Are you passionate about dinosaurs at home?… Do you know the names of all the species that existed before extinction? Or are you a fan of the magnificent repetition learning technique of the controversial Tele Tubbies? ... Or maybe, what you have at home is the real Spiderman or Batman or Super Man ... then sure, your child is a boy and is approximately in around 3 years.
If there is a trait that is surprisingly repeated in male children, it is that tendency to be the strongest and most powerful, it is a very characteristic of the male condition and, without wishing to make an apology for the differences between roles, it is important that children children live this stage because, as we will see, it is important to shape the inherent traits of their male condition.
Girls, in the same way conditioned by their role and feminine nature, in these stages are faced with their first maternal instincts, developing their characteristics inherent to housework, mother and father games and dolls.
It does not have any particular to recognize that, certainly, we are different since our sex is defined.
From dinosaurs to superheroes
It is an interesting paradox to observe the process that takes place in the passage from dinosaurs to Superheros. For a child, dinosaurs are always interesting and fascinating, big, powerful and… scary, yes, dinosaurs are strong… just as strong and powerful as superheroes are later.
The male children They are forming their nature, strong, hard-working, protective and, defender of the weak, children, women and kittens… they are like that, it is their nature.
It would be very interesting if families, the environment, and societies in general, did not overlook these qualities that children have innately and promoted and lost the "strength and power" that children feel when they play at being Superheros, was consolidated as a determining trait of their level of self-esteem ... without a doubt, everything would work much better if men could and knew always what it means to be a super hero.
They grow up very fast
Almost without us realizing it, the stages will follow one another, sometimes they will go unnoticed until they have begun to descend. It is for this reason that, it is always advisable to have a moment a day to look at our son, not like yesterday, but like today in order to discover what changed in him and in what magical and wonderful stage he is now.
The three years, turning point
There is no doubt that the change in children from the age of three affects their overall behavior, however, the age of 3 is very special because many of these imitations of children develop and begin in them. Superheros so it is essential to pay attention and clearly explain the concepts in order to make them clear and beneficial to the adult in which they are going to transform.
To the 3 years
- Faintly recalls events that occurred in a space of twelve months before
- Recognizes people, objects and animals perfectly and, when they are not present, is able to identify the absence
- They start searching for their peers to play
- They still feel vulnerable and find in Superheros his first alter ego.
- His learning is fully active.
- They are usually fascinated by music, drawing and learning the plastic arts.
- The stories, stories and adventures are great fun for them, at this stage they begin to lay the foundations of a correct and frequent reading habit.
- Their imagination is at its peak and it is for this reason, that super heroes, dinosaurs and fighters, become their idols that together with the father figure, make up the universe with which they feel identified and begin to discover the differences and similarities with the girls.
Conclusions, the super heroes great allies of self-esteem
For all the aforementioned, it is not difficult to open a door towards the option of considering that, the different stages and the characters present in them, are shaping their personality and level of self-esteem as well as the concept of how the world works. Forging, promote the positive side of each stage, be an active part of his fantasy world and give him support and attention, explain the concepts ... make him a true superhero for all his life, without forgetting that the Superheros ... they also cry sometimes