Ukwephula ama-taboos. Ungakhuluma kanjani ngobungqingili nezingane zakho

chaza ubungqingili ezinganeni

Izingane zethu ziyakhula, futhi njengoba zikhula, sebazi umhlaba obazungezile futhi bazibuza imibuzo eyengeziwe. Esinye sezikhathi ezisatshwa kakhulu ngabazali abanye yilapho ingane ibuza ukuthi, "Zivelaphi izingane?" Kodwa-ke, kuyindaba esiyijwayele kakhulu futhi, ngama-pluses nama-minus ethu, sijwayele ukuphuma kukho.

Kodwa kuthiwani ngobungqingili? Emindenini eminingi lolu wudaba olunameva kakhulu. Futhi ngukuthi, ngaphandle kokuthi sesithuthuke kakhulu emalungelweni ezocansi nasenkululeko, ubungqingili buqhubeka nokuba, ngeshwa, bube yisifundo esingenakuphikiswa. Endlini ngayinye kunombono ohlukile, kepha Njengomama nobaba sinomthwalo wokufundisa izingane zethu ngenhlonipho nokubekezelela bonke abantu kanye nezinqumo zabo. Ikakhulukazi kulezi zikhathi lapho, ngenhlanhla, ukuthanda umuntu wobulili obufanayo kuya ngokuya kujwayelekile. Kepha ukwenze kanjani? Singakhuluma kanjani ngokukhululekile nezingane zethu ngobungqingili ngaphandle kokudlulisela ubandlululo kubo noma izindlela ezingafanele?

Ungakhuluma kanjani nezingane zakho ngobungqingili?

Khuluma nezingane zakho ngobungqingili

Zilungiselele okwamanje

Yize isihloko singaba nameva, kufanele wazi ukuthi akekho ongcono kunathi ukufundisa nokwazisa izingane zethu. Kungakho-ke kulula ukuthi uzilungiselele futhi uthathe ubulili njengento ethile engokwemvelo, ukuze ukwazi ukukhuluma nezingane zakho ngaphandle kwemibhalo. Ubhekene nombuzo osabekayo othi "Mama, kunjani ukuba yisitabane?" Kufanele wenze ngokwemvelo futhi uphendule ngokuthula, unikeze imininingwane eyanele futhi uzivumelanise neminyaka yombuzo.

Uzoqala nini?

Imindeni eminingi iyazibuza ukuthi kufanele iqale nini ukubhekana nale nkinga. Ngempela, ngaphezu kokuhlala phansi ukukhuluma ngakho, kufanele siyifake ezingxoxweni zethu zansuku zonke ngokwemvelo futhi-ke, ukuphendula imibuzo yakho ngokusobala, ngaphandle kwamanga. Singazisebenzisa nezimo esethulwa zona usuku nosuku, ukubhekana nodaba.

Khohlwa ngobandlululo

Ungakhuluma kanjani ngobungqingili nezingane zakho

Impela uzoba nombono wakho ngale ndaba, kepha khumbula ukuthi inhloso yethu njengomama nobaba akuyona eyokudlulisela imibono yethu ezinganeni, kepha banikeze ulwazi oludingekayo ukuze bakhombise futhi bakhe owabo umbono. 

Ukuba yisitabane akusona isifo

Beka eceleni ukwesaba kwakho bese uchazela izingane zakho ukuthi ukuba yisitabane akusona isifo, kepha kumane kuyisimo esihlukile sezocansi, kepha kuyahlonishwa ngokulinganayo. Ungawudlulisi umqondo wokuthi kuyinto engavamile noma ebangela izifo. Ungakhathazeki uma unomngane okhombisa ukuheha abobulili obufanayo, noma. Mfundise ukuhlonipha wonke umuntu futhi azakhele ukwahlulela.

Ukukhuluma ngobungqingili nendodana yakho ngeke kulimaze ukuthi ungubani ngokobulili

Eminye imindeni yesaba ukuthi uma ikhuluma nezingane zayo ngobungqingili, ingase ibuthande. Akukho okunye okuvela eqinisweni. Ukukhuluma nezingane zakho ngalezi zihloko kunikela kwezocansi okunempilo, kungakhathalekile ukuthi zithambekele kuphi. Yini enye, Sivula iminyango ukuze bakwazi ukuveza imizwa yabo ngokukhululeka futhi badlulise ukungabaza noma ukwesaba kwabo kulokhu. Futhi ngubani ongcono kunathi ukuzixazulula? Ngokukhuluma ngokukhululekile nezingane zethu, sizivimbela ukuthi zisebenzise ezinye izindlela noma abantu abangahle bangadluliseli ulwazi olwanele kubo ukudala abantu ababhekelekayo nababekezelayo.

Khombisa inhlonipho

Gwema ukuphawula okululazayo noma amahlaya lapho uxoxa ngobungqingili nezingane zakho. Nikeza imininingwane ngokwemvelo futhi njalo ukhombisa inhlonipho ngokukhetha noma ukuma komuntu ngamunye. Ungabachazela ukuthi kunabantu abangongqingili ngenxa yesimo sabo sofuzo nabanye abangongqingili ngokuzikhethela. Kepha ngaphandle kwesizathu, bonke bafanelwe inhlonipho efanayo.

Chaza ukuthi kunezinhlobo ezahlukene zemindeni

Ubungqingili obutshelwe izingane


Chazela izingane zakho ukuthi kunezinhlobo ezahlukene zemindeni, ezinomama nobaba, ezinogogo nomkhulu, omalume noma nabantu ababili bobulili obufanayo, nokuthi zonke zisebenza ngokulinganayo futhi ziyahlonishwa. Benze bakubone lokho, Akunandaba ngomndeni, okubalulekile uthando nenjabulo yabantu. 

Sebenzisa izinhlamvu zezincwadi noma zefilimu nezethelevishini

Kunezincwadi eziningi noma abalingiswa bama-movie nabethelevishini abangasiza izingane zakho ziqonde kangcono ubungqingili. Ngale ndlela, izingane zizwelana nabalingiswa futhi zifunde ukujwayela izinketho ezahlukahlukene ngaphandle kokubandlulula.

Ezinye izindaba ezikhuluma ngobungqingili:

  • U-Oliver Button uyingane (Tomie De Paola)
  • I-Aitor inomama ababili
  • Ipeni lomlingo
  • Ixoxo elibomvu
  • Inkosi nenkosi
  • UJulia, intombazane eyayinesithunzi somfana
  • Umama akasabandi
  • Inkosazana li
  • Umndeni ngamunye ngendlela yawo
  • Ingubo kamama
  • Isilo esiphinki

Ngiyethemba ukuthi ngale minikelo emincane kuzoba lula ukuthi ukhulume ngobungqingili nezingane zakho. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi noma ngabe uthini umbono wakho, okubalulekile ukuthi udlulisele ukungakhathali nenhlonipho kubo. Ukukhula endaweni lapho ukubekezelelana nezingxoxo kuqhubeka khona kubalulekile Izingane zakho zikhula zijabule futhi zingesabi ukuzamukela njengoba zinjalo futhi ngaphandle kokubandlulula izinqumo zabanye abantu. 


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.