When you have teenage children, it seems that good communication can be conspicuous by its absence And do not know if your teenager is angry or if his behavior is being "normal" because of the stage he is going through. This can be quite a new experience for both of you.
Next we are going to give you some tips to know if adolescent communication really is failing or if your teenager is really angry.
Acknowledge your anger
If a teenager is angry or upset, always take it seriously. Putting down a teenager in front of other family members or the other parent, or making fun of the matter by joking is a serious mistake and will only add to an already difficult situation.
Nobody likes to be ridiculed and there will be times when even our own anxieties seem silly to another adult, so it is no different with teenagers. If a teenager is upset enough to get hurt or angry, it is a real problem for the adolescent right now.
Acknowledge and anger
It is not about apportioning or accepting blame. It is enough to say 'I'm so sorry that you feel this way' and 'what can I do to help?'
You may not always like it
It is inevitable that teenagers do not always like their parents or rather, they do not always like their parents' instructions, which can lead teenagers to say 'I don't like you'. Don't take this seriously.
There are also likely to be times when you don't like your teen's behavior very much either, and how does that make you feel towards them? Do you ever feel like your teenager doesn't like you very much even though you can't really accept his behavior? Is understandable saying unfortunate things in the heat of a moment, even if they are not justifiable.
When angry, teens simply vocalize those feelings more than adults learn to contain. Being a parent is not always about being loved. It's about instilling the right ethics, values and behavior, even if you sometimes need to be strict to achieve it, and This way he may not like you, but you will be respected.