Bonke ogogo nomkhulu kudingeka bafunde ukuthi banendima enhle ezimpilweni zezingane zabo nabazukulu babo abadala, kodwa Kukhona futhi nochungechunge lwemikhawulo okufanele bayihloniphe. Ngenkathi abazali belungiselela umzuzu wokuzalwa kwengane, ogogo nomkhulu kufanele babelane ngezindaba ezijabulisayo futhi bazijwayeze ukubuka umzuzu nokuhlonipha imingcele.
Uma ungugogo noma umkhulu noma uzoba omunye maduzane, udinga ukwazi ukuthi kunemikhawulo okufanele uyihloniphe ukuze ubudlelwano obunempilo bube khona engxenyeni yomndeni. Tau ubaluleke kakhulu ezimpilweni zawo wonke umndeni, kodwa nabo Kufanele bakujabulele ukuzimela nokukhula komuntu eceleni kwakho.
Ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa
Namuhla, omama abaningi basebenza kuze kufike usuku lokubeletha futhi bavame ukugcina imikhuba ejwayelekile yokuzivocavoca phakathi nakho konke ukukhulelwa kwabo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abanye omama banamuhla bakusasa bathatha izinyathelo zokuqapha abangakaze babike komama bezizukulwane ezidlule, njengokugwema inyama engaphekiwe nemikhiqizo engavunyelwe ukudla.
Ogogo nomkhulu kumele bahloniphe ukuthi umuntu wesifazane ukhulelwa kanjani. Ngenkathi benganikeza izeluleko uma bemangalelwa, empeleni kufanele basethembe isahlulelo sezingane zabo ezindala ngoba kungenzeka ukuthi zisezandleni ezinhle zochwepheshe bezokwelapha.
Khetha igama
Ukukhetha amagama ezingane kungenye yezindlela eziyigugu kakhulu nezicindezelayo endleleni eya ebuzalweni. Ogogo nomkhulu akufanele bakwenze ucindezeleke ngokwengeziwe ngokuzama ukuphoqelela ukwahlulela kwabo ngaphandle kokubuzwa. Akufanele baphakamise amagama noma bacele ukuthi igama lengane kube ngomunye womndeni.
Uma becelwa ukuthi baphawule ngamagama athile, bangalinganisa ngokucophelela ukuvunyelwa kwabo, bezwakalisa ukuvunyelwa kwamanye amagama kunamanye, kepha akufanele neze bavume ukuthi bayalizonda igama elithile. Uma wenza kanjalo, eyodwa yezinto ezimbili izokwenzeka: abazali bazosusa igama ohlwini bese bekucasukela ngokwenza lokho, noma bazokukhetha noma kunjalo bese bekucasula ngoba awukuthandi.
Ukubeletha
Namuhla, abazali abaningi abakhulelwe banecebo lokuzalwa noma okungenani imibono eqondile mayelana nokuthi bafuna ukuzalwa kube njani. Cishe bayokujabulela ukukutshela. Bangase bangajabuli ukuzwa umbono wakho ngayo nangaphansi uma ungajabuli ukwabelana ngalolo hlobo lwezindaba noma ungakuthandi abafuna ukukwenza.
Kunogogo nomkhulu abafuna ukuba segumbini lokubelethisa, kepha lokhu kungashiwo kuphela ngowesifazane osebelethayo ... futhi imvamisa isifiso ukuthi ubaba wengane engakazalwa abekhona egunjini lokubelethisa. Abazali abahlosiwe bangakhetha ukuthola usizo lwe-doula, noma labo abashadayo bangafuna ukuthi ukuzalwa kube yimfihlo, kwabelwane ngakho kuphela neqembu labazalayo.
Kwesinye isikhathi kugcinwa ugogo oyedwa ekuzalweni kanti omunye akamenywa. Imvamisa umama womama wesikhathi esizayo uyamenywa futhi umkhwekazi uyakhishwa. Lokho akuyona into engenangqondo. Phakathi kukamamezala nomalokazana, ubudlelwano buvame ukuba nzima futhi azikho izinkinga ezingokomzwelo ezidingekayo ngalesi sikhathi esivele sishubile.
Ukudla
Lapho umzukulu wakho esezelwe, awufuni ukuthi leyo nqwaba yenjabulo eyigugu ilambe, kepha ungabheja abazali sebenalo uhlelo lokudla abalwenzile. Sebenqumile ukuthi bazobanikeza yini ibhodlela noma ukuncelisa ibele futhi kuzofanele usihloniphe leso sinqumo noma ngabe usithanda kakhulu noma usithanda kancane.
Konke okudingeka ukwenze ukusekela nokulandela imiyalelo ngqo abakunikeza yona uma unikwe umsebenzi wokondla ingane nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Njengoba umzukulu wakho ekhula, landela imiyalo yakhe yokudla. Gcizelela ukudla okunempilo, kufaka phakathi izithelo nemifino, futhi uhloniphe noma yiziphi izinkinga zokungezwani komzimba angaba nazo. Ungaziniki izingane ama-trinkethi noma amaswidi uma abazali bengafuni bazithathe, buza njalo ngaphambili.
Izembatho
Abanye ogogo nomkhulu, ikakhulukazi ogogo, baba nesasasa elikhulu lapho bethengela abazukulu izingubo. Kodwa-ke, ngaphandle kokuthi unake futhi uqaphele, izingubo eziningi ozithengayo zingagcina ngemuva kudilowa noma esitsheni somnikelo.
Ogogo nomkhulu kufanele babuze abazali ukuthi bangathanda izingubo ezinjani ezinganeni futhi babheke ukuthi hlobo luni lwezingubo abavame ukugqoka. Abanye abazali bafuna ingane izingubo ezinhle kakhulu. Abanye bakhetha okuphilayo. Abanye bafuna ama-ruffles amantombazane nabesilisa kubafana, kanti abanye bafuna okokugqoka okungacacisi ngokobulili. Njengoba abazukulu bakho bekhula, nabo bazohlakulela abakuthandayo, kepha imithetho ihlala ifana: bukela ukuthi umzukulu wakho ugqoka kanjani abuze ngokuthanda kwakhe. Uma uphisana ngezingubo, khumbula ukunika ithikithi lesipho njalo.
Isiyalo
Kuzo zonke izingqinamba ezinzima, isiyalo mhlawumbe siyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu. Yize sizwa okuningi ngogogo nomkhulu betotosa abazukulu babo, kwesinye isikhathi ogogo nomkhulu bakholelwa ukuthi abazukulu babo bahlushwa ukuntuleka kwesimilo okufanele babhekane naso.
Akunandaba ukuthi inkinga isebenza ngakuphi emndenini wakho, imithetho iyafana. Yindlela yomzali ukuyala okuyiyona ebalulekile, futhi ogogo nomkhulu kufanele balandele imihlahlandlela yabazali ngokuseduze ngangokunokwenzeka, noma ngabe abazali abekho, inqobo nje uma isiyalo siyinto abanethezekile ngayo. Yize eminye imindeni ingaba nokungezwani okukhulu maqondana nesiyalo, ezimweni eziningi, ukuxhumana ngokukhululeka nangokuqondisisa kuzoxazulula noma yiziphi izingxabano. Uma ufuna ukweluleka izingane zakho esezikhulile, kubalulekile ukuthi ucele imvume yazo kuqala.
Ukufundisa
Abazali banezinketho eziningi namuhla uma kukhulunywa ngokufundisa izingane zabo. Bangakhetha ukufundela umphakathi, okuyimfihlo, noma ukufunda emakhaya, futhi ngakunye kwalokhu okukhethwa kukho kufaka ezinye izinketho. Uma abazali bekhetha isikole sikahulumeni, ngokwesibonelo, bangakhetha phakathi kwesikole esingumakhelwane noma isikole esikwelinye idolobha.
Ogogo nomkhulu abacelwa ukuthi banikele nganoma iyiphi indlela ezwakalayo banelungelo lokubeka umbono wabo. Uma, ngokwesibonelo, ogogo nomkhulu bacelwa ukuthi banikele ezindlekweni zesikole esizimele noma banikele ngezinto zokuhamba eziya esikoleni esithile, banezwi futhi bayemukela noma benqabe umthwalo.