Ezikhathini eziningi ekhaya ungezwa izingane zakho zisho amagama anenzondo angalimaza abanye abantu. Amagama enzondo angenza umonakalo omkhulu kunokulimaza ngokomzimba. Ungalokothi uvumele izingane zakho zijwayele ukuthukana noma ukuhlekisana ngamazwi, ngoba amagama anenzondo angenza isilonda esijulile esingokomzwelo okunzima ukusipholisa.
Kufanele kube umthetho ekhaya ukuthi awudingi sixwayiso okufanele usilandele, kepha uma izingane zakho zisebenzisa amagama anenzondo, sekuyisikhathi sokukwenza kucace ukuthi akukho ukubekezelelana kwamagama enzondo ekhaya lakho. Uma umzali ezwa ulimi olunenzondo noma olonakalisa omunye emndenini, kuba nomphumela osheshayo. Bazosheshe bafunde ukuthi amagama amabi awabekezelelwa ekhaya.
Kuyadingeka ukuqala ukucabangela lokhu ngoba bayizingane ezincane kakhulu futhi kubalulekile futhi ukuba yisibonelo esihle njengabazali, yiba nengxoxo ehloniphekile yabanye. Kuyadingeka ukuthi uqale usemncane ngoba njengoba izingane zikhula kungaba nzima ukukwenza lokho ngoba zihlakaniphe kakhulu, zinobuqili futhi zinamagama amabi afakwe ngaphakathi ... yize kungenzeki futhi.
Fundisa izingane zakho ukuthi zikhulume zodwa ngamagama akhayo najabulisayo. Uma benomkhuba wokusho izinto ezimbi, bavuse. Yenza isikhathi sedina ithuba lokuthi wonke umuntu eze etafuleni azoncoma umuntu ongakwesobunxele bese umuntu ongakwesokudla. Kuyasiza ukudala izinhliziyo nezingqondo ezinomusa lapho kukhulunywa amagama amahle komunye nomunye.
Uma ungafuni ukuthi kukhulunywe, ungakwenza ngebhokisi lamagama amahle lapho wonke umuntu ezobhala khona izinto ezinhle ngabanye. Ungakwenza kanye ngesonto ukuze kungabi yinto eyenziwe ngomshini futhi kuphume enhliziyweni. Kuzokwakha umthelela ohlala njalo enhliziyweni yakho ukuzwa amagama amahle avela kubantwana bakini.