La uzwela njengoba sichazile kuzindatshana ezimbalwa ezedlule i amandla ukuthi abantu kufanele bazibeke endaweni yomunye, umzwelo y cabanga kwehlukile. Abantu abaningi abadala nganoma yisiphi isizathu abadlulisi lolozwelo kwabanye futhi kuyinto okufanele kusetshenzelwe kuyo.
En los izingane Kwenzeka into efanayo, abaningi abanalo leli khono elithuthukisiwe, yingakho kubalulekile ukukhulisa lo mqondo ekhaya, ukusebenza nabo kusukela ebuntwaneni, ngoba isesifubeni ajwayelekile lapho ungathola khona uzwela kangcono futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, esikoleni.
Ezinganeni kunjalo ezibalulekile ukusiza ukuthuthukisa leli khono ngoba ebudaleni bazodinga ukunakekela abanye abantu futhi bakhathazeke ngabanye ngaphandle kwabo. Kufanele uqinisekise ukuthi aziningi kakhulu ubugovu nokuthi bayazi ukuzifaka ezicathulweni zomunye umuntu, okuzokusiza uqonde imizwa kwabanye nokuhlukanisa lapho ekwazile ukulimaza othile enganakile. Ngenxa yalesi sikhundla sizobasiza ukuba babe kangcono abantu esikhathini esizayo futhi abakwaziyo ukuphatha wonke umuntu obazungezile kangcono kakhulu.
Ukuze ukwazi foment uzwela ezinganeni kufanele, isibonelo, sifunde izindaba njengomndeni lapho bazi khona ukuzibeka endaweni yomlingiswa ngamunye futhi chazaEkuqaleni ngosizo lwabazali, uzizwa kanjani ngamunye wabo, uma bedabukile, bejabule, bekhathele ... Nika isibonelo kuyinto ebonakalayo uma unezingane, ngakho-ke kufanele sihole ngesibonelo futhi sibe ngabokuqala ukusiza abantu abayidingayo, singabi nobugovu, sibakhathalele abanye ... Bafundise ukuthi hlobo luni imizwa ekhona futhi wenze ngamunye wabo abone kubantu abasizungezile, noma ngabe wehla ngomgwaqo, uzokwenza ukuthi uhambe ukuhlukanisa imizwa ngayinye, ngaso sonke isikhathi sinikeza izibonelo zemizwa yethu. Enye into okungafanele siyikhohlwe, ikakhulukazi abazali, ukuthi akunasidingo kuya ku-nag ungalokothi uye enganeni ngokuveza imizwa yayo njengokuthethiswa njalo kungadala ukuthi ikhule ukwesaba ukuzikhulumela obala futhi kubangele izinkinga ezinkulu ze ezenhlalo ngokuzayo, yingakho lapho umfana noma intombazane ikhala, mayikhale, uma ihleka, mayihleke ... ifunde ukuthi izwakalisa imizwa futhi yazi babone kokunye kuyinto enhle kakhulu kumuntu.
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