Ukusetha amashejuli enganeni osukwini lwakho nosuku kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu kubazali abaningi. Ukusetha inqubo nokusebenzisa isiyalo kuyingxenye yemfundo wezingane zethu futhi lokho kuzokwenza konke kube nokuthula futhi kubekezeleleke.
Ukusetha amashejuli engane kuyindlela yokubusa isikhathi sabo sokudla, ukulala kwabo, imidlalo yabo, isikhathi sokugeza ... ngaphandle kokukhohlwa ukuthi badinga lonke uthando nothando lwabazali babo. Kulula njengokuthola lokho ukunamathela esimisweni kwenza impilo ibe lula kakhulu kuwo wonke umuntu. Uzokwazi ukuthola ukuthi ingane izizwa ikwazi kanjani ukubikezela ukuthi umzuzu ngamunye uzokwenzeka nini ukuze izwe lokho kuphepha.
Uzoqala nini ukubeka amashejuli enganeni?
Lapho nje izingane zizalwa zidinga ukudla ngokufunwa futhi cishe akunakwenzeka ukusetha uhlelo. Emasontweni ambalwa izelwe, ingane iphakelwa cishe njalo emahoreni amabili noma amathathu bese kunyakaza amathumbu ngokudla ngakunye.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, inqubo yenziwa ngokungahlosile. Kusuka ezinyangeni ezimbili kuya kwezine lapho umkhuba uqala ukwakhiwa okusemthethweni kakhulu futhi kuwumkhuba owelulekwa abanye odokotela bezingane.
Ukugcina uhlelo olunembe ngokwengeziwe njengoba amasonto edlula ngokulandelayo kuyalandela Landelela ukudla kwakho nokulala kwakho. Ngalokhu, izingane zilandela iphethini echaziwe futhi isigqi sazo silawulwa kakhulu. Ngale ndlela sisikhuthaza sonke ukuthi sibhekane kangcono kangcono nenqubo ezosiholela ekuzuzeni inhlalakahle.
Awudingi ukuba uqine nhlobo ngamashejuli, kusukela ekuqaleni zingapheli ngisho izinyanga. Uma ingane idinga ukudla okuthile ngesikhathi esifanele, kufanele ukuthi ikunikeze, njengoba kukhona abanye abazali abakhetha ukungayondli kuze kufike isikhathi sayo.
Imizila ngokusho kwezinyanga
Ngalezi zinkombandlela singazi lapho izinyanga kudingeka khona ukwenza okujwayelekile. Lezi zinkomba zizosisiza ukuthi sazi ukuthi yini izidingo zengane, ngoba yehluka kakhulu kusukela ezinyangeni zayo zokuqala kuye kwezilandelayo.
- Kusukela ekuzalweni kuye ezinyangeni ezintathu: Kulezi zinyanga zokuqala ingane idinga ukudla nokulala kuphela. Uzofuna ukudla kwakhe amahora amabili kuya kwamathathu, yize kungeke kuqhubeke, ngoba njengoba amasonto aqhubeka, izifunzo zizodedelwa futhi ukudla kwakhe kuzomakwa ngezikhathi ezithile.
- Kulezi zinyanga zokuqala Ungakha imikhuba uze uthole ukusetha amahora amisiwe. Isibonelo, ukumfunza ngezikhathi ezivunyelwene ngazo, ukudlala phakathi kokuphakelayo kwakhe, ukuhambahamba ngasikhathi sinye ntambama noma ukugeza lelo bhafu ebelilindelwe ngaphambi kokulala ebusuku nokuthatha okuphakelayo kwakhe kosuku.
- Kusuka ezinyangeni ezintathu kuya onyakeni owodwa ubudala: kusuka lapha singasungula amashejuli aqinile. Ingane isivele ijwayele ukungalali amahora amaningi kangaka emini futhi siyabona ukuthi ukuncipha kwayo kunciphile nokuthi amahora abo okulala ebusuku ayalandelwa kakhulu. Sesivele sibona ukuthi siphawulwa kanjani isikhathi sokudla kwasekuseni, sasemini, sasemini, sokudla okulula nokudla kwasebusuku, noma ngabe udinga amahora akho okudlala, okugeza noma yimuphi umkhuba womndeni.
Kodwa-ke, lolu uhlelo olukhombisayo futhi olubonakala cishe luphawulwa yiyo yonke imindeni esemakhaya abo. Imithetho yakho kanye namashejuli kuzoncika ezidingweni zabazali nengane, ngisho nobuntu nohlamvu lwelungu ngalinye. Ukwenza lokhu, ungajahi ukuthola ngenkani into oyibona ingenakwenzeka. Mane ubheke ibhalansi lapho amashejuli nezinqubo zivumelaniswa nezidingo zomndeni, ukwenza usuku lwakho nosuku lube lula kakhulu.