Ndodana ngikuthanda kakhulu ngize ngithi HAYI. Ukubaluleka kokubeka imikhawulo ezinganeni zethu.

Isidingo sokubeka imikhawulo ebuntwaneni nasebusheni sibaluleke kakhulu ekusebenzeni okufanele komndeni, kwezenhlalo nakwezemizwa. Uma sikhuluma ngemingcele sisho ukusungula ngokusobala nangokusobala lokho ingane yethu okufanele ikwenze noma okungafanele ikwenze. Imithetho kufanele ibe nengqondo, ikhonjiswe futhi kuvunyelwane ngayo lapho kungenzeka.

Imingcele ayilungiswa, yimithetho eguquguqukayo okufanele iguqulwe ngokuya ngesimo esithile somndeni, kanye neminyaka yengane. Kepha into ebaluleke kakhulu emikhawulweni yisidingo sokuyisungula.

Ukuzivikela ngokweqile kwabazali kwenza kube nzima ukubeka imingcele ecacile. Ukuvela kwezinkambiso ezingacacile nezisakazekayo ezijwayelene kakhulu nezidingo zesikhashana zezingane kunengqondo yabazali kuvamile. Lo mbono ovikela ngokweqile ulimaza kakhulu ukukhula kwezingane. Ngale ndlela, izinkinga zokuziphatha zingavela ebusheni nasebusheni, ezikhathini eziningi.

Uma sithi "cha" enganeni yethu, siyinika umyalezo wothando. "Ngikuthanda kakhulu, ngifuna ikusasa lokwamukelwa wumuntu kanye nomphakathi kuwe, ukuthi kufanele ngikufundise ukubekezelela ukukhungatheka kwakho." Lokhu kunzima kubazali, ngoba kubuhlungu kakhulu ukubona intukuthelo, ukudabuka nokukhala kuvela. Kepha asikwazi ukukhohlwa ukuthi ukuvela kwemizwa engemihle kubalulekile njengezikhathi zenjabulo nenjabulo. Kuyo yonke impilo kufanele sifunde ukuzwa yonke imizwa. Ukuphathwa kwentukuthelo nokukhungatheka kuyadingeka ukukulawula kahle kusuka ebuntwaneni.

Bobaba nomama, ake sithi cha ezinganeni zethu lapho kunesidingo bese sithi yebo lapho kudingeka futhi. Masithi cha ngothando, uthando nothando. Masibakhuthaze, sibashukumise, sibenze bazizwe bekwazi ukubhekana nanoma yibuphi ubunzima. Konke lokhu kuzosivumela ukuthi silawule izikhathi ezinzima zika- “cha” ezizotholakala ebuntwaneni, ebusheni nasekuphileni kwabantu abadala.