Lapho sikhuluma nezingane asiqondi ukubaluleka nesisindo amagama ethu anaso kubo. Sikhuluma njengoba bekhuluma kithina noma ngendlela ezenzakalelayo, ngaphandle kokubuza. Ngemuva kokufunda le ndatshana, ngiyethemba uzocabanga ngendlela okhuluma futhi uziveze ngayo ezinganeni zakho, kangakanani Umphumela wePygmalion ezinganeni.
Uyini umphumela wePygmalion?
Ngoba umphumela wePygmalion ubhekisa ku- ithonya abanye abanalo kithi ngokulindela kwabo. Lokho wukuthi, ngokulindela nezinkolelo zethu singakwazi ukuguqula ukusebenza kwabanye abantu.
Imvelaphi yawo isukela ezinganekwaneni zamaGrikhi, lapho iNkosi iPygmalion engazange imthole khona owesifazane wempilo yakhe, akekho noyedwa owayephelele ngokwanele. Ekhathele ukufuna, wanquma ukwenza isithombe esibaza lo wesifazane amaphupho akhe. Usebenza njengowesifazane wangempela: wamgqokisa, wamgona, wamanga ... Unkulunkulukazi u-Aphrodite, unkulunkulukazi wothando, oshukunyiswa yile ndaba wanquma ukumenza owesifazane wangempela. Ngakho-ke iNkosi iPygmalion yathola owesifazane wamaphupho akhe.
Yini ebalulekile ngomphumela wePygmalion ezinganeni?
Lo mphumela ubaluleke kakhulu ezinganeni, ufundwe ikakhulukazi emkhakheni wezemfundo, lapho kutholakala khona umphumela wokulindelwe kothisha emiphumeleni yabafundi. Uma sizizwa sibalulekile, sithola okulindelwe okuhle kithina, sizophumelela kakhulu ukuthi uma othile engasethembi, noma ngabe umsebenzi uyafana.
Izingane zakha ukuzethemba kwazo ngokulindela abanye abanakho ngabo. Uma ucabanga ukuthi uzohluleka noma ukuthi ngeke akwazi ukwenza okuthile, kuzobe kungenxa yokuthi uzothatha okulindele njengokuyiqiniso.
Isicelo emakilasini
Esinye sezifundo ngomphumela wePygmalion wenziwa e-United States. Kwakhiwa amaqembu amabili abafundi: elilodwa elinamamaki aphezulu nelinye elinamamaki aphansi. Ucwaningo lwenziwa ngobumpumputhe obuphindwe kabili: abafundi noma uthisha babengabazi ubunjalo besifundo ukuze bangathinti imiphumela.
Kwenziwa lula kuthisha imiphumela eguquliwe wawo womabili amaqembu, okusho ukuthi imiphumela yamanothi aphezulu ibingeyeqembu lamanothi aphansi futhi okuphambene nalokho. Ngemuva kwesikhashana yatholakala iqembu elinamanothi aphakeme lahlaselwa kakhulu futhi labo abanamanothi aphansi bawanyusa kakhulu amanothi abo. Uthisha ngokunganakile ube nomthelela kulindelo lwakhe mayelana nokusebenza kwabafundi bakhe.
Isicelo sasekhaya
Uma uhlala utshela ingane ukuthi imbi, izogcina imubi. Lokho yilokho okulindele kuye, futhi uzothatha ukuthi lokhu kuyindima yakhe futhi uzoziphatha kanjalo. Kumele sihlaziye ukuthi yimuphi umyalezo esiwuthumela ezinganeni zethu, ukuthi yini esiyilindele kuzo nokuthi yini esifuna ukudlulisela kuzo.
Kungakho kubalulekile ukuthi bobabili abazali nothisha bawazi amagama esiwadlulisela ezinganeni nasezintweni ezihamba nazo, ukuze banganqamuli amaphiko abo ekukhuleni kwabo. Kumele sihlaziye ukuthi ikuphi okulindelwe kwangempela esinakho ngezingane zethu, ukuthi silindeleni kuzo, uma sifuna ukuthi zenze umsebenzi othile ngoba besingakwazi ukuwenza noma uma siphila ngawo.
Izingane azikho ukuhlangabezana nezidingo zethu. Bangabantu abahlukile, abanokuthanda, amakhono, amakhono kanye nezinhloso ezingase zehluke kwezethu. Kuzofanele senze umsebenzi omningi wangaphakathi ukuthola impande yalokho esikulindele empilweni, othandweni nasemndenini. Izikhathi eziningi siphinda amaphethini ngaphandle kokungabaza, yilokho abasifundisa kona futhi siyakwenza. Kepha kungahle kuthinte kabi into ebaluleke njengokuzethemba kwengane yakho, ukukhula komzwelo, nempumelelo empilweni.
Kumele senze okulindelwe okuhle kwabanye nakwithi ukuba nokuzethemba okunempilo nokukhulisa ukuzethemba kwethu.
Ngoba khumbula ... impumelelo noma ukwehluleka kwengane yakho kuzoxhomeka kakhulu kulokho okulindele kuye.