Preparing some oppositions is not easy and if to this you add that You are an opposition mother, things get very complicated. But there is nothing impossible. Many moms take an exam, and they get it. They are tenacious, courageous women, and with important support.
The reason why most people opt for competitive examinations is for job security. You know that if you get the desired place, you will give your family a better quality than you can right now. This end is what makes you go through sacrifices and marathon schedules. We want to give you some recommendations, and above all a lot of encouragement.
Family support for an opposition mother
For all the women family support is essential. If you have decided to start an opposition career, it is better that your partner also agrees with it, and adds the responsibility of supporting you 100 one hundred percent. Choose and evaluate well the ones you want to present yourself to, which are the ones that best suit you for time, training, think about what you want to dedicate yourself to professionally.
We have talked about the role of the couple, but if you are a single parent, you will need even more the support of family and friends to cope with this situation. And do not be surprised if some people do not see that they prepare for exams requires effort, and they take it as your hobby. You are not going to make them understand your need for isolation.
Being a mother and a full-time opponent is implies seek a balance between family demands and those of the opposition itself. Assess how old your children are, their level of dependence on maternal care, school and extracurricular routines ... Yes, we know that all this is very difficult to balance, but courage, you can.
Organize space and time
From the first day you become an opposition mother, choose your place to study. This will be your space. Create a study habit, even if the time you have per day is little or very little, if you invest it to the maximum you can be quite profitable.
We recommend you attend classes or a personal tutor to help you prepare for the tests. This is a more direct way to get to the point. Having good and up-to-date material is key. Going to classes you will demand a series of results weekly or monthly. You can also check your level with that of your classmates. In addition, these hours in which you attend class are also a respite from the obligations of the house.
As for the schedules to study at home, each family unit knows how it works. There are opposition mothers who get up very early and when the family wakes up they have already studied. Others take advantage of the spaces for naps, nights, school hours ... here you will depend on how old your children are.
Discipline of an opposition mother
To become a successful mother and opponent, you need couple discipline to home life. You will see how thanks to the routine you will be able to lead a good rhythm of life in which your family and your children continue to be cared for. And a little discipline never hurts
There will be many days when you wonder if it is worth it. Allow yourself to laugh, cry, get excited, fail at the first exam, not all triumphs come to the first, and move on. The mistakes serve to learn from them. Remember the proverb: experience makes perfect.
Set small goals for yourself, more or less easy to achieve goals, this will help you stay motivated and see that you progress. After time, reflect and look at the path traveled. If you prepare well, you are constant and you have tenacity, you will achieve it. And remember: being a civil servant, as things are, seems the only way that guarantees stability and the possibility of really reconciling your family and professional life.