Izingane ezisanda kuzalwa ziyakhala futhi zikwenza ngezizathu eziningi ezahlukene: indlala, ubuthongo, ukushisa, isithukuthezi, i-diaper engcolile noma i-colic. Okufanele sikukhumbule wukuthi ukukhala kulezi zinyanga zokuqala akuwona neze umcabango, kodwa njalo kumelela ukucela usizo ukuze kwaneliswe.
Kodwa-ke, ye- qonda uma umntwana osanda kuzalwa elambile, kukhona “amaqhinga” bonke abazali abangawakhumbula ukuze babikezele isidingo somntwana. Eqinisweni, i- izimpawu zendlala ezisanda kuzalwa bafike kungakabi bikho ukukhala, okuthi uma kwenzeka kuvele kuphuze kakhulu.
Kufanele ingane esanda kuzalwa idle malini?
Inani lokuphakelwa kwansuku zonke ezinsukwini zokuqala nezinyanga zokuphila liphakathi kuka-8 no-12 (ngezinye izikhathi ngisho ne-14), inani lobisi amatafula avame ukuliphakamisa inyanga nenyanga kufanele libhekwe njengenkomba, njengoba isimo somntwana ngamunye osanda kuzalwa sihlukile. Ukukhathazeka ngokuthi ingane yakho ayikutholi ukudla okwanele kungenye yezinto ezivame kakhulu phakathi komama abasanda kuzalwa, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi encela noma encela ubisi oluyimpuphu.
Uma ingane ikhuluphala, uma ibonisa izimpawu zokusutha ekupheleni kokunceliswa, asikho isizathu sokukhathazeka futhi, kancane, ukuzama ukunweba amabhodlela ambalwa engeziwe ngobisi lwefomula ngokwesaba ukuthi ngeke athathe okwanele ebeleni.
Lo mkhuba, ngeshwa abanye omama abawuzama ngokungazi, awulungile; kufanele kwenziwe kuphela uma udokotela wezingane ephakamisa ukuthi ngesizathu esizwakalayo kufanele kusetshenziswe. Kwenzekani ngempela? Ingane, naphezu kokuba isiqedile ukudla, ihlola lesi sixazululo esisha, igcwalisa ngaphezu kokudingekile futhi yeqe ukuncelisa okulandelayo noma iphinde iphinde ibisi. Nakuba ubisi lwebele lushintsha ngesikhathi sokuncelisa, lukhuluphale futhi lucebe, ubisi lwebhodlela luyafana kusukela ekuqaleni kuya ekugcineni;
Ukubaluleka kokuncelisa ibele ngokufunwa
Yebo, ingane esanda kuzalwa ingalamba ngaphambi kwamahora angu-3 e-canonical, njengoba nje kungenzeka ukuthi ilale ngokuthula isikhathi eside ngaphandle kokudinga ubisi. Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokungalandeli ngokuqinile amashejuli, empeleni kuya ngokuya kunconywa ukuncelisa ngokufunwa, enezinzuzo eziningi: umntwana uba nemikhuba yokudla enempilo kanye nokuziphatha okuzithiba ngokudla, ngengozi ephansi yokukhuluphala kwabantu abadala. Akukho futhi ukwesaba ukuphakelwa okuningi kakhulu, ngoba, ikakhulukazi ngokuncelisa, usana lubona ukuthi kufanele luyeke nini.
Yiziphi izimpawu zendlala ezinikezwa umntwana osanda kuzalwa?
Sike sathi ukukhala kuyindlela yokugcina ingane esanda kuzalwa izama ukusenza siqonde ukuthi ilambile. Ngaphambi kokufinyelela kulo mzuzu, ingane ithumela uchungechunge lwezibonakaliso, ezenziwe ngokunyakaza nemisindo, elandela umyalelo othile. Lapha sizokukhombisa ungabona kanjani ukuthi ingane yakho ilambile
- ekuqaleni ingane isazolile, kodwa kancane kancane iqapha futhi inake, iqalaze
- khona-ke umntwana osanda kuzalwa uqala ukwenza ukunyakaza ngomlomo: akhiphe ulimi, abonakale ehlafuna, egwinya
- umntwana ube esethanda ukuphendukela emaceleni afune ibele ngobuso bakhe. Kukhona futhi i-reflex engokwemvelo nengokwemvelo enganeni, lapho lapho ithinta isihlathi emlonyeni, ingane ibeka izindebe ohlangothini olusuka kuyo isikhuthazo. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, lesi sigaba singadideka nokusabela okuvamile komntwana osanda kuzalwa kokuthile okumthintile.
- Umntwana, ngemva kwezibonakaliso zokuqala, manje uhamba ngokushesha futhi ngokushesha; Yelula, yelula izandla zakho ezincane. Sisezingeni lokuvula ngokugcwele. Umntwana osanda kuzalwa, engakawuboni umehluko phakathi kwakhe nonina, uyamfuna emngceleni wakhe, azelule ukuze amthole.
- esikhathini esizayo, umntwana osanda kuzalwa uzothatha izandla zakhe ezincane emlonyeni wakhe, azihlafune, njengokungathi ufuna uhlobo oluthile lwenduduzo.
- ngaphambi nje kokukhala izinyembezi, okokugcina izimpawu zendlala ezisanda kuzalwa yizililo eziqala ukuphuma, ezihambisana nokwethuka kanye nebala elibomvu elibomvu
Ingane ikhala indlala
Kuphela ngemva kokwenza konke okusemandleni ukusazisa ukuthi ulambile lapho umntwana osanda kuzalwa eqala ukukhala. Ngokusobala akwenzeki ngaso sonke isikhathi ukubona izimpawu ngesikhathi, mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi bamatasa belungisa ukudla. Futhi, ingane ngayinye ihlukile: akuzona zonke izingane ezenza izinyathelo ngesivinini esifanayo futhi lokhu kuncike esimweni sabo sengqondo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kuhle ukufunda ukuhumusha nendodana yethu, ngale kwe-physiology.
Yini okufanele uyenze kuleli qophelo? Okokuqala nje, elambile ekhala ingane idinga ukuzola . Ngale ndlela, uzoqonda ukuthi sizilalele izidingo zakhe futhi ngeke abe novalo ngokudla. Ingozi, empeleni, ukuthi uzithola udla ngokukhulu ugqozi, ngoba ufinyelela lapho ungasakwazi ukulawula indlala oyizwayo.
Kwenzeka-ke lokho idla ngokunganele ebeleni, ngoba uphuza ubisi lokuqala (okungenamsoco) bese ekhathala; ngenkathi ezozifaka ngebhodlela, ngezinkinga ze-colic, ngoba usana olusanda kuzalwa lugwinya umoya, kanye ne-reflux, ngoba isisu -sincane kakhulu- sigcwalisa ngokuphazima kweso. Ukuze uthole ukuthi ingane isondle ngokwanele yini, vele ubheke kuye: ungabona ngokucacile ingane enelisekile, enelisekile, amehlo akhe avaliwe, ekhululekile. Ingane engakwazi ukuthola ubisi lwebele olwanele noma ekuthola kunzima ukulukhipha ebhodleleni ngeke iphume izolile.