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Late adolescence is when we speak of ages between 15 to 18 years. Many high school rebellions occur as a result of delayed adolescence, the youngster dramatically rebelling at last to free himself from childhood's dependence on parental approval for always being the "good boy."
For example, only children tend to be slower to separate from parents due to strong attachment and prolongation on both sides. Finally, in high school, these young people, with graduation toward greater independence looming, may need to initiate late rebellions to gain separation, differentiation and autonomy they need to carry out this momentous next step.
This is painful and scary for parents. At this advanced age, risk-taking can be more dangerous, while missing the loss of closeness and compatibility with your son or daughter that you have enjoyed for so many years.
What parents need to remember at this point is that the youngster is just as scared and in pain as they are. Therefore, your job is to allow for greater independence while expecting commensurate responsibility, to remain empathetic during disagreements, and provide calm and clear guidance on any significant risks that may occur.
It is important that parents do not put themselves “on the opposing team” of their children. They must feel that they are on the same path and that they will always be on their side to guide them in everything they need. This way, teenagers will feel loved and respected at all times. Thus, parents will be able to take care of the bond they have with their children despite their great desire for independence in life. Caring for the relationship at this stage is essential for the smooth running of the children's lives.