Yiziphi umzala wokuqala ongachazela izingane

baphi umzala wokuqala

Ukwazi ukuthi yini abazala bokuqala kubaluleke kakhulu ukwakha ubudlelwano phakathi komndeniNgakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukuchitha isikhathi uchaza izibopho zomndeni kumalungu amancane kakhulu wendlu. Ngale ndlela, izingane zithola izinzuzo ezihlukahlukene, okokuqala umuzwa wokuba yingxenye. Ukuzizwa uyingxenye yomphakathi ofanayo, wombuthano okhethekile owabelana ngokuthile okuhlukile njengegazi.

Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuhlangana kwenyama, lokho okuzwakala ngokwemvelo ngabantu abayingxenye yomndeni owodwa. Futhi ekugcineni, ithuba lokuhlangana nokudala izibopho eziyingqayizivele nezihlobo ezahlukene. Chazela izingane zakho ukuthi bangobani abazala bokuqala, kanye nabo bonke ubuhlobo bomkhaya, buyobenza bazi futhi bakhe imizwa eyingqayizivele.

Abazala bokuqala, bayini?

Amalungu omndeni.

Mhlawumbe indlela elula yokuchazela izingane ukuthi uyini umzala wokuqala ukuqala ekuqaleni, ukudala isihlahla somndeni lapho kuzothuthukisa khona amalungu ahlukene. Ngakho, kusukela kugogo nomkhulu ozala umama nobaba, ubudlelwano obuhlukene bungachazwa. Kusukela kulobu budlelwano bokuqala, bonke abanye abantu abakha iqembu bayazalwa. umndeni, ngakho ogogo nomkhulu bayizinsika eziyisisekelo, lapho yonke into iqala khona.

Izingane zizalwa ngogogo nomkhulu, abafowabo komunye nomunye futhi kubo, izingane zabo zakusasa ezizozalwa ngobudlelwane abanabo ekukhuleni kwabo. Kule nyunyana kuzozalwa abazukulu bogogo nomkhulu nabashana bezinye izingane zabo okuyizingane zabazali. Ngokufigqiwe, izingane zomfowabo ngamunye ziba umzala wokuqala kwezinye izingane zabanye abafowabo.

Ukwenza kube lula ukuqonda, ayikho into efana nokwenza uhlelo olunamagama ukuze umntwana aluqonde kangcono. Ngokwesibonelo, ugogo nomkhulu uMaría noJosé babenezingane ezimbili, uMario noJosefa. UMario washada noCristina futhi waba nezingane ezimbili, u-Ana noFelipe. Udadewabo uJosefa washada no-Alfonso futhi waba nendodakazi, uSusana. Ngakho-ke, u-Ana noFelipe abangabafowabo, Bangabazala bakaSusana bokuqala.

Abazali bomzala babaluleke kakhulu, ngoba bangomalume futhi emindenini eminingi lezi zibalo ziba abazali besibili. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, izingane zomalume nazo zizokwakha imindeni yazo futhi zibe nezingane, ezizoba umzala wesibili. Inkimbinkimbi encane yengane encane, Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, kubalulekile ukuphendukela kokuthile okubonakalayo njengesihlahla somndeni..

Dala isihlahla somndeni njengomsebenzi nezingane

yenza isihlahla somndeni

Enganeni, incazelo enjalo eyisisekelo ingaba isiphithiphithi. Ngakho-ke kuzoba lula kakhulu ukusebenzisa amathuluzi abonakalayo enza kube lula futhi kube lula konke. Hlela umsebenzi wangempelasonto futhi uguqule incazelo yobudlelwano ibe umsebenzi wezandla womndeni. Ngakho-ke, ngaphezu kokufundisa izingane ukuthi zingobani izihlobo zazo nokuthi yiziphi izibopho ababelana ngazo, ungaba nesikhathi esihle sokwenza imisebenzi yezandla.

Thola ikhadibhodi elikhulu kanye nezimpawu ezinemibala. Futhi, uma ukwazi, izithombe zawo wonke amalungu omndeni ukwenza incazelo ibe lula. Ngenkathi uchaza ubudlelwano, ungakha imidwebo esihlahleni somndeni, engeza amagama omndeni futhi uma kukhona isikhathi, tshela okwengeziwe kancane mayelana ngamunye wabo. Lokhu kubalulekile, ngoba cishe ngeke bazi lutho ngezihlobo zabo.

Uma ungakwazi ukusho okuncane ngendawo ngayinye, njengokuthi bazalelwa kuphi, uma bevela kwelinye idolobha nokuthi kungani bathuthela kwelinye izwe. Ngaphezu kokuthatha ithuba lokuchaza ukuthi kuyini ukufuduka. Lonke lolo lwazi oluvelayo luba isifundo esihle ezinganeni. Jabulela leso sikhathi somndeni futhi usize izingane zakho ziqonde ukuthi umndeni wakhiwe kanjani nokuthi obani abangamalungu awo. Ngakho, uzoba nethuba lokwazi kangcono laba bantu futhi ilukuluku lakho liyokhula ukwazi okwengeziwe ngabo.



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