Waziwa ngokwengeziwe ezweni lethu, umdlalo "wokuzingelwa kwamaqanda ama-Easter" kuyisiko emazweni afana neCzech Republic, France, Poland naseJalimane, lapho usuthunyelwe khona ezwenikazi laseMelika. Mhlawumbe ucabanga ukuthi umbhedo, kude namagugu esiwahlanganisa neViki eliNgcwele; kodwa-ke, akunjalo. Okokuqala, yonke imikhosi yenkolo inomsuka wayo wobuqaba. (Ngabe amaqanda ahlobene ngani nalokhu? 😉), futhi ukuqhubeka, ushokoledi kufanele udliwe ngezikhathi ezithile futhi ngaphandle kokuhlukunyezwa, yebo: kepha lolu ngolunye lwezinsuku lapho - ngokulinganisela - singaluvumela.
Iqanda liyisici esiyisithonjana: khumbula ukuthi i-Easter ihlangana njalo nenyanga yokuqala egcwele yeNtwasahlobo. Futhi yini intwasahlobo emele uma kungeyona inzalo nempilo? Phela iqanda libuye lihambisane nezinkawu zePhasika eMphakathini waseValencian. Qhubeka ufunde, futhi ngizokutshela ukuthi lokhu kuzingelwa kwamaqanda kumayelana nani: Ngicabanga ukuthi singakhuthazwa ngamasiko, futhi ngasikhathi sinye sivumelane namathuba ethu.
Amaqanda anenye incazelo ehambisana nePhasika: I-Lent yisikhathi sokukhumbula nokuzila ukudla, ukukhumbula izinsuku ezingama-40 uJesu azichitha ehlane, kepha ngePhasika konke kuyashintsha, labo abasalondoloza ukwehluka ekudleni kwabo ngezizathu zokomoya, bayahamba ukuziyeka ngemuva. Futhi uma ukhuluma ngamaqanda, unamathuba amathathu okuba izingane zijabule: ngoshokoledi, kungenalutho futhi kuhlotshisiwe, noma kuphekiwe futhi kuhlotshisiwe. Umbuzo ukwenza okuthile, okuhlukile, okumnandi nokujabulisayo.
Ukusuka ezwenikazi elidala kuya kwelisha.
EJalimane bebelokhu befuna amaqanda ezingadini zomndeni kusukela ngekhulu le-XNUMX, yize kungenjalo bonke bekwenza ngendlela efanayo; iningi lemindeni kuleli lizwe elisenkabeni yeYurophu, Banalo iqanda njenge-eksisi yomgubho, futhi ukuwafuna akuyona inkambiso kuphela. EFrance kamuva bayinikeza incazelo enhle kakhulu: ngeSonto lePhasika ukuvuswa kukaJesu Kristu kuyaphindwa, futhi izinsimbi zikhalela uGloria, kodwa futhi baya naseRoma ukuze bamemezele izindaba ezinhle: Emuva abasafani : amaqanda kashokoledi aqukethe ukugcwalisa izingadi zomphakathi namapaki, okuzojabulisa izingane (eziwafuna ngoMsombuluko wePhasika).
Izinhlobo zase-United States zinokuthinta okuthe xaxa kwezentengiselwano, futhi amaqanda aphendulwa abe izithombe ngesikhathi esisodwa njengoba kuhlelwa imincintiswano emikhulu yezinjini zokusesha (nemiklomelo ebalulekile)
Ukulungiselela ukuzingela kwethu amaqanda.
Ungaxoxa ngayo nomama bomakhelwane, osebenza nabo noma abangane bezingane zakho, udinga kuphela izinsuku ezimbalwa ukuyilungiselela. Lezi yizinto okufanele uzigcine engqondweni:
- Thola indawo: indawo evulekile engaphandle noma indlu enesikhala esanele ukudlala umdlalo ngokunethezeka.
- Uzodinga usizo uma: izingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-6, noma uma zingaphezu kweminyaka engu-15 ubudala.
- Ngabe amantombazane nabafana obamemayo ayizwani namaphrotheni obisi lwenkomo, amantongomane noma i-gluten? Gcina lokhu engqondweni lapho uya esitolo.
- Thenga amaqanda: ngokwanele ukuze ngabalingisi bathinte 2 kumhlanganyeli ngamunye. Uma kwenzeka ukungezwani komzimba nomzimba, futhi njengoba izingane zingathandi ushokoledi omnyama, ungaphendukela ezenzweni ezifanele wonke umuntu.
- Yenza obhasikidi bephepha, noma ucele eminye imindeni ukuthi ilethe izikhwama.
- Cabanga kusengaphambili ukuthi uzozifihla kanjani, futhi khetha isikhathi salokhu lapho abancane bengakafiki (ngezikhathi zesikole, noma othile azijabulise).
- Imiyalo oyinikezayo izocaca futhi ibelula: ukunqunywa, abadala basiza abancane, bonke labo abaqoqayo bazokwabiwa ngokulinganayo.
- Imiklomelo? Ngokwami, angibathandi: ukukwazi ukudla ushokoledi sekungaqondakala njengesikhuthazo, futhi uma uvuza labo abathola amaqanda amaningi, kuzoba nokuncintisana okuningi. Enye into ukuthi shono ukuncoma amakhono alowo othola abaningi: 'unombono omuhle kanjani', 'ngiyabonga kuwe sizonambitha lelo chocolate elimnandi'.
- Isidlo seshokholethi: konke ndawonye, akukho okufana nokwabelana.
Sesha amaqanda ngaphandle kwekhaya.
Ingabe unayo ipaki enamahlathi eduzane? Ngabe uhlala endlini enengadi? Edolobheni eliseduze nendawo yemvelo? Kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi unendawo evikelekile. Ngemuva kwalokho, qinisekisa ukuhlanzeka kwangaphambili (indawo engahambwanga yizinja, noma engcolile kakhulu), bese uzama ukungawutholi umsebenzi endaweni edlulayo, ngakho-ke ngeke uphazamise abadlulayo.
Izindawo ezingaba khona 'zokucasha': ngaphansi kwesihlahla, ezimbizeni, eduze kocingo, phakathi kwamatshe amakhulu okuhlobisa, ezitshalweni ezinamakha, endaweni yepikiniki, njll. Uma izingane zingaphezu kweminyaka engu-7/8 ubudala, unganikeza izinkomba ezinjengokuthi: 'Ngiseduze naleyo ndawo lapho unyukela khona emthonjeni'; Uma zincane kakhulu, ungamaka ngamabhaluni (ozowaqoqa kamuva) anamathiselwe entanjeni.
Yonke imfucuza ifakwa esikhwameni ngaphambi kokuya ekhaya
Sesha amaqanda endlini.
Kunconywa ukuthi ube namakamelo avulekile futhi aphephile ukwenza lo msebenzi, nokuthi ukhombise (ngezitika, amafulegi noma ezinye izinto, amakamelo angenakufakwa)
Ukuphepha kwamantombazane nabafana.
- Ngaso sonke isikhathi chaza isikhala futhi ucace kakhulu ngezincazelo ezinganeni.
- Ezindaweni zomphakathi, Kuzoba lula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi ube nosizo lokuqondisa izingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka engu-9/10 ubudala.
- Qaphela, ngoba kungaba nezindawo eziyingozi: eduze kwechibi, uthango lwensimbi olwephukile futhi olubolile, ...
- Ekhaya: akukho ukubenza behle benyuka izitebhisi; noma ukufihla amaqanda ngaphezulu kwamakhabethe noma ekhishini. Hlola i-intshi yakho yasekhaya ngamasentimitha bese ususa izinto ezingakhubeka kuzo, ukuhlobisa ematafuleni okungawela phezu kwazo uma kukhasa ukusesha, izinto ezincane kakhulu ezingadala ukuklinya, Njll
- Yiba nakho konke abakudingayo ngokudla okulula etafuleni, ngakho-ke ngeke balingeke ukuba bagibele ezihlalweni ukuze bathole ingilazi noma amakhukhi.
Yiziphi ezinye izindlela ezikhona ekusesheni futhi yini engenziwa ngamaqanda?
Ungaqamba ukuhlukahluka, noma usebenzise imidlalo kusuka ebuntwaneni bakho, njengomjaho ophethe izinkezo ngomlomo; Kungenzeka futhi ukubenza bagingqe (ukulingisa enye yalezo zinkolelo zaseJalimane akutshele zona ngaphambili), noma ukuguqula ukusesha kube ngumdlalo wokuzingela iqembu.
Ngalo mbono engqondweni, kancane kancane sigcwalisa lokhu okuthunyelwe ngemibono ye-Easter leyo eshicilelwe nguMaría José ngesonto eledlule.
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