Izibalo zabesifazane abayizisulu zodlame lobulili ziyaqhubeka ukwethusa, yize izikhungo kanye nezinye izinhlangano zikahulumeni nezizimele zizama ukuhlinzeka ngendawo kanye nokweseka bonke. Khumbula ukuthi Inombolo yocingo engu-016 esiza izisulu zabesifazane. Ayishiyi mkhondo ku-invoyisi, kepha kufanele uyisuse kumlando wekholi.
Kepha ngaphambi kokuthi kwenzeke ucingo oluya ku-016 abesifazane abaningi ababazi ubudlova bobulili phakathi kwabalingani babo. Kwesinye isikhathi ukuhlukunyezwa akubonakali kangako, ngoba ngaphambi kokushaywa kufika ukulahlekelwa ukuzethemba noma ukubukelwa phansi okuqhubekayo. Uma ufuna ukwazi ezinye zezimpawu ezingakusiza ukuthola isimo sodlame lobulili, ake sihambe naso.
Izici ezikhomba owesifazane oshaywayo
Nazi ezinye izici ezingenza uqonde uma uhlala esimweni sodlame lobulili. Akudingekile ukuthi zonke zinikezwe, noma ziyihlazo. Ngokuqondile, kwesinye isikhathi, ngenxa yokuthi sihlanganiswe kanjani lolu hlobo lokuziphatha, nokuzithoba, yingakho bengahlonzwa njengodlame, kepha njengengxenye yokuhlalisana. Futhi i- ukujwayelekile kwala maphethini ayingozi kakhulu.
Ezinye zalezi zimpawu, ngokwesibonelo, umona nokuba nempahla, okuvame ukuzibonakalisa ekubukeni iselula nganoma yisiphi isizathu, noma ukubuza ukuthi ngubani lo noma lowo muntu, noma lowo ojwayelekile, kungani ekubizile? Kulezi zimo, i- ukumangalela ngothando ngowesifazane, noma ngqo ekumangalelweni ngokungathembeki, noma ngokufuna ukungathembeki. Ukuba nakho kungabonakala ngokucela i-akhawunti yezindleko, noma ngabe uzimele.
Singabona abesifazane abashaywayo ungafuni ukuphuma noma ube nobudlelwano nabangani, osebenza nabo noma umndeni, yeka ukufunda noma ukusebenza noma ukulungiselela ezinye izikhundla.
Ezimweni ezisobala kakhulu, amadoda ahlazisa laba besifazane phambi kwabanye, ezimweni eziningi awekho, ngakho-ke ungakuvumeli lokho. Ingafika izinsongo, ukuhlaselwa, kwezocansi ngisho, akuvumeli phambi kwezingane, noma ancintisana nawe ukuze bakunake.
Udlame lobulili kuzo zonke izinhlaka zomphakathi
Udlame lobulili luyenzeka, ikakhulukazi ku Ububanzi obujwayelekile, kuleyo yezithandani, futhi ayiqondi izigaba zenhlalo, izinhlanga noma amazwe. Kuze kube manje, abesifazane abangu-47 ababulawa ngabalingani babo ngo-2018 sebevele bedluliwe.Okusekumangaza namanje ukuthi U-80% walaba besifazane ubengakabikanga futhi, cishe impela, ukuthi babengaziboni njengezisulu. Isikhalazo siza ngemuva kweminyaka eminingi yokuhlukunyezwa nobudlova buthule.
Izisulu zodlame olubhekiswe kwabobulili obufanayo akubona labo besifazane kuphela abazuze ifa lemfundo yezinzalamizi, noma imfundo yezocansi, kepha zonke izinsuku zidlula ngamantombazane nabesifazane abasebancane, ezikoleni eziphakeme, nasezikoleni.
Ngokwe-macro-survey yakamuva ye-INE (National Institute of Statistics) U-12,5% wabesifazane abangaphezu kweminyaka engu-16 bahlukunyezwa ngokobulili.
Mahhala, isicelo sokulwa nodlame lobulili
Sekuyiminyaka eminingi uMnyango Wezempilo Nezenhlalakahle uqhuba a isicelo, Mahhala. Kuyisetshenziswa, esitholakalela i-Android ne-Ios, kwabesifazane abayizisulu zodlame, kanye nalabo abathola lezi zimo endaweni yabo, abangazibika.
Imenyu eyinhloko yohlelo lokusebenza ifaka phakathi imibhalo, izingcingo eziwusizo, ubufakazi, amavidiyo, imisindo, amathiphu, imibhalo nezixhumanisi zamakhasi ewebhu awusizo kakhulu. Ungathola futhi izindlela zokuzivikela ukuvikela ukuphepha kwakho nokwakho izingane.
Kuyithuluzi lamahhala, eligcina i- UkuyimfihloKulula kakhulu ukusebenzisa futhi kufinyeleleke kubantu abanamakhono ahlukile. Yize icatshangelwa futhi yakhelwe intsha kanye nabesifazane abasebasha, yenzelwe bonke ubudala, futhi uma ucabanga ukuthi uyayidinga, yisebenzise: noma ngabe uzizwa “ungemncane kangako, futhi ungafakwanga kwezobuchwepheshe obusha”.