Ogogo nomkhulu bangobaba besibili bezingane eziningi, okuyisisekelo esiqedela umsebenzi wobaba nomama ezikhathini eziningi. Enganeni, ukuba nethuba lokukhula nogogo nomkhulu abaseduze nakho kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu empilweni. Kodwa-ke, isibalo sogogo nomkhulu singaba yinkinga uma uchungechunge lwemikhawulo lungasungulwa.
Ngaphansi kwesipiliyoni sokwazi, uthando nenkohliso yokwabelana ngokukhuliswa kwezingane, ogogo nomkhulu nogogo kungadala izingxabano. Ikakhulu kulawo macala lapho bancengela khona, bekhawulela igunya labazali noma bedlula izingqinamba ezithile. Ngoba akunasimo lapho kufanele ukukhohlwe lokho imfundo yezingane kumele ihlale kubazali futhi ogogo nomkhulu namanye amalungu omndeni kufanele bagcwalise kuphela lowo mbuthano wothando.
Ngingabeka imingcele kogogo nomkhulu?
Ungakwazi, uma ukwenza ngendlela efanele futhi ucabangela zonke izimo ezingase zivele. Ukukhuluma nabazali bakho akufani nokukhuluma nabazali bomlingani wakho. Amagama angahunyushwa kabi futhi umqondo akukhona ukudala inkinga yomndeni, kepha ukufunela izingane okuhle kakhulu. Ukubeka imingcele kogogo nomkhulu kuyadingeka ezimweni ezithile.
Ubeka indinganiso yengane yakho nogogo nomkhulu bayivumele ingane yeqe. Isenzo esiba umkhuba, okungeyona into ehlukanisiwe njengoba ngolunye usuku ntambama ingane ingafuni ukuthola isidlo. Isibonelo, unquma ukuthi ingane yakho kufanele idle ngendlela ethile kanti ogogo nomkhulu abavumi. Ngemuva kwalokho ogogo nomkhulu badala ingxabano nokudideka enganeni, egcina ingazi ukuthi ilalele bani.
Kwezinye izimo, lapho izingane sezikhulile ngandlela thile, ogogo nomkhulu bangangenelela ngokweqile empilweni yomzukulu. Okungenza ingane izizwe ibukwe ngokweqile noma ilawulwa futhi izizwe sengathi ihlasela ubumfihlo bayo. Okogogo nomkhulu, ikakhulukazi labo asebeneminyaka yobudalaUkuthi umuntu osemusha unenkululeko ethile yinto okusenzima ukuyifinyelela. Kepha obaba nomama abanesibopho nelungelo lokuchaza imithetho nemisebenzi yezingane zabo.
Ungayibeka kanjani imingcele ngaphandle kokucasuka
Lapho usebenza ngodaba, kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhetha isikhathi esifanele namagama kahle. Awudingi ukwedlula ugogo nomkhulu wakho phambi kwengane yakho, ngoba bazozizwa bencishwa. Kungcono ukulinda uze ube wedwa bese ubhekana naleyo ndaba ngomoya ophansi. Bachazele ukuthi lena yindlela onqume ukubhekana ngayo nalolu daba nengane yakho nokuthi kufanele bayihloniphe.
Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi ogogo nomkhulu bavikela ngokweqile, okuyisenzo sothando. Kodwa-ke, kuyadingeka ukuthi ingane ihlole imikhawulo yayo ukuthola indlela yokuhle nokubi, futhi yilokho okwenzelwe abazali bayo. Uma ogogo nomkhulu bekhulumela, chaza ukuthi akwenzeki lutho, ukuthi usuvele umfundisile okufanele akwenze embuzweni nokuthi uma kungahambi kahle, uyawa, wenza iphutha, angahlala ekulungisa.
Hlala ngaphambi kwemicimbi
Abantu babazi kahle ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, noma ngabe bangabazali bakho noma elinye iqembu, uzobe usunombono ocacile wokuthi bazoba yini njengogogo nomkhulu. Lokhu kukuvumela cacisa izinto ezithile singakafiki isikhathi, futhi ukuhlala ngaphambi kwemicimbi kuzokuvumela ukuthi usethe imithetho kusengaphambili. Ukudla, imisebenzi yasendlini, izibopho noma imithetho kuvame ukuba ngumthombo wengxabano phakathi kwabazali nogogo nomkhulu.
Beka ukumamatheka okuhle ebusweni bakho, thola wonke umusa wakho futhi sihlale ubuso nobuso nogogo nomkhulu. Ngokucacile, uthando, inhlonipho futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuzimisela okuningi, ungabeka imingcele nogogo nomkhulu. Ekupheleni kosuku, kumayelana nokufunela izingane okuhle kakhulu futhi kulokho, nonke nizovuma.