Vana vazhinji vanoshandisa mafungiro avo kugadzira shamwari yekufungidzira, mumwe munhu anogara ainavo uye wavanogona kuvimba navo nguva dzese. Shamwari dzekufungidzira dzinoperekedza vana vazhinji, uye muzviitiko zvakawanda, uyu ndiwo maitiro akajairika. Kune vabereki, kuziva kuti mwana wavo ane shamwari isingaonekwe kunogona kuva chikonzero chekufunganya.
Ichi chinhu chine musoro zvachose, vabereki vanotya zvese zvisingazivikanwe uye nezve chero chinhu chingakanganisa kukura kwakanaka kwevana. Asi sezvatakataura, kazhinji kacho zvakajairika izvo zvinonyangarika nekufamba kwenguva. Kazhinji, mwana paanotendeuka makore manomwe kana masere ekuberekwa, shamwari isingaonekwe inowanzonyangarika nenzira imwechete iyo yakasvika, isina kuumba kushungurudzika kumwana.
Nekudaro, kuve nechokwadi chekuti zvese zviri chokwadi, iwe unofanirwa kucherechedza mwana wako uye chero shanduko mune hunhu hwake zvichitevera kuuya kweshamwari yake isingaonekwe.
Ndinofanira kunetseka nezve shamwari isingaonekwe yemwana wangu here?
Zvakajairika kuvana vari pakati pemakore maviri ne2 ekuberekwa, gadzira mavara ekufungidzira anovabatsira kukura. Pazera rino, fungidziro yevana vadiki haina muganho uye haufanire kunetseka nezvazvo. Nekudaro, zvakakosha kuti iwe udzore hunhu hwemwana wako munzvimbo yake yemagariro. Zvinogoneka kuti shamwari yako yekufungidzira inokurudzira kuzviparadzanisa nevamwe vana, uye izvi, kana zvichikonzera mamwe matambudziko.
Sababa kana amai, haufanire kurambidza mwana wako kuti ave neshamwari yekufungidzirasezvo ivo vasingazozvinzwisise uye ichi chinogona kuve chikonzero chekupokana kusagadzikana mumwana. Iwe unofanirwa kungo tarisisa maitiro avo, asi uchirega mwana wako ave nenzvimbo yake uye asingavhiringidzi yavo yega.
Chengetedza nguva yaunoshandisa nemunhu iyeye wekufungidzira uye nhaurirano dzaungave naye. Nekudaro, iwe unogona kuona kana iyo shamwari iri yakanaka kana kana pane zvinopesana, hunhu husina kunaka hunoratidza dambudziko. Kana iwe ukaona kuti mwana anozviparadzanisa, anoda kugara pamba kuti atambe neshamwari yake isingaonekwe pane kuenda kunotamba nevamwe vana, anowedzera kuzvidzora, anonyanya kuita hasha kana kudzikisira kuita kwake muzvidzidzo, bvunza nyanzvi.