When a woman becomes pregnant her body changes, this is inevitable. In order to house life inside and for it to grow and develop, the woman's body is sacrificed. There are women who are luckier than others and have more elastic skin where there are no stretch marks or abdominal distention, but not everything is so beautiful for all mothers.
There are many mothers who when they get pregnant their body is beautiful, every pregnant body is beautiful… But after giving birth things changes. Clothes no longer fit as they used to, the abdomen may be distended, stretch marks wreak havoc on the skin, fluid retention does not go away from one day to the next and worst of all, the kilos that are usually taken during pregnancy may be accompanying to the mother for years. All of this can be really frustrating for a woman who has been a mother.
While it is true that the fact of having brought a precious baby into the world is more than enough to forget all those physical ills, a woman who does not feel good about her body can be really emotionally bad for this reason. It is necessary for a woman who does not feel good about her body to learn to feel good and sexy, because every woman is, whether she has been a mother or not ... and has the body that she has. Being and feeling sexy is more a matter of attitude and how you see life. The beauty standards imposed by society have nothing to do with reality.
The beauty of being a mother
There is nothing more beautiful than seeing a body that has been marked by motherhood. Every sign, every stretch mark ... Every mark on your skin is a reminder of how tiger you are and how you face life every day. There are women who think that after becoming mothers they should lose their sexual attractiveness and that it is normal to hate the new body, that it must be covered ... But This does not have to be this way, you do not have to forget that your body is yours and what you feel towards it will make you feel better or worse!
You only have one body and you must take care of it, but your mind is also very important. You may have found yourself with a few extra pounds, but that does not have to make you feel worse about yourself, you have been a mother! It is necessary that you learn to feel good in your skin, not to hate yourself for the changes in your skin, you do not have to beat yourself up in the gym or do impossible diets. Let no one dare to talk about your body or how you look. It is you who should look and feel good. This way you will feel sexy, whatever the others say.
You don't have the body of a runway model, but that doesn't mean that you can't be sexy, that you can't have and feel the power of your body, of your inner strength. That is much more powerful than having a body 10. Enough of hating the body of a woman who has changed by giving birth ... Enough of comparing yourself with bodies that have undergone surgery or do not know the ravages of motherhood.
You are a mother and you have strength. Appreciate the gift of life, of being in good health. Enjoy your own love, which you enjoy giving to your baby, love for your family. If you feel good about yourself and your body no matter how it is, you will also be doing your children a favor ... They will see in you a security model that will make them love themselves as they are, without comparisons. Love for yourself is the sexiest thing there is. Your confidence is the most important thing.
Tips to feel sexy after motherhood
Accept yourself as you are
It's true, your hips may be wider, and bloating isn't pretty. You may even have some gray hair and wrinkles on your face. But we are talking about you, how beautiful you are and that your body is now your new you and that is the important thing. Don't look at the past, look in the mirror and get the best out of it right now.
You are living. You are raising a human being. You are a superwoman even if you don't believe it right now. All of this should bring you the confidence you need to realize that you are the most beautiful thing on this planet.
Dress to feel good
It is possible that in the pregnancy stage your sexy clothes were left aside, maybe the pants that you had before you got pregnant no longer fit ... But That does not mean that you should dress differently or that you should not feel pretty in the clothes you wear.. Go buy yourself clothes and buy the one that suits you best. You deserve it after having been pregnant for 9 months, having gone through childbirth or cesarean section and because your body has changed. Dont you think
Put yourself first before everything
When you are a mother, you are constantly giving in to the needs of others. Your child comes first and foremost and it is normal, but there are times when your own needs must also be taken care of, both for your sake and for your baby or others. If you realize how important your needs are too, your confidence will return to you and then you will feel sexier and more confident. You will be unstoppable.
As of now, you have no excuse. Look in the mirror and feel the most beautiful of women because you are. Look at your imperfections and see them as marks of your strength, of your courage, that you have given life to the most beautiful thing you have in life. A sexy woman's body doesn't have to be perfect, it just has to be real. It is your strength, your courage and your confidence that really makes you sexy in the world, but above all, in front of yourself.