Abazali abaningi banquma ukuthi izingane zabo kufanele nini ulale wedwa egumbini lakho, kepha namanje abazi ukuthi bazoyishintsha nini ingane ekamelweni labo elisha. Siyakwazi lokho kwabaningi kuyisinyathelo sokuziphendukela kwemvelo futhi lokho kubangela isisindo esikhulu, ngoba asazi ukuthi lolu shintsho lungadala yini ukuvuka ebusuku.
Imizamo eminingi kugcine kungaphumelelanga lapho abazali bethatha isinqumo sokushintsha ikamelo lezingane zabo futhi ingane ayikwamukeli. Ukuntuleka kokulala nokuhlukunyezwa nsuku zonke kokuhlushwa ukuqwasha kuyaphela lapho abazali abaningi bekuvumela. kuyenziwa ukulala ngokubambisana. Kumele sihlaziye ukuthi kungani sekwenzekile nokuthi kuyisikhathi sini sokushintsha indodana yethu ukuze le micimbi ingenzeki.
Kufanele ngiyishintshe nini ingane iye egumbini layo?
Ngaphandle kokuqhubeka kokungabaza ukungabaza okukhulu kwabazali abaningi, ngoba ngezimo ezahlukahlukene futhi yokuthi impilo ngokuhlanganyela isekhaya kanjani, izici eziningi kuzoya ukuze kwenziwe lolu shintsho. Ngesikhathi sokuncelisa, isibopho esikhulu senzelwe ingane futhi esinganciphisa le nqubo kakhulu. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka?
Ngoba phakathi kukamama nengane kudaliwe okunamathiselwe okuncane nalolu hlobo lokuncika kwenza ukuthi ihlehle kakhulu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Imvamisa kwenzeka ukuthi ngokunethezeka ingane icishe ilele nokuthi nini funa isifuba inikezwa ngaphandle kokuchitha isikhathi. Leli qiniso lenza umkhuba ojwayelekile futhi lenze ukusondela kube lula kakhulu futhi akudingeki ukuthi liye kwelinye igumbi.
Kepha lokhu kulungile esinye sezibonelo ezivame kakhulu, okungenani lapho ucabanga ukuhambisa ingane egumbini lakho futhi ungazi ukuthi isikhathi sifika nini. Ngakho-ke, ukulala ngokubambisana okungafinyelela kugcina izinyanga kuya eminyakeni, mhlawumbe nalapho ingane inquma ukuthi idinga ukuzimela.
Kunemininingwane eqinisekisa lokho ingane ngeke izwe lokho kunamathisela noma ukukhathazeka ngokwahlukana ngaphambi kwezinyanga eziyisikhombisa noma eziyisishiyagalombili. Lokhu kuguquka kusitshela ukuthi ngaphambi kwaleyo minyaka kulapho singakwazi ukukhulisa ukuxazulula okuningi futhi sizame ukukwenza indodana yethu yokushintsha amakamelo.
Kuyindlela enqumayo nokuthi iba yingxenye yabo bobabili abazali nengane uqobo. Isikhathi sokwenza lolu hlelo sihambisana lapho, ngenxa yochungechunge lwezimo, sikholwa yilokho sonke sikulungele. Yize kungabonakala kungafani nabazali abaningi, lo mzuzu awufiki ngoba badinga ukulala ndawonye futhi bahlale ndawonye, ngoba bayakuthanda. Kuliqiniso elenzeka emakhaya amaningi futhi imindeni eminingi ivame ukuthula, kepha kuyiqiniso.
Ungayisiza kanjani ingane yethu ilele yodwa?
Kunezindlela eziningi zamaqhinga nokufundisa ukwenza ingane enamathiselwe ilale yodwa. Kuyisinqumo abazali abaningi abafuna senzelwe ukuzuzisa wonke umuntu kanye nengane ube nokuzimela kwakho. Akwaziwa ngokuqinisekile ukuthi ngabe kokubili ukulala ngokubambisana noma ukwenza ingane ilale egumbini lakhe kuyimicimbi encintisana ukuze kuzuze wonke umuntu. Ngamunye unezinzuzo nezithiyo zakhe.
Uma ingane isivele ikhulile kancane kungachazwa ukuthi sekuyisikhathi se-tNgimkhohlisile ngalala ekamelweni lakhe. Akuwona umbuzo wokusebenzisa amagama athi 'uzolala wedwa' ngoba kungaba yinto enkudlwana, kepha yebo xoxa ngothando ngalesi simo esisha.
Uma wesaba ukulala wedwa ngenxa yokwehlukana noma ngoba kukhona ubumnyama konke lokhu kungaduduzwa ngamagama amahle. Kumele kuqashelwe ukuthi kunokuhlukana okuncane kuphela phakathi kwegumbi elilodwa nelinye, kepha lokho abazali basondelene kakhulu. Uma kukhona ukwesaba ubumnyama, isibani esincane singasala egumbini. Izilwane eziseduze ezifakiwe noma amathoyizi enkampani enkulu nawo enza uzizwe uvikeleke kakhulu.
Lapho ingane yakho isewusana, umqondo wenguquko usebenza neminye imihlahlandlela. Ukuba mncane ushintsho lungasebenza kakhulu. Ukudluliswa kungenziwa kancane kancane, kumbeka egumbini kancane kancane nokujwayela iselula yakhe yokulala nakho konke okumzungezile. Lawa maqhinga amancane, ngesikhathi nokubekezela ungamenzela umntwana uzimele ekamelweni lakho.