Akuzona zonke izingane eziguquka ngesilinganiso esifanayo, ezinye zithatha isikhathi eside kunezinye ukufinyelela emigudwini yentuthuko Futhi lokhu akudingeki ukuthi kube yinto ephikisayo, kude nayo. Kuyadingeka ukuthi bobabili abazali nochwepheshe bahloniphe isigqi sengane ngayinye maqondana nokuziphendukela kwayo kanye nokutholwa kwayo ezinkingeni zokukhula. Noma kwesinye isikhathi, kungahle kube nokubambezeleka kwentuthuko okuzobaluleka ukwazi ukuzikhomba ngokushesha okukhulu.
Kepha kulindeleke ukuthi ezinye izigaba zentuthuko zifinyelelwe phakathi kweminyaka ethile ukwazi ukuthi kunenkinga yini entuthukweni noma cha. Lokhu kuyadingeka ngaphezu kwakho konke, ngoba lapho kukhona uhlobo oluthile lokubambezeleka kokuvuthwa ezinganeni, kubalulekile ukuthi kube nokunakekelwa okwanele futhi ekuqaleni kokuthuthukisa zonke izimfanelo izingane okufanele zizifunde.
Ngokulandelayo sizokhuluma ngokubambezeleka okuthile kokuthuthuka okuvame kakhulu ezinganeni ezisukela eminyakeni emi-3 kuye kwengu-5 ubudala, kodwa ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuthola ukuze ngale ndlela, ukunakekelwa nokusekelwa kungafunwa ukuze kukhuthazwe izingane ngokushesha. Ngale ndlela bazokwazi ukuthuthukisa amandla abo aphelele.
Ukubambezeleka kwentuthuko: ngokomzwelo nangokwenhlalo
Lezi zinkinga zingasho ukuthi izingane zinenkinga yokuhlangana nabantu abadala noma ezinye izingane. Isikhathi esiningi, kuvela izinkinga ngaphambi kokuba izingane ziqale isikole.
Imbangela ejwayelekile yokubambezeleka kwezenhlalo nezingokomzwelo ingenzeka ngoba ingane inesifo se-autism spectrum disorder noma i-ASD. Lokhu kuphazamiseka kungathinta indlela ingane eziveza ngayo, ixhumana ngayo, iziphathe ngayo, nokuthi ifunda kanjani.
Yini ongayenza kulezi zimo
Lapho kunokulibaziseka kwezenhlalo noma okungokomzwelo ezinganeni, kuzofanele ubheke imbangela nokuthi kuthinta kangakanani impilo nekhwalithi yempilo yengane yakho. Kuzofanele usebenze ngokubambisana nodokotela nabanye ochwepheshe abasiza ingane yakho ukuthi ithuthukise zonke izimfanelo zayo.
Imithi noma izinhlobo ezikhethekile zokwelashwa kokuziphatha kungasiza uma ingane yakho inezinkinga zokuziphatha ngenxa yokulibaziseka kokuvuthwa. Ungasebenza futhi nodokotela ukuze ufunde ukukhulisa amakhono amahle okuhlalisana nawomzwelo ekhaya, lokhu kubalulekile ngoba ukusebenza ekhaya yikhona okubaluleke kakhulu ukuze izingane zikwazi ukuthuthuka kuzo zonke izici zempilo. Ngokushesha usebenza ngalezi zinkinga, maningi amathuba okuthi ingane yakho izokwazi ukuhlangana nezinye izingane ezingontanga bayo ngaphandle kwezinkinga ezinkulu.
Yini ejwayelekile kumakhono omphakathi nemizwelo eminyakeni eyi-3 kuye kwengu-5
Ukuze wazi ukuthi yini ejwayelekile nokuthi yini engekho, kufanele uqale ukukhomba ukuthi yimaphi amakhono kwezenhlalo nangokomzwelo okufanele azuzwe ngokweminyaka yobudala. Khumbula ukuthi ingane ngayinye yehlukile futhi kufanele ilandele isigqi sayo.
Eminyakeni emithathu
- Khombisa intshisekelo kwezinye izingane
- Zizwe ukhululekile ukuhlala kude nabazali noma abanakekeli
- Ingagcina ukuxhumana okuhle kwamehlo
Eminyakeni emine
- Ukubamba noma ukukhala kaningi lapho abazali babo behamba
- Naka ezinye izingane
- Uphendula abantu abangaphandle komndeni
Eminyakeni emihlanu
- Ukhombisa imizwa ehlukahlukene
- Ungahlukaniswa nabazali bakho kalula
- Iyakwazi ukudlala nokuxhumana nezinye izingane kalula
Ukubambezeleka kwentuthuko: okuhlobene nokucabanga
Kunezizathu eziningi zokuthi kungani ingane ingaba nezinkinga ngokwazi kwayo ukucabanga, ukufunda nokukhumbula, lokhu kwaziwa nangokuthi amakhono okuqonda. Izimbangela zingafaka izinkinga ekukhuleni kofuzo, izinkinga zomzimba, izici zemvelo, ukuzalwa ngaphambi kwesikhathi noma ezinye izinkinga ngaphambi kokuba zizalwe, ngisho nezingozi ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa noma lapho ziseyizingane. Kepha isikhathi esiningi Odokotela abakwazi ukuthola imbangela ethile yokulibaziseka kwengqondo, kepha kubalulekile ukubhekana nayo ngokushesha okukhulu.
Yini ongayenza kulezi zimo
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukwazisa udokotela wengane yakho uma ucabanga ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle. Uma udokotela evuma, uzoncoma uchwepheshe owaziyo ukuthi iyini inkinga futhi ngalokho athole imbangela enkulu ekubambezelekeni kwengqondo. Ukuthola ukuxilongwa okunembile kubalulekile ukuze ukwazi ukuthola usizo oluhle kakhulu lwengane yakho. futhi ngaleyo ndlela kuthuthukiswe zonke izimfanelo namakhono abo. Ngokuya ngokuxilongwa kwengane yakho, ungakwazi ukuthola usizo kusuka:
- Udokotela osebenza emsebenzini
- Kusuka ku-psychopedagogue
- Kusuka kumfundisi wezokwelapha
Kwesinye isikhathi umuthi ungasiza ezinkingeni zokuziphatha ezenzeka ngenxa yokubambezeleka kwengqondo. Ezinye zalezi zinkinga zokuziphatha kungaba ukuguquguquka kwemizwelo, ukunganaki, noma isimilo esiphazamisayo.
Yini ejwayelekile emakhonweni okuqonda noma okucabanga eminyakeni eyi-3 kuye kwengu-5
Eminyakeni emithathu
- Ungakopisha umbuthano
- Qonda imiyalo elula
- Yenza imidlalo yokulingisa noma yefantasy
- Uthanda ukudlala ngamathoyizi afanele iminyaka
Eminyakeni emine
- Joyina imidlalo exhumanayo
- Uhlanganyela emidlalweni emnandi
- Iyakwazi ukukopisha imibuthano nezinye izinhlobo eziyisisekelo zejometri
Eminyakeni emihlanu
- Iyakwazi ukugcina ukunakwa
- Ingagxila emsebenzini owodwa ngaphezulu kwemizuzu eyi-10
- Uthanda ukufunda izinto ezintsha ngaphandle kokuzizwa ukhungathekile njalo
Khumbula ukuthi wazi ingane yakho kangcono ukwedlula noma ngubani, unganqikazi ukuya kudokotela uma ubona ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle. Landela umuzwa wakho wemvelo Noma ucabanga ukuthi mhlawumbe ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kuzothuthuka, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi udokotela ucabangani ngokusho kwamaphutha owabona ezinganeni zakho.
Akunandaba ukuthi hlobo luni lokulibaziseka kokukhula ingane yakho engaba nakho, ukuxilongwa nokwelashwa kusenesikhathi kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokusiza ingane yakho ukuba ikhule ngokukhulisa wonke amakhono nezimfanelo zayo. Ukunakekelwa kusenesikhathi kungagwema izinkinga ngokuzayo, ngalo mqondo kubalulekile ukufuna usizo ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka kusukela eminyakeni eyi-3 futhi nangaphambi kwalokho uma ucabanga ukuthi ukukhula kwengane yakho akuhambisani nobudala bayo. Usizo alusoze lwalimaza futhi ungakhuthaza intuthuko enhle yokuvela kwemvelo.