Inhloso enkulu yabazali ukunikeza ukuphepha ezinganeni zabo, ngaphakathi kwalokho kuvikeleka kufakiwe izici ezibaluleke njengokuhlinzeka ukudla, indawo ephephile nokuzinza ngokomzwelo, phakathi kwabanye. Kepha ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukuthi unikeze izingane amathuluzi adingekayo ukuze abe ngawodwana, azimele futhi ozimele.
Ngokuphambene nalokho, ubuhlobo bokuncika ngokomzwelo buyasungulwa lokho kubavimba ekukhuleni nasekuvuthweni ngesilinganiso esanele. Yize kumama noma ubaba, lokhu kuncika kungaguqulela othandweni olwedlulele nasekunciphiseni ingxenye yengane, iqiniso ukuthi kuvimbela ingane ukuthi ikwazi ukusebenza ngokukhululeka ngaphakathi kwemvelo yazo yomphakathi. Njengoba okwamanje ahlukaniswe nomuntu okukhulunywa ngaye, ngokuvamile umama, ingane ayinamandla okuzimela.
Kuyini ukuncika ngokomzwelo
Ukuncika ngokomzwelo kuhumusha isidingo sokusondelana nobaba noma umama, ngisho nomuntu osebenza njengomnakekeli, ofana nogogo, ukuze azizwe ephephile futhi evikelekile. Lokho wukuthi, ingane ayikwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yomuntu ngamunye, uhlupheka lapho kufanele ahlukane ngisho nokuya esikoleni njll. Akukona ukuba ingane ekhohlisayo edinga uthando oluningi, ingane ethembele ngokomzwelo ihlupheka njalo lapho kufanele yehlukane nonina, ubaba wayo, ugogo, njll.
Ingane ethembeke ngokomzwelo kungenzeka baba sengcupheni yokungakhuli kahle Ngokufanele. Zonke izingane zinokunamathiselwe komunye wabazali bazo, imvamisa umama, lapho zisencane kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, njengoba bekhula, kufanele bathole ukuzethemba nokuzimela. Lapho kunokunamathisela ngokweqile, ingane ingaba nezinkinga ekwenzeni imisebenzi yayo yansuku zonke, njengokuya esikoleni, ukwenza imisebenzi yangemva kwesikole, ukudlala epaki nezinye izingane ngisho nokuba nenkinga yokwenza abangane.
Ukusiza Ingane Yakho Ikwazi Ukuzimela: Okunamathiselwe Ngokuvikelekile
Ukufundisa ingane yakho kusuka othandweni, othandweni nasekuqondeni akuhambisani nakho ukukunikeza amathuluzi adingekayo wokuthuthukisa njengomuntu ngamunye ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo. Lokhu kuzomvumela ukuba akhule, afunde ukubhekana nezimo ezahlukahlukene ezivela nsuku zonke, ethembela othandweni nasekwesekeni kwabazali bakhe.
Okunamathiselwe okuphephile kuqukethe:
- Imfundo esuselwa ekukhuliseni ngenhlonipho, uthando lomzimba, ukubonakaliswa kothando nokwethembana
- Nikeza ukuphepha enganeni. Ngokudla okunempilo, ikhaya elinethezekile futhi elizinzile lapho uzizwa uvikelekile futhi uvikelekile. Ngaphezu kosizo lwezokwelapha, imfundo futhi ekugcineni, konke okukuvumela ukuthi uthuthukise wonke amakhono akho
- Umndeni uyisisekelo sokusekelwa ngokomzwelo yengane. Ikhaya kumele libe yindawo ezinzile, lapho ingane ingathola khona ukuphepha okungokomzwelo okuyivumela ukuthi izifeze futhi ithole ukuzimela
Ingane ekhulela endaweni ephephile, lapho ingaphenya khona, ilinge futhi yazi umhlaba ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwayo, kukhula njengomuntu omdala ngokuzethemba, ukuphepha nokuzimela siqu
Ngakho-ke, kufanele ususe isimilo esifana ne-
- Ukuzivikela ngokweqile: abazali bavame ukuvikela ngokweqile izingane zabo ngenhloso yokugwema ukuhlupheka. Kepha lokhu kuziphatha kuveza umthelela omubi enganeni, encane iyayidinga inkululeko yokuzitholela umhlaba. Noma angawa, alimale, enze iphutha endleleni noma athole okuthile angakuthandi, ngoba uyohlala ulapho, eceleni kwakhe.
- Imikhawulo nezinkambiso: Izingane zidinga ukuba nemithetho ngoba zingazi ukuthi ingozi ikuphi. Kuyinto eyodwa ukuthi banenkululeko yokuzama futhi okunye lokho bangenza noma yini ngaphandle kwemingcele.
- Isikhathi sekhwalithi: Okuhumushela ekunikezeleni isikhathi esikhethekile enganeni, kungaba imizuzu eyi-15 noma amahora amathathu. Ngaleso sikhathi akufanele kube neziphazamiso, noma iselula, noma ithelevishini, noma ikhompyutha. Ngale ndlela, unganikela ngesikhathi sekhwalithi enganeni yakho futhi izothola uthando, ukwesekwa, ukwethenjwa nothando ngendlela efanele.