Lapho abantu ababili behlangana, kungaba ukwakha umshado noma ukuhlala ndawonye, kwakhiwa umndeni owodwa futhi omkhulu. Kwezinye izimo, laba bantu basondelene kakhulu futhi bazizwa sengathi bayizihlobo zegazi, yize lokhu kungenjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Noma kunjalo, kuyinto ejwayelekile ngokuphelele ngoba ngisho kukhona umehluko phakathi kwezihlobo zegazi elifanayoNgisho nabantu abathandana kakhulu banemibono engafani futhi kunezingxoxo.
Kulowo mqondo womndeni, kunendlela evamile yokuqamba amagama labo abangezona izihlobo zegazi, okungukuthi, okwaziwa njengomndeni wezepolitiki. Ngaphandle kwaleli gama ukudelela, yize abanye abantu bezizwa ngaleyo ndlela. Uma ungaqiniseki ukuthi ungazichazela kanjani izingane zakho ukuthi abasekhweni, sikumema ukuthi ukwenze ngendlela elula yezingane, ngokudlala.
Isihlahla somndeni
Kuzo umsebenzi olula ukuchitha isikhathi nabancane, ukuze bakwazi ukufunda okwengeziwe ngokuthi bangobani amalungu omndeni wakho, kufaka phakathi lezo ababengakwazi ukuhlangana nazo. Ngale ndlela, izingane zizofunda ngendlela elula ukuthi umndeni omkhulu wakhiwa kanjani, yize kubo, bonke laba bantu bayingxenye "yesizwe" sabo sombuthano wabo wezenhlalo futhi abawazi umehluko wegazi.
Yini abasekhweni
Ngamafuphi, abasekhweni amalungu omndeni womuntu owabelana naye ngempilo yakho. Bazali, zingane zakwethu, omalume nabo bonke abantu abalethwa ngumlingani wakho empilweni yakho. Ngoba, yize uhlanganisa impilo yakho nomuntu oyedwa, ekupheleni kosuku, okwenzayo kwakha umndeni omkhulu. Okungenzeka ukuthi anifani kangako nakho, kepha ngandlela thile, bayingxenye yokuthi ungubani umlingani wakho futhi ngenxa yalokho baba yingxenye yempilo yakho.