Reasons for making a behavior contract

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A behavior contract is an excellent option so that pre-adolescent children and adolescents can have better behavior and that in this way, there is a greater harmony at home. A behavior contract is a great way for parents to know exactly what to expect of their children and to pass it on successfully. Children will know what is expected of them and what are the positive and negative consequences of fulfilling what is entrusted to them.

After all, in real life, your teenager must show that he is ready to take on more responsibilities before he is entrusted or given more freedom (the great desire of adolescents: to have more freedom to demonstrate their independence).

This is as if you ask your boss to give you a promotion but you do not take care of the job you have ... If you do not show responsibility you will never get that promotion, even if you show yourself too irresponsible you could be demoted and you could even lose your job .

A behavior contract can also reinforce for children and adolescents the all-important idea that privileges must be earned. Just because they turn one more year does not mean they are mature enough to handle new responsibilities. Instead, they need to show you through their daily behaviors that they can handle more privileges by showing responsibility for what they already have.

In this sense, in the contract you can establish some behaviors that they must show and that in this way they are able to carry it out. In the contract the behaviors to be achieved each day must be well reflected and after X time, the implementation of the positive consequences or the negative consequences can be assessed depending on the attitude of the adolescent.


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