There is barely a month for your children to come home with their school grades. The grades of the school subjects, but do you see in them the effort they make to pass? In many cases this is not the case. There are many children who try daily to try to get the most of themselves, but they fail.
They are failures that will only become learning if they are trusted and the effort is praised. If you make the mistake of punishing your children for having bad grades or repressing them over and over again because the results are not what you expected ... Then your child will only learn that he is not capable, that he is worthless And that in addition, he must lie to you every time he gets bad grades because if he does not, you will attack him and make him feel bad emotionally.
In this sense, it is necessary for parents to be aware that children are not numbers and that what is really worthwhile in their learning is to praise the effort. It can be many different factors that make his grades not what is expected (especially for him). For example, they may not know how to study, the academic content is too complicated or too easy, they may not be motivated to learn, you may have emotional issues that need to be explored ...
What matters is that parents always praise your effort and help you find the underlying cause that is causing you not to have the effort you need for better results. Because when you work on the underlying cause, then it is more than certain that you will get better results. Enhance communication and honesty between you and your children so that, if they have a problem, they know that they can come to you to seek help rather than lie to yourself for engaging in hostile behavior.