Ukuntuleka kokulawula umfutho kuyimpande yezinkinga eziningi zokuziphatha. Ngaphandle kokungenelela okufanele, isimilo sokuzithambekela sivame ukuba sibi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Isibonelo, izingane ezineminyaka engu-6 ezingacabangi zingagadla lapho zingatholi indlela yazo, kuyilapho osemusha engabelana ngokuqukethwe okungafanelekile ku-inthanethi ngaphandle kokucabanga ngemiphumela. Ngalesi sizathu, ukusiza izingane ukulawula izinkanuko zazo kungumsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu kubazali.
Izindaba ezinhle ukuthi bangafunda amakhono amasha wokuthuthukisa ukulawula kwabo umfutho njengoba bekhula. Futhi lapho bezuza ukuzithiba ngokwengeziwe, mancane amathuba okuthi benze noma basho okuthile okungalimaza abanye, noma bona ngokwabo. Yini enye, lamakhono azoba wusizo olukhulu kuwe empilweni yakho yonke.
Izindlela zokusiza izingane zilawule izifiso zazo
Sizobona amanye amasu okusiza izingane ukulawula imizwa yakho.
Fundisa ingane yakho ukubhala imizwa yayo
Izingane ezingayiqondi imizwa yazo zinamathuba amaningi okuba nomfutho. Ingane engasho ukuthi ithukuthele, iveza lowo muzwa ngolaka. Noma ingane engakwazi ukukhuluma ngomlomo ukuthi idabukile, impendulo yayo kuzoba ukuziphonsa phansi phansi ukukhala nokumemeza. Ngakho-ke, inhloso ukumfundisa ukuthi aqaphele imizwa yakhe ukuze ayiveze ngamazwi hhayi ngezenzo ezingalingani.
Khuluma nezingane zakho mayelana imizwelo eyisisekelo njengokuthukuthela, ukudabuka noma ukwesaba. Babonise umehluko phakathi kokunye noma okunye. Ungasebenzisa izincwadi noma ama-movie ukubasiza baqonde. Okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi bazi ukuthi kulungile ukuthukuthela, kepha hhayi ukushaya izinto noma abantu. Futhi lokho kuzizwa kudabukile noma ukwesaba kuyimizwa ejwayelekile efanayo. Lapho bekwazi ukusho imizwa yabo, mancane amathuba okuthi bathathwe yizinkanuko zabo.
Cela izingane ziphindaphinde imiyalelo ukuze zizisize zilawule imizwa yazo.
Izingane zivame ukuziphatha ngokuxhamazela ngoba azilaleli okucelwa zona. Cishe bazongena ebhizinisini ungakaqedi ukubabuza lokho okufunayo, ngaphandle kokwazi nokuthi yini ofuna bayenze. Benze baphinde lokho obatshele khona, kuyindlela yokuqinisekisa ukuthi unakwe. Lapho sebekwazi ukuphinda lokho obatshele kona, bangaqala ukusebenza.
Kusobala ukuthi uma bengakwazi ukuphinda okucelile kubo, mancane amathuba okuthi bakwazi ukukufeza. Bazokwenza okunye. Ngakho-ke ngokuqinisekisa ukuthi bakulalele, uzobathola ukuthi bathule isikhashana ukuze banake. Ukuma nokulalela kubalulekile ekulawuleni imizwa yakho.
Bafundise ukuxazulula izinkinga
Khuthaza amakhono okuxazulula izinkinga ingenye yezindlela eziphumelela kakhulu zokulawula umfutho. Ukufundisa izingane ukuthi inkinga ingaxazululwa ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene kuzikhombisa ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani ukuhlola amathuba ahlukahlukene ngaphambi kokwenza. Ngakho-ke faka izingane zakho inkinga, futhi uzikhuthaze ukuba zicabange okungenani izindlela ezinhlanu zokuxazulula le nkinga. Ngemuva kokuthola izixazululo, basize bacabange ngesixazululo esisebenza kahle kakhulu, bese basisebenzisa.
Ngokuzijwayeza, bazojwayela ukucabanga ngaphambi kokwenza futhi lokhu kuzonciphisa ukujaha kwabo. Ngokuqala leli su njengomdlalo, bazozijwayeza umkhuba wokucabanga ngezimo ngaphambi kokubhekana nazo. Leli khono ngokungangabazeki lizobonakala liwusizo olukhulu ekusaseni lakho, kokubili ezifundweni nasemsebenzini.
Fundisa izingane amakhono okulawula ulaka
Ukubekezelela okuphansi kokukhungatheka kungaholela ekuqhumeni kokungacabangi. Ukuzifundisa amasu wokuhambisa lokhu kukhungatheka kungabasiza ukuthi babhekane nemizwa yabo ngendlela enempilo. Izindlela ezilula njengokuphefumula okujulile noma ukuhamba uzungeze indlu kungakusiza ushise amandla futhi uphumule. Ukuzindla nokuvivinya umzimba nakho kungamathuluzi amahle ezingane ezinezinkinga zokulawula ulaka.
Ungababuza nokuthi yiziphi izinto noma imisebenzi ebenza bazizwe bezolile, bese kuthi izimpendulo zabo zakhe “ikhithi ezolile”. Lolu uhlobo lwekhabethe lemithi ongaya kulo uma uzizwa sengathi awukwazi ukulawula ulaka lwakho. Inhloso ukuthi baphumule ngokuqukethwe yileso kit esiphuthumayo, kepha inhloso ukuthi ubafundise ukukhululeka ngaphambi kokungena enkingeni ngenxa yokwehluleka kwakhe ukuzibamba.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuxhumana nokuqonda
Kujwayelekile ukuthi izingane ezincane zibe nomfutho ngokomzimba, kuyingxenye yemvelo yabo. Ukushaya izinto, ukugxuma embhedeni, noma ukugijima nokumemeza uzungeze isitolo sokudla kuyizinkinga ezivamile zokulawula umfutho. Ebusheni, iningi lezingane selivele likwazile ukulawula izinkanuko zalo, kepha zisengaba nomfutho ngamazwi. Lokhu kuzobalethela inkinga engaphezu kweyodwa ezifundweni zabo noma emisebenzini.
Ngokuzijwayeza njalo nokuyala, Ukulawula umfutho kufanele kuthuthuke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kodwa-ke, uma izingane zakho zibonakala zinobunzima obukhulu kunezinye izingane ezingontanga yazo, kungcono ukukhuluma nodokotela wazo wezingane. Izimo ezinjenge-ADHD Zingaphazamisa ikhono lezingane zakho lokulawula ukuziphatha ngokuxhamazela. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukuthi uchwepheshe ahlole ukuthi ingane yakho inenkinga yini yokuzithiba.