KuUnited Nations vakasarudza kugadza Nyamavhuvhu 31 sezuva repasi rose rekubatana, zvekuti nyika nevanhu vanozvirangarira kuburikidza nekubatana pamwe nekubatana kusaenzana kuri kuitiswa. Tinogona kutsanangura kubatana sekuziva zvinodiwa nevamwe, uye chishuwo chekupa nekushandira pamwe kuti vagutsikane.
La kubatana kunodzidziswa uye kunodzidziswa, uye zvakakosha kuti isu tidzidzise vanakomana nevanasikana vedu mune kukosha uku. Isu tinokupa iwe zvimwe zviitiko nezviwanikwa zvinoshanda sechishandiso kudzidzisa vana nezve kubatana.
Matipi ekuisa kubatana muvana
Zvakakosha kuziva matangisiro atingaita muvana vedu pfungwa yekubatana. Tinogona kuvadzidzisa, semuenzaniso, zvakanakira kugovana. Zvichida panguva ino yedenda, vana vari kugamuchira meseji inopesana, nekuti kune rumwe rutivi tinovaudza kuti zvakanaka kuti vamwe vana vafarire matoyi avo, semuenzaniso, uye kune rimwe racho tinovayambira nezve njodzi yekuti ita saizvozvo. Chero nzira, kugovana kunounza mufaro.
Isu saamai, uye vamwe vese vemhuri tichava muenzaniso. Kukurudzira vana kuti vabatirane mumabasa ezuva nezuva emumba kunovaita kuti vabatirane uye nekuziva. Vachadzidza kuti kubatana pamwe nekubatsira vamwe kwakakosha uye kunopa mubairo kune wese munhu anobatanidzwa. Kubatana pamwe nekushandira pamwe zvinokurudzira kubatana.
Iwe unogona kuita zviitiko zvekubatana munzvimbo yako, uye ita kuti vana vako vatore chikamu mazviri. Semuyenzaniso enda kumabasa emagariro, kuderedza kushandiswa kwemvura, usatambisa chikafu. Dzese idzi nyaya dzinogona zvakare kusvikwa kubva mukubatana, uye kuziva.
Mitatu mitambo inodzidzisa kubatana
Uye kuenda kunodzidzira, tinokuratidza mitambo mitatu iyo inodzidzisa kubatana Mune vana. Dzese dzinogona kuwanikwa uye kurodha pasi paInternet. Izvo ndezve vana vanoziva mimwe mitambo kubva kune dzimwe nzvimbo dzepasi, iwe unogona kurodha ichi chinongedzo kubva kuDhipatimendi reDzidzo uye Ongororo yeMunharaunda yeMadrid. Chimwe chezvifungo ndeche Mbube, kubva kuSouth Africa, zvinoreva shumba. Vakomana nevasikana vanomira vakaita denderedzwa uye vane vaviri vavo pakati, vese vakasungwa kumeso. Imwe inoshanda senondo uye imwe seshumba Denderedzwa rinosarudza zvarinoda kuita: kubatsira shumba, kudya masikati, kana mhembwe kutiza. Vana vachapopota vachitungamira mumwe kana mumwe.
Kazhinji iyo mitambo yetimu kana mitambo yemubatanidzwa, saLa kutsvaka pfumaIvo zvakare vanokurudzira kushanda pamwe, rubatsiro uye kushandira pamwe kune zvakajairika zvakanaka. Izvi zvinokurudzira kuti mhedzisiro yechikwata yakakosha kupfuura vashandi. Kune mitambo yemabhodhi iyo, kuburikidza nemifananidzo uye mamiriro ezvinhu munharaunda, anodzidzisa vana mhando dzekubatana uye nzira dzekuita dzinopa mubairo kubatsira vamwe.
Adventures murenje Yakave yakagadzirwa neIntermon Oxfam yevechiri kuyaruka. Iyo inorongedzerwa kuratidza pamusoro pemaitiro ekushandisa. Vechidiki vanofanirwa kusarudza izvo zvinhu zvavanoda kuti vararame murenje uye nezvavasingadi. Chinokosha ndechekugovana neboka, kuti uone kuti chimwe nechimwe chine chii muhombodo yavo. Pakati pezvose ivo vanofanira kusarudza anosvika gumi.
Zviwanikwa zvekudzidzisa kubatana kuvana
Kana iwe uchida kudzidzisa vana vako kubatana unogona kuzviita kuburikidza nhetembo uye nyaya, uye mavhidhiyo. Tinokurudzira mazita aya, asi zvirokwazvo uchawana zvimwe:
- Mukomana nemupemhi, nhetembo inodzidzisa kukosha kwekunzwisisa nerudo.
- Idzo kittens mbiri iyo inodzidzisa vana kukosha kwekuregerera.
- Datya diki nemwedzi. Nyaya yevana nezve mutsa uye kubatana:
- Wechidiki Edmund, nhetembo pamusoro pehunhu hwakadai sekubatana, rudo kana hushamwari.
Iwo madiki ane muunganidzwa we mabhuku matanhatu: Pakukumbira kuti igare. Iyi mitambo uye zviitiko zvekudzidzisa zvinoenderana nenyaya dzazvino senge yekuenda kune dzimwe nyika, kodzero dzevana, kuenzana kwevanhukadzi, kudyiwa, kuremara, chikafu.
Tinokurudzira kuti kumba uite a kubatana collage, mune iyo mwana ari kunamatira mifananidzo nezvetsika, basa, tsika uye mararamiro ehupenyu hwevanhu munyika dzakasiyana. Iwe unogona kuita iyi yekudyidzana collage nekukoka shamwari idzodzo kumba kwako uye kuvaita kuti vatumire mapikicha ehama dzavo, kana yeavo chaiwo madhishi e nyika yavo.