If you have been told from school that your child is a bully at school, the first step will be to find out what is happening to make it so and what are the reasons that drive him to behave in this way. Once you take this into account and know what happens, your child will need you to be his helping hand, Because he is not a bad boy, he just has to learn to change behavior to feel better.
A friendly hand
Many parents are scared or quick to scold and punish their children. This does not necessarily help correct bad behavior. Bullying must be addressed immediately. Your child needs to realize that his behavior is unacceptable and that he will be disciplined.
Most kids don't understand the depth of bullying, so parents need to make them understand. To find the right discipline plan, you must also stress the importance of healthy friendships and resist peer pressure. Your child should know that no matter the reason behind the bullying, it is still a choice and that they are responsible for their actions.
You should also support the school's disciplinary action and not rescue your child from it. Once you know the cause, have helped your child understand why their behavior is unacceptable, and have disciplined them, now you need to teach them new skills to prevent them from bullying others again. Don't embarrass your child as a form of discipline, as this teaches them that it is acceptable to do the same with others. Rather, keep an eye on the situation and keep the lines of communication open.
Emotional connection
Whether it is physical, verbal or online bullying, parents should deal with bullying in the same way. Having a close and open relationship with your child can help prevent them from harming others. Your child needs to be able to talk to you about what is going on. And, for this to happen, you need to spend more time with him to build a strong and loving relationship.