha bani futhi isikhathi sini sokufika ekhaya, njll.)
- Bandakanya wonke amalungu omndeni.
- Khumbula lokho inkhulumomphendvulwano iyisihluthulelo.
- Yenza izivumelwano ezikwenza uzizwe ukhululekile.
- Ukuxoxisana ngezivumelwano ezithile kuzobenza babone ukuthi umbono wakho ubalulekile nawo. Futhi bangenza iziphakamiso ezithokozisayo.
- Wonke umndeni kufanele uzibophezele ekulandeleni inqubo esunguliwe.
Ngokusungula imithetho eyisisekelo nemikhuba ejwayelekile, uzogwema ukungezwani okuningi kanye nezingxabano.
Imisebenzi kude nasekhaya
Namuhla kunezinketho eziningi ongazenza ehlobo, izifundo zolimi, ezemidlalo, ukuvolontiya, amakamu wentsha, ukuhlala phesheya, njll. Abazali abaningi bafuna izingane zabo zigcine zimatasa ehlobo futhi, uma nazo zifunda okuthile okungcono kakhulu.
Ukuze lezi zinhlobo zemisebenzi zibe yinto emnandi kubalulekile ukuthi kube yibo abanquma ukuzenza nokuthi ababekwa ngabantu abadala njengesibopho.
Intsha isadinga ukuthi abazali bayo babe khona, bakhulume nabo, babaqondise futhi babeluleke, yize kungabonakala kungafani.
Ukuhlela uhambo nentsha
Kusobala ukuthi intsha ayihlanganyeli nezinto esizithandayo nalokho esikulindele uma kuziwa ekuhambeni. Uma sihlela uhambo lomndeni ngaphandle kokubheka lokho kungaba yiphupho elibi kuwo wonke umuntu.
Ukuxoxisana kubalulekile kulesi simo. Unganikela ngenketho engaphezu kweyodwa bese uhlola izinzuzo nezingozi zalowo nalowo njengomndeni. Ngale ndlela akekho oyozizwa eshiywe dengwane. Ungahlala ubheka ezinye izindlela, isibonelo indodana yakho icabanga ukuthi izobhoreka, ungamema umngani wayo.
Yize intsha kwesinye isikhathi ibukeka njengabantu abangahloniphi nabavilaphayo emhlabeni, bathola umbono wokuhlangabezana nezinto ezintsha nezigemegeme kujabulisa.
Kwenzekani lapho kunamabanga amabi?
Ochwepheshe beluleka ngokuvimbela ukusebenza kabi esikoleni ukuba kube idrama yomndeni lonke ihlobo. Ukujeziswa akusebenzi kulezi zimo.
Kusebenza kangcono kakhulu ukwenza ingane yakho ithathe umthwalo wemfanelo futhi ihlanganise uhlelo lokuphasa ngoSepthemba. Nikeza usizo lwakho nokusekela lapho beludinga kodwa kufanele uhlale uqine ukuze lokho okuvunyelwene ngakho kufezeke.
Ukujabulela amaholide ndawonye nokuqinisa izibopho zomndeni kubalulekile njengokuphasa izivivinyo zikaSepthemba.
Abangani
Kwentsha eningi, abangane bayo "bangumndeni" wabo. Ngesikhathi sobusha, ukuzijabulisa kubalulekile, ikakhulukazi nabantu abangontanga yakho.
Uma ingane yakho inesibopho futhi uyazi ingosi yayo yomphakathi, akufanele ucindezeleke lapho iphuma nabangane bayo.
Cabanga ukuhlela umsebenzi weqembu ngesikhathi seholide lakho lasehlobo. Iphathi noma isidlo ekhaya kungenye indlela enhle yentsha yokuzijabulisa.
Ihlobo lithanda
Ihlobo yisikhathi esikahle sokuthi intsha ithande uthando. Ngubani ongalukhumbuli uthando lwakhe olukhulu lwasehlobo?
Njengabazali kumele sicabange ukuthi izingane zethu sezikhulile, sihloniphe ubumfihlo bazo futhi sigweme ukubahlulela. Vele sizobe singemuva ukubanika isandla, noma ngabe yini, lapho besicela.
Umuntu osemusha othandweni ungumuntu osemusha ojabulayo, owamukela kakhulu futhi ogcwele amandla amahle.
Iholide lomndeni elijabulisayo!