Ukwamukela nokuthatha ukukhubazeka kwengane akulula, kungukushaya kanzima okuzohamba nawe impilo yakho yonke. Kepha lokho, ngenxa yengane yakho uqobo, kufanele ukwamukele futhi ukwenze ngokusemandleni futhi ngokushesha okukhulu ngangokunokwenzeka. Njengoba le ukuphela kwendlela yokuhlinzeka ngempilo enhle kakhulu, futhi uthuthukise amakhono abo kuze kube sezingeni eliphezulu ukuze ingane yakho ibe nokuphila okugcwele.
Kujwayelekile ukuthi uzithole ulahlekile noma ulahlekile ngaphambi kwezindaba ezifanayo, akekho umzali okulungele ukubhekana nento efana nale. Kodwa-ke, injabulo yengane yakho ayincikile ekukhubazekeni kwakhe, kunalokho, angaba ingane ejabule kakhulu emhlabeni ngobunzima bakhe. Kepha ukwenza lokhu, udinga ukuthi abazali bakhe baqine futhi bakulungele ukusebenzisana ngenhlalakahle yengane.
Uma udinga usizo ukunqoba lesi simo futhi zilungiselele ngokomzwelo ukuthatha ukukhubazeka, Ungangabazi thola amaqembu okweseka. Kunezindlela eziningi zokuthola ukwesekwa kweminye imindeni ebhekene nesimo esifana nesakho. Kungaba ngokwakho, ngokusebenzisa izinkundla ezikwi-Intanethi noma ngokuxhumana nabanye abazali bezingane ezikhubazekile, ozobazi, uzokwazi ukuthola ukusekelwa nokuqonda okuhle okuzokusiza ukuthi uthathe ukukhubazeka kwengane.
Lawa amanye amathiphu wokuthatha ukukhubazeka kwengane
Lapho usuthole ukuxilongwa, maningi amathuba okuthi konke lokho impilo yengane yakho ivela phambi kwamehlo akho njengoba nje ubuphuphile nangaphambi kokuba ifike kulo mhlaba. Ngakho-ke, lapho bekutshela ukuthi ayikho into ezoba ngendlela obucabanga ngayo, kungenzeka ukuthi ucwile ungazi ukuthi uzobhekana kanjani nayo.
Lezi zeluleko zizokusiza bheka isimo ngenye indlela.
Thatha ukuxilongwa
Bonke abazali abathola izindaba zokukhubazeka kwengane, dlula esigabeni sokwenqaba. Okuthile kunengqondo ngokuphelele, kepha kufanele unqobe ngokushesha okukhulu. Kungenzeka ukuthi ukuxilongwa akucaci ngokuphelele, ukuthi kuyasolisa, ikakhulukazi esimweni sokukhubazeka kwengqondo okuhambisana ITIYE (i-autism spectrum disorder) ngoba phakathi neminyaka yokuqala kunzima kakhulu ukuthola ukuxilongwa okucacile.
Kodwa ngokushesha uma ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho inokukhubazeka (noma amakhono ahlukile) ngokushesha lapho ungathola ukunakekelwa okudingayo ukuze uthuthukise isimo sakho, noma ngabe yini.
Izinhloso zesikhashana
Ukuqala kokungenelela kwangaphambi kwesikhathi kungaba nzima, okuvame kakhulu ukuthi thatha izinyanga ezimbalwa ukuthola imiphumela yokuqala. Ngakho-ke kufanele ucabangele izinhloso zakho zesikhashana, noma iyiphi inqubekela phambili ezoba yisinyathelo esihle futhi kufanele uyigubhe njengokunqoba okukhulu kakhulu. Ungacabangi ngalokho ingane yakho engakuthola noma engeke ikufinyelele esikhathini esizayo, umgwaqo wayo mude kakhulu futhi nomsebenzi awuguquguquki.
Nakekela impilo yakho
Kujwayelekile ukuthi uzizwe ushonile, ukuthi umhlaba wakho wonke uwele phambi kwakho konke okuzayo. Kepha kufanele qaphela ukuthi nengane yakho iyafana, ngokukhubazeka noma ngaphandle kokukhubazeka. Ukudinga uqinile, uyakudinga ujabule futhi udinga wena ovumayo ukuze ukwazi ukubhekana nempilo yakhe njengoba kufanele eze. Gwema ukuhlala wedwa emphakathini, into omama nobaba abaningi abahlupheka ekuqaleni kokuxilongwa.
Uyomangala ukwazi ukuthi mangaki amacala ezingane ezikhethekile akhona yonke indawo, epaki, esikoleni, emphakathini wangakini ngisho nakubangani bakho bempilo yonke. Fihla lolu hlobo lwezindaba ukugwema ukuhlupheka, ngoba ukukuchaza akulula, kuyiphutha okungafanele ukwenze. Kubalulekile ukuthi ulungise isimo ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuze wonke umndeni wazi ngokwenzekayo futhi wonke umuntu usebenzela ukugcina ukujwayeleka.
Izingane kufanele zijabule, kufanele zithandwe futhi zivikelwe kungakhathalekile amakhono azo. Ngakho-ke, ngoSuku Lomhlaba Wonke Labantu Abakhubazekile, sifuna ukukhumbula okuthile okubalulekile, izingane ziyizingane naphezu kokwehlukahlukana kwazo. Njengomama noma ubaba, ulwela ukuthola ukufakwa empilweni yansuku zonke yengane, ukuze ukhule ujabulile naphezu kobunzima.