Ayikho ingane ekhula ngesilinganiso esifanayo nenye, zonke zinezigqi zazo zokuziphendukela kwemvelo futhi kufanele zihlonishwe ukuqinisekisa ukuthi zikhula kahle ngokufanele. Kepha ungathola ukuthi ingane yakho ingahle ingabi namakhono iningi lezinye izingane ezinalo ngeminyaka efanayo. Uma lokhu kwenzeka kwaziwa njengokubambezeleka kwentuthuko futhi noma nini lapho kutholakala ukungajwayelekile entuthukweni, kuzodingeka ukuthi uye kudokotela oyingcweti ukuze ahlole isimo.
Ukubambezeleka okuningi akukubi, futhi izingane eziningi kamuva ziyaqhubeka futhi azisenazo, kepha lapho ukubambezeleka kwentuthuko kwenzeka, zidinga ukwelashwa kusenesikhathi. Uma uthola ukuthi ingane yakho inokubambezeleka okuthile ekukhuleni kwayo, izodinga usizo olufanele ngokushesha okukhulu, Futhi uma ungabaza, iya kudokotela wakho ngokushesha okukhulu ukuthola ukuthi ingane yakho inohlobo oluthile lokulibaziseka kokukhula yini.
Kunezinhlobo ezahlukahlukene zokubambezeleka kokukhula, izinkinga ezivame kakhulu ezinganeni yilezi:
- Inkulumo noma ukubambezeleka kolimi
- Ukubambezeleka kwamakhono emoto
Yize okunye ukubambezeleka okungokomzwelo noma kokucabanga nakho kungatholakala.
Inkulumo nolimi kusuka eminyakeni emi-3 kuye kwengu-5
Alukho usuku olujwayelekile noma umnqamulajuqu wokuthi ingane iqale ukukhuluma noma isebenzise imisho ephelele. Kepha iningi lezingane lifinyelela kumlando wokukhuluma nolimi ngeminyaka ethile. Kuzofanele ubonane nodokotela wakho uma ingane yakho ingazi ukuthi ingafinyelela kanjani kulezi zinyathelo ezilandelayo lapho ziyiminyaka elandelayo, Futhi uma esezuze lawa makhono futhi ngokungazelelwe eqala ukuwalahleka, kuzofanele futhi uye kudokotela.
- Eminyakeni emi-3: yenza imisho emifushane, ukhombe izingxenye zomzimba bese usebenzisa amagama amaningi.
- Eminyakeni engu-4: ingakhuluma indaba elula futhi akhumbule imilolotelo. Sebenzisa imisho enamagama angaba mahlanu bese usebenzisa u-'I 'no' wena 'kahle.
- Eminyakeni engu-5: Uyakwazi ukuqonda imiyalo eyinkimbinkimbi, esebenzisa isibongo nesibongo, asebenzise ubuningi nesikhathi esidlule kahle, abuze imibuzo enjengokuthi: 'kungani?', 'Ngubani?', 'Nini?' Futhi uyakwazi ukukutshela ukuthi wenzeni ngalolo suku.
Inkulumo noma ukubambezeleka kolimi
Lezi zinkinga zivame kakhulu lapho kukhona ukulibaziseka kwentuthuko, kepha ukubambezeleka kwenkulumo akufani nokulibaziseka kolimi. Uma kukhona ukubambezeleka enkulumweni kuhlobene nemisindo ephuma emlonyeni womuntu. Izingane ezinenkinga yokubambezeleka kokukhuluma zingase zingingize noma zibe nezinkinga zokubiza amagama.
Ukubambezeleka kolimi kusho imisindo nokuthinta komzimba. Izingane ezinezinkinga zolimi zingaba nenkinga yokuziveza noma yokuqonda abanye.
Ukubambezeleka kokukhuluma noma kolimi kungenzeka ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene, ezinjengalezi: izinkinga zolimi lwengane, ulwanga, noma umlomo okwenza kube nzima ukukhuluma, ukulahlekelwa ukuzwa nganoma yisiphi isizathu, ukukhubazeka kokufunda, noma ukuphazamiseka kokukhula.
Uma lokhu kwenzeka futhi ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho ingaba nokulibaziseka kokukhuluma noma kolimi, kuzodingeka wazise udokotela wakho ngokushesha. Udokotela uzokwenza izivivinyo ezifanele ukuthola ukuthi unanoma yiluphi uhlobo lwenkinga olubangela lokhu kubambezeleka. Uma ngemuva kokuya kochwepheshe abafanele ingane yakho inokubambezeleka ngempela, khona-ke kufanele ibe nokwelashwa kokukhuluma ukuze ikwazi ukuphimisa amagama, imisindo nokuqinisa imisipha yobuso nomlomo. Yize ekhaya ungalandela namathiphu afana nalawa:
- Khuluma nengane yakho nsuku zonke, ukhombe izinto usho igama lakhe, buza imibuzo bese uphendula, njll.
- Fundela ingane yakho indaba nsuku zonke
- Landela ukwelashwa okudingekayo ukuze uthuthukise isimo sokuzwa
Amakhono ezimoto asuka eminyakeni emi-3 kuye kwengu-5
Izingane ngokuvamile ziba namandla futhi zihambisane njengoba zikhula. Kuyadingeka ukuthi wazise udokotela wakho uma ingane yakho ingahlangabezani nanoma iyiphi yalezi zigigaba zokukhula kule minyaka elandelayo noma uma izifundile futhi kubonakala sengathi ayisazazi kahle.
Eminyakeni emi-3
- Gcina ibhalansi
- Khuphuka futhi wehle izitebhisi
- Dlala ngezinto ezincane
- Isitaki sivimba
- Sebenzisa zombili izinhlangothi zomzimba wakho
- Uyakwazi ukuhamba ngezinyawo zakhe
Eminyakeni emi-4
- Iphosa ibhola futhi likwazi ukuyibamba uma likhulu
- Gxuma futhi wazi ukuthi ungagxuma kanjani ngonyawo olulodwa
- Hamba ngebhayisikili elinamasondo amathathu ngaphandle kwezinkinga
- Beka futhi udlale ngamabhulokhi
- Ukhumula izingubo
Eminyakeni emi-5
- Yakha imibhoshongo yakho ngamabhulokhi
- Uyakwazi ukushaya nokugxuma
- Sebenzisa isikele esifanele iminyaka
- Penda ngemibala
- Akhumule agqoke izingubo
- Iyakwazi ukuxhuga ngaphezu kwamasekhondi ayi-10
- Khuphuka wehle izitebhisi ushintshashintsha izinyathelo
- Uyakwazi ukuxubha amazinyo ngaphandle kosizo
- Uyageza futhi ome izandla
Ukubambezeleka kwamakhono emoto
Ezinye izingane zingaba nezinkinga ngeminyakazo eziyisebenzisayo emisipheni (amakhono amakhulu emoto) njengokudlala ibhola noma ngokunyakaza okuncane ngamakhono emoto amahle njengokupenda ngemibala. Kwesinye isikhathi inkinga ayikho emandleni akho, kepha ukusebenzisana kwakho. Ungaqaphela ukuthi ingane yakho ibukeka ingamampunge kunezinye izingane ezingontanga yayo.
Imvamisa lapho kunezinkinga ekukhuleni kwamakhono ezimoto kungenzeka ngoba kunenkinga ethile engokomzimba noma eyisisekelo eyithintayo. Lapho kunezinkinga zokwelashwa zingaba zimbi kakhulu. Ezinye izinkinga zezokwelapha kungaba:
- Izinkinga zombono
- Ukuntuleka kokulawulwa kwemisipha (ataxia)
- I-Dyspraxia (ubuchopho bunenkinga yokuxhumanisa nokuhlela ukunyakaza kahle)
- Izifo zemisipha
- I-Cerebral palsy
Lapho ingane ibambezeleka kumakhono emoto, udokotela uzokutshela ukuthi usebenze ngangokunokwenzeka ekhaya futhi ubhalisele ukuvuselelwa noma ukwelashwa ngokomzimba. Ukwelashwa emsebenzini nakho kungaba umqondo omuhle wokuthuthukisa amakhono okuhamba noma izinkinga zokuxhumanisa. Angaze anikeze nemithi yokwenza ngcono ukunyakaza kwakhe, kepha lokhu kuzodingeka kuhlolwe kuphela ngudokotela oyingcweti.