Okufanele ukwenze uma ukhulelwe futhi uwedwa

Okufanele ukwenze uma ukhulelwe futhi uwedwa

elinde ingane Kuyisiteji okufanele sinikezwe ukunqwabelana okukhulu kwemizwa. owesifazane okhulelwe igcwalisa lesi sigaba ngokuzwela okukhulu yingakho kumele kubuse ukuthula kulesi simo. Kunezizathu ezinikeza ukuthi ukukhulelwa akukwazi ukuqhubeka nobaba noma ngokwesekwa okulindelekile, ngalokhu sikumema ukuba wazi 'yini okumele uyenze uma ukhulelwe futhi uwedwa'.

Baningi izizathu zalesi simo. Umlingani noma umthwalo ongokomzwelo ongakwazi ukuphelezela owesifazane okhulelwe uba inselele. Ukuhlukana okungokomzwelo, ukushona kukababa, noma ubaba okhulelwe ongafuni ukuthwala umthwalo wokuba ubaba kungase kube okungajabulisi kakhulu. Nokho, kukhona inketho kanye nesinqumo sikamama ofuna bhekana nokuba ngumama ngaphandle komlingani, kodwa noma kunjalo kukhona ukungavikeleki okuthile ebusweni bentando enjalo.

Yini okufanele uyenze uma ukhulelwe futhi uwedwa?

Siphakamisa leli phuzu njengesiqalo noma ukusuka kuleso sigaba esisha lapho ungowesifazane futhi uzoba nendodana uwedwa. Kufanele ubheke kukho konke okubi ukuze uthole amathonya angcono kakhulu wokucabanga okuhle. Futhi ukuthi enye yazo, ukuthi ukufika komntwana, kuyisibusiso njalo.

Ukubhekana nokuba ngumama ongayedwana kusho lokho ubaba akabaliwe njengomunye umuntu onomthwalo wemfanelo ngokukhuliswa kwakhe nakho konke lokho kusekelwa okungenamibandela kumama wakhe. Kodwa singaqinisekisa ukuthi ingatholakala njalo Ukwesekwa okuningi okuvela kubangani nomndeni.

Noma ubani onikela ngokusiza Konke kuyisipho ngoba ngokuqinisekile ufuna ukuzibandakanya ekuhleleni ingxenye yalokho kukhuliswa noma ukugcoba ngezikhathi ezithile lokho kusekelwa ngokomzimba noma ngokwengqondo. Noma yiluphi uhlobo losizo akufanele lunqatshwe, ngoba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi lungalimaza ukuthambekela kowesifazane.

Okufanele ukwenze uma ukhulelwe futhi uwedwa

Isiteji kuphela esigcwele ukungaqiniseki yileso esenzekayo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa Uma ungumama omusha, cishe unekhanda eligcwele ukungabaza okuningi mayelana nokukhuliswa kwakho. Zama ukungavumeli ukukhulelwa kuqhubeke ngaphandle kokufuna umuntu ongakuphelezela ezibuyekezweni. Uma kunezindaba ezinhle zokuthi uqhubeka kanjani inyanga nenyanga ngisho nangaleso sikhathi lapho izindaba zocansi zimenyezelwa, inkampani yomngane noma ilungu lomndeni ibalulekile wabelane ngaleyo njabulo.

Ngisho kukhona izikhathi zokubhekana ubuso nobuso nombelethisi lapho ukusiza ukuncelisa kanye nokulungiselela ukubeletha. Lapha ungakwazi ukuhlangabezana nabesifazane abasesimeni esifanayo nawe futhi ungakwazi njalo Yabelana nganoma yimiphi imibuzo noma ukungazethembi. Kuyaduduza ukwazi ukuthi kulesi sinqumo esizwakalayo, ngeke ube wedwa.

Lapho umntwana esezelwe ngeke ube naso isikhathi sokucabanga ngakho konke lokho kungabaza, ngokuqinisekile umuzwa wemvelo kamama uzokusiza kanye nesikhathi umntwana acela ngaso sizogcwalisa zonke lezo zikhathi zosuku.

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Ukugxila ekwamukeleni lowo mntwana kuzokwenza uthando alunamibandela. Umbono wempilo uhluke ngokuphelele futhi uzogxila umbono wekusasa ngenye indlela. Kufanele uzizwe uziqhenya ngalokho okudalile futhi kusukela manje kuya phambili kufanele ujabulele lezo zinyanga zokuqala zokuphila kwakho futhi ukuba kuthule kakhulu.


Okufanele ukwenze uma ukhulelwe futhi uwedwa

Phakathi nezinyanga ezimbili noma ezintathu zokuqala zokuphila komntwana, yonke into ingase ibonakale njengesiyaluyalu. Owesifazane ongakaze abe nabantwana angase azithole esesimweni esihluke ngokuphelele kuleso ayephila kuso. Manje ube nesikhathi sengane kuphela futhi cishe asikho isikhathi sakhe. Kuleli qophelo kufanele yehlisa leyo ngcindezi engokomzimba nengokwengqondo bese uzama ukusisebenzisa ngokugcwele lesi simo ukholelwa ukuthi ukuzijabulisa.

Njalo funa ukusekelwa ngesimo sakho, themba abantu abaseduze kwakho futhi uvumele ukusizwa umndeni nabangane. Ku-inthanethi ungaphinda uthintane nanoma iyiphi iwebhusayithi ekusiza ukuthi uthwale ukukhulelwa nokuba ngumzali kangcono kakhulu. Uma kukhona noma yiluphi uhlobo isisekelo esiza abazali abangabodwa, Ngeke kube kubi ukuzama ukuthola uhlobo oluthile lokusekelwa noma uhlobo oluthile lwensiza yezomnotho enganikezwa.


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