Why a mother will always be the best for her children

We have all said sometime throughout our lives, "My mother is the best." It is good to sit down and reflect on the reason for this fact. Although there are denatured mothers or detached children and it cannot be generalized, it is almost a norm that for each child, his mother, is the best.

It could well be the psychological fact that every baby needs a attachment figure, to feed him, to meet his physiological and emotional needs at all times to the best of his ability.

A mother is united with her baby from conception

A biological mother is attached to her 9-month-old son by an umbilical cord, through which not only blood circulates with nutrients, nerve endings also circulate, loaded with information and stimuli that the baby receives through its mother.

During its first stage of existence, that baby lives, literally through his mother. He feels pleasure with everything she likes, and rejects what she doesn't like. This cord is a two-way street, since a mother also notices if her baby is agitated and feels altered by some circumstance in his environment or if he is relaxed and calm, even though thunder is falling around him.

A mother can eat a whole basket of oranges because her baby likes them and she knows it. Although science still cannot explain exactly and with precision if that connection really exists or is the result of suggestion and popular myths and beliefs, such as the so-called “cravings”.

The mother, even if she is adoptive, is also special and has a great bond with her son.

She observes her offspring from the moment it is handed to her in her arms and attends to the need for encouragement that his biological mother has not been able to give him. As I have already mentioned, it is a fact proven in psychological studies that all children need one or more attachment figures for the correct development of their abilities and personality.

The most common attachment figure and therefore the main one, is still the mother. Although the world advances and gender roles are more and more diffuse and there are more parents who are in charge of taking care of the physiological and emotional needs of their children, it is she who is in charge of this pleasant and hard responsibility.

Children know that their mothers are unique in the world.

Children are people from birthTherefore, although they cannot express in the same way that we have been learning over the years, they receive the stimuli. A child does not learn from words, a child learns from examples. The children see their mothers feed them, dress them and clean them, hug them, tell them stories and above all, the most essential, make them laugh like no one else in this world can.

These babies grow And with the passage of time, they become aware that every time their mother was not there, it was for their good, that she cried inside more than they did when something hurt, that she no longer slept when they woke up in the middle of the morning and had fever, even if the next day he had to go to work. And they keep growing and see how her mother stopped buying what she liked the most so that they would have new shoes, or who dropped out of school to better serve them, in short, they realize that every day he made a new sacrifice to feed them, dress them, clean them and make them laugh like no one in this world can.

A mother knows her child like no one else.

It may also be that a mother observes her son's every reaction or behavior, to attend to any need that may arise, whatever its nature. A mother knows, as we have already said, if her baby likes oranges, if he has pee, if he likes a boy or girl when he grows up, or if he wants to do Fine Arts or Engineering when they are adults and they must choose their future. The important thing is that the children always feel the support and unconditional love of their mothers.

A mother knows how far her child is capable of going, he feels her encouragement, her support, her encouragement, which is a boost for her self-esteem. A mother is able to inspire with her example, patterns of conduct or behavior. She knows her children and understands them, she knows what they need at all times. This is why each child knows that for him, his mother will always be the best.