Umphakathi esiphila kuwo namhlanje uphoqa abazali abaningi ukuthi bangabikho ekhaya isikhathi esiningi sosuku futhi izingane azikwazi ukujabulela ukuba khona kwazo noma isikhathi somndeni. Kuyadabukisa ukuthi lokhu kwenzeke kusukela lapho izingane zidinga ukuba nabazali bazo ukuze zikwazi ukukhula kahle kuzo zonke izindawo wempilo yakho: kwezenhlalo, ngokomzwelo, ngokwengqondo… Isikhathi sekhwalithi nezingane zakho sibalulekile empilweni yomndeni enhle futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke enjabulweni yasekhaya.
Yize kuliqiniso ukuthi njengamanje ukungabibikho kwesikhathi sempilo okumele abazali bayihole kusolwa ngoba ukuze kufinyelele ekupheleni kwenyanga ngokujwayelekile bobabili kufanele basebenze, ezikhathini ezedlule ukusweleka kwesibalo sikababa kwakusolwa ngoba kwakungowesifazane ngubani owayehlala ekhaya, futhi ezikhathini zangaphambili kwakuyinto ethile engokwesiko ... Akunandaba ukuthi siyini isizathu, okuseduze ukuthi kumele kube nokushintsha kwengqondo ezimpilweni zabo bonke abazali wezwe ngenjabulo yezingane nekusasa elingcono labo bonke.
Izingane azidingi ...
Izingane azidingi izinto ezengeziwe, noma izingubo zomkhiqizo noma zonke zakamuva. Badinga ukuhlala eduze kwabazali babo, ukuthi babe nesikhathi esengeziwe sabo noma bengenakho konke. Kusobala ukuthi abazali kuzofanele basebenze kanzima ukuze bakwazi ukuziphilisa nokuthi izingane zingakwazi ukujabulela ikhaya, inhlanzeko enhle, ukudla nsuku zonke etafuleni, njll. Kepha abazali bakho akudingeki basebenze amahora ayi-12 ngosuku ukukhokhela amaholide ehlobo kolunye uhlangothi lomhlaba. Izingane zizojabula ngokwengeziwe uma phakathi nonyaka sezivele zizwa ukuthi iholide ngoba zinesikhathi somndeni ... Futhi lapho kufika ihlobo, akunandaba ukuhlala ebhishi eliseduze noma ukuthi amaholide amafushane!
Izingane azidingi zakamuva ngaphansi komuthi ngoKhisimusi ukuze zihambe phambili ekilasiniLokho akubenzi babe ngcono abazobenza bathande izinto ezibonakalayo lapho sebekhulile nokuthi lo mphakathi wabathengi uzoba namandla alula okubalawula ukuze bawasebenzise ngokuxhamazela. Izingane zidinga ukwangiwa okwengeziwe, "Ngiyakuthanda" ngaphezulu namahora amaningi epaki adlala i-croquette nabazali bazo.
Wagcina nini ukujabula ngezinto ezilula?
Abazali nezingane banezinhlelo eziqinile nsuku zonke okubonakala ngathi sikhohlwa ukusondelana kwemindeni ... Iningi lethu kufanele lenze imizamo yokwenza izingane zenze umsebenzi wazo wesikole esikoleni, ziye ezemidlalo ngesikhathi futhi ukuze konke kuhambe kahle . Kepha impilo isenza sihambe masinyane size sikhohlwe ukuma nokujabulela izinto ezilula, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu: fundisa izingane zethu ukuthokozela izinto ezilula.
Abazali abaningi bayakhohlwa ukudlala
Abazali abaningi bayakhohlwa ukudlala nezingane zabo futhi ukudlala kubalulekile ezimpilweni zabo bonke abantu (hhayi izingane kuphela). Sonke sidinga ukuhleka futhi sijabulele umzuzu, sazi ukuthi sijabule futhi sizizwa ngaphakathi kwethu injabulo yokuba seduze nabantu esibathanda kakhulu kulokhu kuphila: umndeni wethu.
Ukudlala nezingane zethu kuzokwenza inhliziyo yethu ikhanye futhi kwenze nomphefumulo wethu uzizwe ukhululekile ekucindezelekeni kwansuku zonke, kuzo zonke izinkathazo nazo zonke izindleko ezingokomzwelo ezingalungile Isikhathi sekhwalithi osinika izingane zakho sisifanele isisindo saso segolide, ngoba yiso kanye esikudingayo ngempela ukuze bakwazi ukujabulela impilo futhi bakhule ngezinkumbulo ezinhle ezizobenza babe ngabantu abaphumelelayo, abalinganiselayo nabanekhono.
Izingane zihlala eduze futhi zixhumana nemvelo, kufanele uyibuke kuphela imizuzu engu-5 ukuze ufunde kuyo. Ake ngikuxhume futhi naleyo ngane engaphakathi onayo futhi uyijabulele nezingane zakho. Zinike isikhathi sokuzijabulela futhi uzijabulise. Ukudlala kuyazenzakalela futhi kubaluleke njengokuphefumula, yingakho kungafanele ulahle lelo khono elibalulekile.
Jabulela lapha futhi manje nezingane zakho
Ukudlala nezingane zakho futhi uzinike isikhathi sekhwalithi lapho ama-smartphone namalaptop angenandawo khona, uzobe uxhuma nesikhathi sakho, ukhumbula okubaluleke kakhulu futhi uzokwazi ukwehlisa ijubane ngokwanele ukuze ukwazi ukubona izinto ezibaluleke ngempela: vala amehlo akho ulalele izingane zakho zihleke, lowo umculo omuhle wenhliziyo yakho!
Futhi, uma unikeza izingane zakho isikhathi esezingeni eliphakeme, uzobe uxhuma ngokomzwelo nazo. Kungakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthola isikhathi usuku ngalunye sokwenza. Kepha ungazizwa unecala uma ungenaso isikhathi esiningi ngoba isimo sakho somsebenzi asikuvumeli futhi awukwazi ukwenza lutho okwamanje ukukulungisa, kepha yenza isikhathi osichitha nabo sibe yisikhathi esikhethekile, esezingeni. Ukwakhiwa kabusha kwemizwa kuzohlala kukuwe njalo.
Izingane zakho ziyakudinga
Izingane zakho zidinga ukusondelana nawe, zazi ukuthi uma zikudinga, uzoba eceleni kwazo, zidinga ukuhleka nawe futhi zikwenze eceleni kwakho. Badinga ukuzwa ukuthi ubathanda kanjani nokuthi ujabule kangakanani ngabo. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho ayinandaba nokunakwa kwakho, kufanele ucabange futhi ucabange kabusha ukuthi yikuphi ukunakekelwa omnikeze khona.
Uma uhlale udlala nezingane zakho noma ukhathazekile ngokuchitha isikhathi nazo ngezikhathi ezithile, ngakho-ke akufanele ukhathazeke ngokuthi ingane yakho ingaphambi kokuthomba noma eyeve eshumini nambili, ngoba noma ngabe idinga isikhala sayo uqobo ngezikhathi ezithile, izokwazi ngokuqinisekile qhubeka ufuna ukuchitha isikhathi nawe.
Ukudlala nezingane zakho kudinga ukuthi ufune imisebenzi yokuzijabulisa, umdlalo uhilela ukuba ndawonye. Uma uzithola usho ukuthi awunaso isikhathi sokudlala naye noma sokuyozijabulisa ... futhi uma ukwenza lokhu kaningi, kufanele uqale ukubeka phambili isikhathi sakho, awucabangi?
Ngemuva kwakho konke, ngubani ozokhumbula eminyakeni eyishumi ukuthi uhlale ehhovisi ngoLwesibili ebusuku kuze kube yihora leshumi nanye? Kepha ngineqiniso lokuthi indodana yakho ayisoze yakhohlwa ukuthi nijabule kangakanani ndawonye ku-roller coaster ngalo Lwesibili olufanayo.
Khumbula ukuthi akukho okwakha ukwethembana nokuhlangana nengane akufanele kuthathwe kalula, kufanele wabelane ngezikhathi zakho nezingane zakho.