Kujwayelekile impela ukuthi izingane ezisencane kakhulu ziye kudokotela wezingane njalo ngezizathu ezahlukahlukene, kungaba ngokugula noma ngokugoma. Lokhu kungadala ukwesaba ezinganeni ngokwazo futhi kube yinkinga enkulu kubazali uqobo.
Akukuhle ukuthi babone udokotela wezingane njengosongo lwangempela, ikakhulukazi njengoba kuzofanele ahambe izikhathi eziningi ebuntwaneni. Kunamacala abucayi impela abangela ukukhathazeka okukhulu enganeni njalo lapho kufanele iye ehhovisi likadokotela wezingane.
Ukwesaba udokotela wezingane
Lapho ingane isaba ukuya kudokotela wezingane kulula kakhulu ukuyibona lapho encane iqala ukukhala futhi imemeze ngokungalawuleki. Njengoba iminyaka ihamba futhi uma sebekhulile, baba nokukhathazeka nezinzwa eziningi becabanga nje ukuthi kufanele baye kudokotela wezingane. Kungumuzwa ongemnandi neze kubazali ababona ukuthi ingane yabo iba nesikhathi esibi kanjani ngempela, uma kufanele bayobona udokotela wezingane.
Izimbangela ezivusa ukwesaba okunjalo
Kunezimbangela eziningana ezingadala ukuthi ingane yesabe ngokweqiniso lapho iya kudokotela wezingane:
- Kuyinto engaziwa futhi engaqinisekile ukuthi imvamisa ukwesaba okukhulu enganeni. Akazi ukuthi kuzokwenzekani, ngakho-ke kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi ukuya kokubonisana kudala ukukhathazeka nokwesaba.
- Enye imbangela yokushilo ukwesaba Kuhlobene nokuhlanganiswa komncane nento embi. Ungase ukhumbule umzuzu owanikezwa ngawo umuthi wokugoma noma wabhekwa ngoba wawubuhlungu kakhulu. Lokhu kuzodala ukuthi ukuvakashelwa kukadokotela wezingane kungathandi ingane futhi uzizwe wesaba kakhulu njalo uma uya kuyo.
- Enye imbangela ingahle ibe ngenxa yesibalo sabazali uqobo. Ingane ibhekisa kubo, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi ungakhulumi ngodokotela wezingane wezingane noma ungakhombisi ukukhathazeka ngaphambi kokuya kokubonisana. Uma abazali bebona ukuya kudokotela wezingane njengento engeyinhle, kungenzeka ukuthi badlulisele lo muzwa ezinganeni zabo. Uma abantu abadala behlupheka, izingane nazo zinenkinga enzima. Umncane akakwazi ukucabanga ukuthi udokotela wezingane ungumuntu ongemuhle futhi osabisayo, ngakho-ke abazali kumele baqinisekise ukuthi izingane ziguqula umbono wazo walelo nani ngaso sonke isikhathi.
Yini okufanele uyenze uma izingane zesaba udokotela wezingane
Uma ingane isaba ukuya kudokotela wezingane, isimo sengqondo sikadokotela wezingane sibalulekile uma kuziwa ekwenzeni ingane ilahle lokhu kwesaba. Abazali kufanele bazame ukukhetha uchwepheshe osondelene nozwelana nomncane.
Umsebenzi wabazali ubalulekile ukuze ingane ikwazi ukunqoba ukwesaba kwabo. Kuhle ukuthi abazali bangakhombisi isimo esibi lapho beyisa ingane yabo kudokotela wezingane. Uma ingane ibona abazali bayo bezolile futhi bethula, kungenzeka ukuthi uhambe nokwesaba okuncane ekubonisaneni.
Uma ingane ikhulile futhi ikwazi ukuqonda izinto, ungahlala nayo futhi nixoxe ngezinto ngendlela ezolile nomoya ophansi. Inkhulumomphendvulwano nengane futhi uzwe ukuthi abazali bayo baseceleni kwayo Kuhle uma kukhulunywa ngokuqeda lokhu kwesaba. Kumele umenze abone ukuthi akusona isiphelo somhlaba ukuya kudokotela wezingane nokuthi asikho isizathu sokuthi kungani kufanele akhathazeke. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi uphumule ngokwengeziwe futhi uhambe ngokuthula ngokwengeziwe ekubonisaneni uqobo.
Ngamafuphi, Kujwayelekile ukuthi izingane zinqikaze ukuvakashela udokotela wezingane. Ukwesaba akufanele kuqhubekele phambili ngoba lokhu kungadala ukukhathazeka okukhulu nosizi. Umsebenzi wabazali ungukhiye uma kukhulunywa ngokunqoba le nkinga.