Yazise ingane yakho ukuthi ingubani futhi uyisize ikhule

Awufuni ingane yakho ikhule izama ukungakuphoxi. Kumele umvumele ukuthi abe nguyena, abe ne-idiosyncrasy yakhe futhi akwazi ukukhula, athuthukise ubuntu bakhe. Abazali badinga ukwamukela futhi baqonde izintandokazi zezingane zabo, izinhloso zabo, nezinto abazithandayo ... ukuthi lokhu kungahluka ngokuphelele kunokwakho, futhi akukho lutho olungalungile ngalokho.

Njengomzali, kuwumsebenzi wakho ukucabanga ngamandla engane yakho kunokugxila ebuthakathakeni. Ngokugxila emandleni, abazali bangaqala ukubona ukwehluka kwezingane zabo.

Thola umsebenzi ogqamisa amandla engane yakho nokuthi bangabamba iqhaza kuwo njalo. Kuzoba ngcono kakhulu uma ubamba iqhaza kule misebenzi nabo. Mhlawumbe ubulokhu ufuna ukuthi ingane yakho ibe yisihlabani se-basketball, kodwa ingane yakho ithanda ukuya esigabeni sokupenda kakhulu… ukubona ukuthi ikwenza kanjani nokuthi ikujabulela kanjani kuzokwenza uqonde ukuthi ikhetheke kangakanani futhi kuzokusondeza ngokomzwelo indodana yakho. Uzokwazi ukuyamukela futhi uyilinganisele kulokhu okuzokwenza ukuthi ukhule njengomuntu.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile futhi ukuthi uzame ukuthola okuthile okufana nengane yakho. Kungenzeka okungenani kube nemicimbi embalwa efana nezintshisekelo zakho ngandlela thile. Okokugcina, abazali kufanele bazame ukunikeza izingane zabo indawo esekelanayo lapho bezokwazi khona ukukhululeka futhi baphephe ukuyihlola, ukukhula, nokudlala. Lalela izingane zakho, baqonde izidingo zabo futhi babavumele bathole izinto abafuna ukuzenza nabangazijabulela ngempela.

Ingane yakho ayidingi ukubukeka njengawe, idinga ukuthi uyiqondise futhi uyiqondise ukuze ifunde ukuba yiyona. Ngabe usuyazi ukuthi uzokwenza kanjani namhlanje?


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.