Ungazi kanjani ukuthi ingane yami ijabule yini

Ungazi kanjani ukuthi ingane yami ijabule yini

Ukwazi ukuthi ingane ijabule yini ukukhathazeka okukhulu kakhulu ubaba noma umama angakuzwa, ngoba injabulo yezingane (noma kufanele ibe) ngaphezu kwezinto zonke. Izingane kufanele zikhulele endaweni ezinzile, egcwele imidlalo, yokufunda, injabulo nothando, ngoba empeleni, ukuze izingane zijabule, zimbalwa kakhulu izinto ezidingekayo.

Izinto ezibonakalayo zisiza ukuzwa izikhathi ezincane zokwaneliseka, kepha okunika injabulo enkulu ukuzizwa uyingxenye yomndeni. Ukuzwa uthando nothando lwabantu ababazungezile, bezizwa bebalulekile kubantu abakha iqembu labo lokwethembana, kuyinto ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ingane ijabule. Uma ungabaza imizwa yengane yakho, lezi zinkinobho zizokusiza ukuzixazulula.

Ungathola kanjani ukuthi ingane yakho ijabule yini?

Ukwazi ukuthi ingane yakho ijabule yini kufanele uyibheke, ubone ukuthi uziphatha kanjani, isenzo sobuso bakhe lapho engazi ukuthi uyabonwa, udlala kanjani nokuthi usebenza kanjani nabanye abantu abaseduze kwakhe. Lezi zinkinobho zizokusiza ukuthola ukuthi ngabe izingane zakho zijabule.

Hhayi ayeke namanje

Ingane ejabulayo emvelweni

Ingane inekhono lokujabulela noma yini, okuncane kakhulu ukutholwa kwabancane. Ngakho-ke, kufanele bachithe usuku ekuhambeni, ukuze bangaphuthelwa yilutho. Ingane ezothile kakhulu, engazizwa inelukuluku noma ingafuni ukuthola izinto, ingahle ihlupheke ngokungabi namandla okukhuthaza. Ukuhamba, ukugijima, ukudlala, ukweqa yizimo ezijwayelekile ezinganeni ezijabulayo.

Khuluma ngokushesha okukhulu

Iyakuphazamisa, ikwethuse futhi kujwayelekile ngoba kuye kufike isikhathi empilweni lapho ukushesha okungaka kugcina kukhathaze. Kepha lapho ingane ikhuluma nawe ngokushesha, kuwuphawu lokuthi bafuna ngempela ukwabelana nawe ngezinto eziningi, konke okwenzeka kuyo. Ukukhuluma ngokushesha kuyisibonakaliso senjabulo, jabulela injabulo yosana lwakho.

Ufuna ukudlala nawe ngaso sonke isikhathi

Ukudlala ngakunye kubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kwezingane, kepha okubajabulisa kakhulu ukukwazi ukudlala nabantu ababathanda kakhulu, abazali babo. Uma indodana yakho ifuna ukuba nawe, dlala ngawe, unganga, ngikuqabule futhi ngikuphelezele ngezikhathi zakhe zobumnandi, uyingane ejabule kakhulu.

Indodana yakho nayo iyajabula lapho ithukuthela

Ukuqumba nentukuthelo kuyinto ejwayelekile ebuntwaneni, kuyindlela yemvelo yokuthola imikhawulo futhi ufunde ukuphatha yonke leyo mizwa emibi. Uma ingane yakho ikuthukuthelela, ikhala noma iklabalase ngezikhathi ezithile, ikhombisa nokuthi ijabule. Ngoba leyo ndlela yokuxhumana iyithuluzi lakho lokukhulula imizwa yakho nemizwa yakho. Uma usukwenzile futhi wezwa ukwangana kukamama noma kukababa, uzozwa injabulo yokuthi izinyembezi zizohlangana nokuhleka.

Zizwe ukhululekile ekhaya

Lapho ingane udlala ekhaya, uyahleka futhi uyakujabulela ukuchitha isikhathi nabazali bakhe, ubonakala eyingane ejabulayo. Uma abazali bakhe bejabule futhi bejabule, ingane iyozizwa ikhululekile ukuba nomndeni. Izingane ezidinga ukuba semgwaqweni ngaso sonke isikhathi, ukuhlangana nezinye izingane, kungenzeka ukuthi zikhombisa ukuntula okuthile ekhaya.

Dlala ngokukhululekile futhi ujabule wedwa

Umdwebo wezingane ngezandla zakhe

saber yiba wedwa ngokwakho futhi kuyingxenye yenjabulo, ngisho nasebuntwaneni bokuqala. Ingane enokuzimela, ekwaziyo ukudlala yodwa, ngaphezu kokudlala nabanye abantu, uthuthukisa wonke amakhono akho ngamanye. Lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi ingane yakho ijabule, ngoba noma kwesinye isikhathi angafuni ukuqhela kuwe, uyakwazi ukuchitha isikhathi eyedwa eziphonsela inselelo.


Ukuqaphela izingane kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuthola imizwa yazo kuzo, imizwa yabo, ukuthi banjani noma ukuthi ukukhula kwabo kwengqondo kuhamba kanjani. Ngoba izingane, ngaphandle kokukwazi, ziyakwazi ukukhombisa imininingwane eminingi ngamehlo azo.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.