Sezvo ese Gunyana 23, iyo Zuva Renyika Dzepabonde, hunhu hwepabonde husingawanzo kutaurwa nezvako muzvikoro kana kumba, nekuti isu tinonyanya kutaura nezve ungochani uye hupombwe. Zvisinei, kune zvimwe zvakasiyana pabonde, pakati pavo, bisexuality.
Munharaunda yanhasi izvi zvimwe zvakasiyana pabonde zviri kuramba zvichitarisirwa. Izvo zvinokwanisika kuti nhasi, kana rimwe zuva, ivo vachakubvunza iwe kuti ichi chii nezve bisexuality. Tinoda kukupa mamwe mazano ekuti ungatsanangure sei kwauri, nguva dzose uchifunga zera remwana.
Chii chinonzi bisexuality? Mazano akafanotarisirwa
Bisexuality kuita zvebonde izvo, sekuita zvepabonde uye ungochani hazvisarudzwe. Hazvireve kuti munhu akavhiringika kana kusagadzikana. Uye haisi shanduko kune ungochani. Bisexuality ihwohwo hwakakwana hunhu hwepabonde pachahwo. Icho chiziviso chisina kunzwisisika, icho chakanyorwa kunzi "hupombwe" pane dzakawanda zviitiko.
Kana tichitaura nevana vedu nezve bisexuality, ngatibvisei pfungwa yekuti bisexual varume nevakadzi havana hanya neumwe murume kana murume. Bisexual vanhu inzwa kukwezva kwepabonde uye kwepamoyo kune vanhu vanopfuura bonde rimwe uye, kana murume kana murume. Bisexuals inogona kukwezva kune cis jenda, trans, intersex vanhu. Pane izvi zvakasiyana zvepabonde iwe unogona kuwana matauriro nevana vako chinyorwa ichi.
Bisexual vanhu havana hukama hweungochani kana hwehukama maererano nemaonero emumwe munhu, asi vanotova nehukama nehukama hwepabonde nekuda kwavo pabonde. Mune zvimwe zviitiko ruzivo rwepabonde rwakabvunzwa, kunyangwe mukati meboka re LGTBI, iro dzimwe nguva rakapfuuridzira kusaonekwa kwavo uye rusarura. Ichi ndicho chimwe chezvikonzero, kuona kwayo, kunoitirwa uno kupemberera zuva iri reInternational Bisexuality Day.
Tsanangura bisexuality
Vana vanoita bonde, asi kukura kwehunhu hwepabonde ndeye kuita nezvikamu zvakasiyana mukukura kwevana vese. Biological, zvishamiso, zvepamoyo uye zvemagariro zvinhu zvinopindira mune ino maitiro. Hunhu hwepabonde ndiyo nzira iyo vana nevechiri kuyaruka vanozvizivisa ivo, varume, vakadzi kana musanganiswa wevaviri, uye zvakare zvinosanganisira kuita bonde.
Izvo zvakakosha kuti kana tichitaura kuvanakomana nevanasikana vedu nezve bisexuality, kana humwe hunhu hwebonde, isu tidaro kubva mukuremekedzwa, kuiswa uye kushivirira. Ivo vanofanirwa kudzidza kubata vanhu vese zvine chiremerera. Kuburikidza nedzidzo, kuchikoro uye kumba, ndiyo nzira yekuziva pfungwa dzakadai sekushungurudzwa nekutyisidzirwa, kucherechedza kodzero yemunhu wese yekutaura nezvehunhu hwake hwepabonde.
Nezve bisexuality, pane rusarura pfungwa iri biphobia. Iwe unogona kutsanangurira vana vako kuti ndivo seti yemanzwiro asina kunaka, maitiro uye maitiro kune vanhu vanoita bonde.
Tsika dzinotaura nezve bisexuality
Pane imwe nhambo takataura kuti kune vakomana nevasikana kuti vanzwisise hunhu hwakasiyana hwepabonde hwavanogona kuisa mienzaniso yevanhu vakabudirira, mumitambo, sainzi, kana nzvimbo dzavanonyanya kufarira. Ichokwadi ndechekuti hapana kana zvirevo zvemurume nemukadzi zvine mutsika, uye mazhinji acho akavakirwa pamifungo yakaipa. Vamwe vanhu vakaziva bisexuality yavo pasocial network ndiDulceida, Ricky Martin, Sophie Turner, Paco León, Megan Fox, Lady Gaga, Drew Barrymore, Janelle Monáe kana Azealia Banks.
Mukati metsika yekumadokero, kune manyuko anotaura nezve maitiro evanhurume nevanhukadzi kubva kuGirisi, mumwe wavo aive Alexander Mukuru. Asi ipapo pane runyararo rukuru. Kune tsika idzo dzinosanganisirwa vanhukadzi murume wechitatu, "kwete murume kana mukadzi". Musiyano uripo pakati peungochani, hupombwe uye kuita bisexuality hazviwanikwi kune uyu murume uye kune avo vanoita zvepabonde nemunhu uyu.
Sechinhu chekuda kuziva, unogona kuudza vana vako kuti iyo bisexual kuzvikudza mureza, yakagadzirirwa naMichael Page, ine mutsetse wepingi unomiririra ungochani, mutsetse webhuruu unomiririra hupombwe, uye mutsetse wepepuru (musanganiswa wepingi nebhuruu) iri pakati inomiririra bisexuality.