When a father decides everything for and for his son, from his clothes, his food, which schools to apply to to study ... they take away the power of decision from your child. If the child has not experienced the need to make everyday decisions, then he will not know what to do to enter adulthood.
He will not be able to be an independent adult, since the decisions that have been made for him during his childhood have made him become a totally dependent being.
Adults have to be people capable of making their own decisions. And that also from decisions are correct. If a child has not been allowed to have choices or make decisions for himself, he will not have been able to experience the success or failure of his own personal decisions. Children need to learn from the natural consequences of making their own choices in order to learn.
All parents want the best for their children, And parents should help out by directing their children into the most important decisions of their lives. But also, you must allow them to make smaller decisions in their life.
A child has to learn to make personal decisions, because not knowing how to do this can be scary in the future. In this sense, parents have to start little by little to help their children to develop the skills to make decisions. as it grows. For example, a good father will not allow his eight-year-old son to get a tattoo, but he can allow him to choose the clothes to wear to school.
It is necessary that parents help their children learn to make decisions at an early age. In this way, when children become adults, they will already know how to make good decisions and learn from the consequences. All this It will help you to have personal preferences and opinions, critical thinking, and knowing how to make good decisions.