Ukuba ngumama okhubazekile

Ukuba ngumama okhubazekile

Ukuba ngumama okhubazekile kuyisengezo somsebenzi osuvele unzima wokuba ngumama, kepha akuhambisani. Ukukhubazeka akukwenzi ukuthi ukhubaze futhi omama abaningi abanalobu bunzima bakhombisa nsuku zonke ukuthi ikhono lokuba ngumama alihambelani nokwehluka okusebenzayo. Kodwa-ke, kunezimo eziningi zokubandlulula abesifazane abaningi okufanele babhekane nazo.

Kunezinhlobo eziningi zokukhubazeka noma okufana nokuthi kufanele kuqale ukuchazwa kanjani, ukwehluka okusebenzayo. Kwezinye izimo, ukwehluka kuthinta izindawo ezahlukahlukene okuthi, ngenxa yezizathu zomzimba nezengqondo, akuhambisani nokukhulisa ingane. Kodwa-ke, noma yiluphi uhlobo lokukhubazeka akusona isithiyo ekubeni ngumama.

Ubunzima bokuba ngumama onokukhubazeka

Ukuba ngumama osemusha

Ukuba ngumama akuhlali kungumbhede wama-rose, izingane azibikezeli. Bakhala ngaphandle kwesizathu esizwakalayo, banolaka nokuziphatha okungaqondakali okuqeda ngisho nesineke kakhulu. Konke lokhu, kungezwe ukungabi khona kokuphumula nokwengezwa kwayo yonke eminye imisebenzi okumele kubhekwane nayo, kuhumusha kube yiminyaka yokuzidela kweqiniso. Uvuzwa njalo ngothando nenjabulo yokubuka izingane zakho zikhula, ziba ngabantu abakhulu abanamagugu.

Kepha komama abahlushwa uhlobo oluthile lokwehluka okusebenzayo, ubunzima bungaphindaphindeka kakhulu. Futhi hhayi kuphela ngenxa yobunzima bokuba ngumama, kepha futhi nangenxa ye- ukubandlululwa ababhekene nakho emphakathini. Okungaqondakali kubo bonke labo abaphila ngokuhlukahluka okusebenzayo nsuku zonke, ngoba ukwehluka akukwenzi ukuthi ungakwazi ukwenza izinto eziningi abanye abantu abangazenza.

Obunye bobunzima obengeziwe ukuthi omama abakhubazekile kumele baphile yile:

  • Ukuthola umsebenzi: Ngeshwa, okwamanje kunokucwaswa okukhulu kwabesifazane kwabasebenzi. Okuthile lokho iphindeka kabili kwabesifazane nabo abakhubazekile. Izinkinga zabasebenzi nezomnotho zibangela ubunzima obukhulu komama abakhubazekile.
  • Ukucindezela kwengqondo: Bonke abesifazane bayayesaba i-pfundisa ukuthi ingane yakho ingaba nenkinga, into okuthi uma kwenzeka kwabesifazane abakhubazekile, ithathe ingozi enkulu. Yize lokhu kungalungile ngokuphelele, ngoba izingane eziningi zihlushwa izifo, ukungakhuli kahle, isifo senhliziyo nazo zonke izinhlobo zobunzima ngesikhathi sokuqeqeshwa kwazo, ngaphandle kokuthi kube nengxenye ebonakalayo yezofuzo.
  • Ingcindezi yomphakathi: Umhlaba awukakulungeli ukubona abesifazane abakhubazekile bengomama. Yinto engaqondakali kwabaningi, kepha kusenabantu abacabanga ukuthi ukuba nokukhubazeka kuqeda amandla okwenza ezinye izinto, njengokuba ngumama. Iqiniso yilokho abesifazane nabesilisa abaningi abakhubazekile noma ukwehluka okusebenzayo, bayakwazi ukwakha umndeni ngempumelelo.

Ubunye ngamandla

Noma imuphi umama udinga usizo, noma kungelula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukulubona ngoba silwela ukuba ngabesifazane abaphezulu, omama abaphezulu kanye nochwepheshe abasezingeni eliphezulu. Kepha iqiniso ukuthi uma belingekho ingcindezi enkulu yezenhlalo nalokho okuthiwa ngumama omuhle, iningi labesifazane belizoba nenkinga encane yokwabela abanye abantu.

Ukuba yisizwe kubalulekile kubo bonke abesifazane, kubo bonke omama futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, komama abakhubazekile. Ukuxhaswa abanye abantu abahlanganyela nokwesaba, ukukhathazeka nezinkinga zakho indlela engcono yokufunda ukubhekana nobunzima Futhi uqhubeke. Ukuthola ukwesekwa ngabantu abakha umbuthano osondelene kakhulu, lo mbhangqwana, umndeni, abangane abakhulu, kubalulekile ukuthi owesifazane athembe amakhono akhe okuba ngumama.

Ngoba ekugcineni, Ukuba ngumama kuyinto enkulu kakhulu kangangokuba akunakwenzeka ukuyichaza ngamazwi. Luthando, umuzwa ongokwemvelo, ngamandla okwenza ukuthi wephule noma isiphi isithiyo futhi unikeze okusemandleni akho kunoma yisiphi isimo. Ukuba ngumama kuyisivikelo, kungumzabalazo, amagugu, amandla, isibindi nomzabalazo omningi. Futhi awekho kulawa makhono enziwa angabi khona ngokuhlushwa izinhlobo ezithile zokukhubazeka. Ake sihlukanise izinkolelo-ze manje futhi sifunde ukuphila ngokuhlukahluka okusebenzayo.



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