Amahloni ayinto evamile ezinganeni eziningi. Kuyisici sobuntu esithinta ngqo ubudlelwano bezenhlalo. Kungaholela ekutheni izingane zihoxe kakhulu, zingavikeleki, zikuthole kunzima ukugcina ubudlelwane nezinye izingane, noma zikuthole kunzima ukuveza imizwa yazo. Ake sibone ukuthi ungayisiza kanjani ingane yakho ukuba inqobe amahloni ayo futhi izethembe.
Amahloni ezinganeni
Kuyisici esisibona kaningi. Izingane ezicasha ngemuva konina phambi komuntu ongamazi, noma ezikuthola kunzima ukubamba iqhaza emidlalweni yeqembu nezinye izingane. Amahloni angavela onyakeni wokuqala wokuphila, futhi ngaphezulu kusukela eminyakeni yobudala eyi-3 lapho beqala isikole. Cishe i-15% yezingane ezineminyaka engaphansi kweyi-6 zinamahloni, futhi ngesikhathi sobusha leli phesenti lenyukela cishe ku-50% ngakho konke ukungavikeleki okulethwa yilesi sigaba.
Ingane ingazalwa inamahloni ngenxa yesimo sayo. Kepha kungenziwa futhi ngenxa yokuphila izimo ezithile ezingezinhle ezibenze balahlekelwa ukuzethemba nokuvikeleka, ngenxa yemfundo yabazali babo noma ukuyibona ekhaya (uma abazali benamahloni, bangafunda le ndlela yokuziphatha).
Ukuba namahloni akukubi, ngaphakathi kwemingcele. Kungaba lusizo kwesinye isikhathi, njengoba izingane ezinamahloni ziqaphelisisa, zihlaziya futhi ziqaphele. Okokuqala bayabuka bese benza okuthile. Imvamisa iyazihambela yodwa ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kepha uma izinga lamahloni likukuvimbela ukuba uxoxe kahle nabanye, ukhetha ukuhlala wedwa nokuba nabangane noma ngaso sonke isikhathi ulindele ukuthi abanye bakutshele okufanele ukwenze, lapho-ke kungabhekwa njengenkinga yezifo futhi kufanele ucele usizo.
Ungayisiza kanjani ingane yakho ukuba inqobe amahloni ayo
Kunochungechunge lwezeluleko esingazenza ukuze ingane yakho izuze ngokuphepha nokuzethemba, hhayi ukuqinisa imikhuba yakhe ekhawulelayo. Ake sibone ukuthi ziyini:
Ungamphoqi ukuba alandise
Into ebi kakhulu ongayibuza ingane enamahloni ukuyeka ukuba namahloni. Uma umphoqa noma emphoqa ukuba aziphathe kahle noma aphile ezimweni angakhululekile kuzoqinisa ukungaqiniseki kwakhe. Ungaphikeleli ekutheni bayeke, bajezise noma bagxeke. Ezikhathini eziningi, lapho abazali befuna ukusiza, esikucasulayo ukukhulisa inkinga ngenxa yokungazi.
Dala amathuba okuthi baxhumane
Isu elincane elinolaka ukumema izingane zeminyaka yakhe, okuyindawo ephephile kuye futhi engeke iphazamiseke kangako, ukuyibhalisela ukwenza umsebenzi wesikole othanda ingane, ukuba idle isidlo sasemini / isidlo sasemini neminye imindeni enezingane ubudala bakhe, noma vele uyise epaki. Ungamphelezela ekuqaleni ukuze azizwe ekhululekile futhi aphumule.
Mkhuthaze ukuba afane
Ungamtsheli ukuthi kufanele abe kanjani noma kufanele aziphathe kanjani. Imayelana nokuthola amakhono okuxhumana nabantu akusiza ebudlelwaneni bakho nabanye abantu, hhayi ngokuba omunye umuntu. Memukele njengoba enjalo.
Ungafaki amalebula kuso
Ukuba namahloni kusho ukungazethembi, uma sihlala simtshela ukuthi unamahloni futhi uhoxa kanjani, sizomenza akhombe kakhulu ngaleyo ilebula. Umsebenzi wakho ukumeseka futhi umphathe ngokwemvelo.
Gwema kokubili ukuvikela ngokweqile kanye nobushiqela
Akukho okwedlulele okuhle ngendaba yezemfundo. Njengoba sibonile ngenhla, isitayela semfundo sabazali singenza ingane ibe namahloni. Kokubili ubushiqela ngezimfuno zayo eziqhubekayo, kanye nokuvikelwa ngokweqile ngokuthanda kwayo ukuvula indlela, kungadala ukungavikeleki ezinganeni ezithinta ubudlelwano bazo nomphakathi. Izingane kufanele zifundiswe endaweni enobungane, ebanikeza ukuphepha kepha ngaphandle kokugwema izimo ezingathandeki noma ngeke bafunde ukuphatha izinsiza zabo.
Fundisa ngesibonelo
Uma ubona ukuthi abazali babo banokuziphatha okuhle nabanye, izingane zizokubona futhi zikufunde ngokwemvelo.
Mhalalisele ngempumelelo yakhe
Konke ukunqoba kuyimpumelelo okufanele ibungazwe. Okujwayelekile enganeni ephumayo yengane enamahloni kuyinselele impela. Mhalalisele ngokuziphatha kwakhe okuhle, kuzomenza athole ukuzethemba nokuzethemba.
Ngoba khumbula ... ukuba namahloni akuyona into embi, kepha ngochungechunge lwamathuluzi singathuthukisa kakhulu amakhono ethu kwezenhlalo.