This fact can have great controversy depending on the eyes that look at it from outside. When a woman becomes pregnant with the second child, she knows exactly what she is dealing with when it comes to pregnancy (although each pregnancy is different and may not look like the first one at all, being easier or more complicated). But what is not known so for sure is how the older brother will take the arrival of the little brother.
Although it will depend a lot on the age of the brother, what is real is that life will change all of you as soon as the new member of the family arrives in the world. An older brother must be since the mother is pregnant, only in this way will he understand that when the brother arrives, everything will be the same or better.
It is very important that when the younger brother arrives in your lives, you try to keep routines as much as possible. that the older brother has been doing forever, even if there are small changes. When small changes occur, it is important to explain why they occur and alternatives will be sought where he also feels good and happy.
There is a delicate and very exciting moment for all families when a younger brother is born: the moment of meeting him in the hospital. The older brother should have a leading role so as not to feel displaced and it is very important to pay extra attention to him so that he feels supported, loved and understood at all times. There are families that choose to give a gift to the older brother as a celebration of the arrival of the brother, but above all, because he has become an older brother and that must be celebrated as well. Do you think this technique is a good idea for the older brother to feel comforted and valued when meeting his younger brother?